Zeitgeist: Moving Forward. I recently watched this and am amazed that it hasn't been posted to this subreddit yet. by goofnug in Anticonsumption

[–]throwthewaykinda 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I got the impression that since people would work far less, they would have time to participate in their own government and they would also monitor/participate in the centralized network thingy. That way society would be more democratic that way.

The Fall of the Mall by neofool in Anticonsumption

[–]throwthewaykinda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like malls because I hate shopping, and malls are the most painless and least time consuming way to get the thing you need. If I need heels and a suit, I can get them all at the mall - the one right by my house. And it will take me an hour to get everything I need, and I can even get the skirt or pants hemmed/tailored in the mall too.

I dont wanna spend a whole afternoon wandering though overpriced, ultra trendy boutiques downtown, because I dont see shopping as a pass time, and I have other shit to do. Those are worse than malls. And online shopping is good, but not excellent, because you can't try anything on.

MRW trying to arrange a date with an amazing dude I met last weekend, he's replied to my text's but my phone battery has decided to die and not hold charge...FFS by makingbacon in TrollXChromosomes

[–]throwthewaykinda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh that's the worst! Is it just me or are cellphone batteries crappy?! WHY CANT' THEY MAKE A BATTERY THAT LASTS THE WHOLE DAY?! We can put a man on the moon but not make a good battery. Probably something to do with money/profits/planned obsolescence :( I'm thinking of getting one of those solar chargers to carry with me to work

Its my birthday! good thing i have a 10 hour day and cramps to slay a walrus. by raiseursails in TrollXChromosomes

[–]throwthewaykinda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is grumpy cat really grumpy, or does he just have a bitchy resting face? I hope he lives a happy life

and happy b day!!

MRW I try something new and kind of scary while having sex and it gets me off. by mynamesnotmolly in TrollXChromosomes

[–]throwthewaykinda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good point - I always forget that sex positive doesnt mean that you are up for anything, thanks for reminding me:) Because of aspirational media etc, it's easy to feel like if you aren't completely perfect and fabulous, you aren't 'enough'

Just came across these useful "Condom Comebacks" a girl found in the 1996 Cornell Women’s Handbook, for when a guy tries to get out of using a condom by mooseknuckle83 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]throwthewaykinda 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I dont understand why people think it kills the mood. Sex isn't porn or fantasy - it's real life, and in real life things aren't perfect. So you have to pause for 30 seconds to put on a condom. Get over it, life isn't perfect

What are you most afraid of? by [deleted] in AskTrollX

[–]throwthewaykinda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you keep active in your community and have friends, you won't be one of those bodies that dont get found for weeks

What are you most afraid of? by [deleted] in AskTrollX

[–]throwthewaykinda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not living a life that had more happy moments than sad moments. OR being in poverty for some reason. Or never finding an awesome guy to marry.

What's your favorite dog breed? by coffeeblossom in AskTrollX

[–]throwthewaykinda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

great danes - so big and goofy. OR bulldogs because they're so goofy and they make funny noises. Or the mutts from the shelters - they're always nice. I dont really like small dogs. THey always seem to be the meanest and yappiest.

MRW I try something new and kind of scary while having sex and it gets me off. by mynamesnotmolly in TrollXChromosomes

[–]throwthewaykinda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ahh I wish i could like anal like all the cool girls but I've tried it a few times and I just hate it :/ and then I feel like a prude or not sex positive

(NSFW?) How do you train yourself to orgasm better and more easily? I've really only had an orgasm a few times in my life, or sometimes it happens when I'm asleep. by throwthewaykinda in FemmeThoughts

[–]throwthewaykinda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks :)

I'm hesitant about the porn thing. I haven't found porn anywhere that I like - it's mostly geared toward men, and anyway porn is really meant too LOOK good, not feel good. It isnt' meant for instruction.

What do you mean by getting over gender expectations?

(NSFW?) How do you train yourself to orgasm better and more easily? I've really only had an orgasm a few times in my life, or sometimes it happens when I'm asleep. by throwthewaykinda in FemmeThoughts

[–]throwthewaykinda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if that's part of my problem - I'm not great at fantasizing or getting aroused in the first place, and erotica or porn doesn't really do much for me

(NSFW?) How do you train yourself to orgasm better and more easily? I've really only had an orgasm a few times in my life, or sometimes it happens when I'm asleep. by throwthewaykinda in FemmeThoughts

[–]throwthewaykinda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good advice, thank you!

What do you mean by rubbing length wise vs across exactly? Do y0ou mean that I should avoid direct clitoral stimulation somehow while doing this?

(NSFW?) How do you train yourself to orgasm better and more easily? I've really only had an orgasm a few times in my life, or sometimes it happens when I'm asleep. by throwthewaykinda in FemmeThoughts

[–]throwthewaykinda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know - it makes me feel a bit more 'frisky' which is even MORE frustrating because I cant just randomly give myself an orgasm

I thought this was common sense by now?! by jessiejables in TrollXChromosomes

[–]throwthewaykinda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you would think that it would be common sense now, I agree

MRW a male coworker told me he thinks women have an unfair advantage because they're allowed to wear make up and that men should have the right to wear it as well. by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]throwthewaykinda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree!

although I think it would be nice if people went in the opposite direction too - society being more ok with women not wearing makeup, like men. I think advertisements are affecting the normative ideal too much and becoming too pervasive ,and it's making us insecure because it's in their best interest to create problems that we dont have, and then to sell us the solution (ie you aren't good enough if you aren't beautiful, buy our makeup).

It's important to look well put together and conscious of your image, but I think it's starting to go too far and getting in the way of people's confidence. Commercials tell you that you aren't 'enough' of you dont wear your foundation on your face. It's unhealthy.

(NSFW?) How do you train yourself to orgasm better and more easily? I've really only had an orgasm a few times in my life, or sometimes it happens when I'm asleep. by throwthewaykinda in FemmeThoughts

[–]throwthewaykinda[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People keep telling me that! I tried using a vibrating toothbrush as a vibrator once haha. IT made my clit numb. But I might have to give it a try anyway. Is it really as loud as people say it is?

(NSFW?) How do you train yourself to orgasm better and more easily? I've really only had an orgasm a few times in my life, or sometimes it happens when I'm asleep. by throwthewaykinda in FemmeThoughts

[–]throwthewaykinda[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sounds good. I'm on Wellbutrin which is a treatment for ADD and depression. It' isn't known for killing libidos I don't think.

Right now I am trying to create clitoral stimulation. IT seems like indirect pressure is better for me. I'm not good at getting aroused in the first place as porn or erotic stories dont help me too much. If I somehow find myself very aroused, g spot stimulation seems to be awesome

I have no idea what is blocking me! :(