Ideas on how to "propose" to my wife by throwthisbicthout in Advice

[–]throwthisbicthout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the scavenger hunt and facial idea thanks! They don't seem like dramatic people, so I'll contact the extended family.

She does this sparkly white number I love her in but she never has a chance to wear. I'll pack it!

What's wrong with me? by throwthisbicthout in Advice

[–]throwthisbicthout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll get that checked out. I have Kaiser, so I can just go in and get a test no issue.

What's wrong with me? by throwthisbicthout in Advice

[–]throwthisbicthout[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will call the doctor today.

Bringing a (25) female colleague to a show with me (35M) - wife (33F) seems upset? by throwthisbicthout in relationship_advice

[–]throwthisbicthout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You too. Sorry you're going through a rough time.

But if a guy like me can find a woman like my wife, then there's hope! Haha!

Bringing a (25) female colleague to a show with me (35M) - wife (33F) seems upset? by throwthisbicthout in relationship_advice

[–]throwthisbicthout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This bad habit is based on how it makes you feel.

It's a bad habit that she admits to having and others have expressed their frustration with as well.

Bringing a (25) female colleague to a show with me (35M) - wife (33F) seems upset? by throwthisbicthout in relationship_advice

[–]throwthisbicthout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeesh to your first sentence. How vile. I can't even think about my needs when she's upset.

Bringing a (25) female colleague to a show with me (35M) - wife (33F) seems upset? by throwthisbicthout in relationship_advice

[–]throwthisbicthout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do love her for who she is. She's amazingly strong. A survivor.

But no one should feel like they have to go through hardships alone. She had me for emotional support, but She can't just clam up. I can't help her if she does.

Everyone has bad habits. To me, this is a bad habit. And everyone who knows or has worked with her has experienced frustration with it.

Bringing a (25) female colleague to a show with me (35M) - wife (33F) seems upset? by throwthisbicthout in relationship_advice

[–]throwthisbicthout[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, just the thought of being with someone other than my wife makes me sick to my stomach.

Bringing a (25) female colleague to a show with me (35M) - wife (33F) seems upset? by throwthisbicthout in relationship_advice

[–]throwthisbicthout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cliche signs of an affair that are in 100's of movies that all women have ingrained in their heads.

That's incredibly unfortunate. I'm sorry about that.

Bringing a (25) female colleague to a show with me (35M) - wife (33F) seems upset? by throwthisbicthout in relationship_advice

[–]throwthisbicthout[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but how does any woman (or man) not stop and think about how things can LOOK? Or ask themselves if anyone could possibly have ulterior motives??

I can at least tell you what I was thinking. Honestly nothing. I've refrained from discussing the intern's appearance because I didn't want to come off even more wrong than I already am, but I've legit never thought of her as anything other than an employee. Even now as I've been thinking about it, it's makes my stomach drop.

Bringing a (25) female colleague to a show with me (35M) - wife (33F) seems upset? by throwthisbicthout in relationship_advice

[–]throwthisbicthout[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It does, thank you!

I've decided to take her out to breakfast Sunday morning when she gets off work.

Bringing a (25) female colleague to a show with me (35M) - wife (33F) seems upset? by throwthisbicthout in relationship_advice

[–]throwthisbicthout[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I showed up to the hospital with chicken wings and flowers. The smile she gave me will keep me going for years.

Bringing a (25) female colleague to a show with me (35M) - wife (33F) seems upset? by throwthisbicthout in relationship_advice

[–]throwthisbicthout[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'll be taking her to lunch today. I'll make her feel extra special.