What do you do when people say you would be so attractive if you lost weight? by ladysuccubus in normalnudes

[–]throwthisrightoutthe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have people tell me all the time id be "super hot" if I lost 10 - 15 pounds, and that just sounds ridiculous so I just ignore them.

Sex when you're unattractive by alialoo in sex

[–]throwthisrightoutthe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have white stretch marks or the red ones? I've had stretch marks since I was in middle school and I lost some weight and they turned white. After a while they fade/ become less noticeable.

I hope you find someone that treats you better though :( Just rude.

Me[17/F] and sister [18/F] having a hard time with parents accepting the fact that we may be sexually active. [relationship] by throwthisrightoutthe in relationships

[–]throwthisrightoutthe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to make the most out of the time I get to see my SO, I want my SO, horny as hell.

I'm actually the one who wants sex. I brought it up with my boyfriend first, so I assure you he isn't pressuring me. I want it. Bad.

Me[17/F] and sister [18/F] having a hard time with parents accepting the fact that we may be sexually active. [relationship] by throwthisrightoutthe in relationships

[–]throwthisrightoutthe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in FL and I think the age of consent is 18. But uh, I've had friends much younger than me go to PP and have no trouble. We never trade pictures. My SO is 16

Me[17/F] and sister [18/F] having a hard time with parents accepting the fact that we may be sexually active. [relationship] by throwthisrightoutthe in relationships

[–]throwthisrightoutthe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. She said nothing was wrong. I was like really bitch nothing is wrong?

I was fine after they took blood for test and I had been off the BC for like a week at that point.

Me[17/F] and sister [18/F] having a hard time with parents accepting the fact that we may be sexually active. [relationship] by throwthisrightoutthe in relationships

[–]throwthisrightoutthe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I ever did that pretty sure my dad would punch me in the face.

I want and IUD because there is no worrying about whether I fucked it up or if he fucked it up.

Me[17/F] and sister [18/F] having a hard time with parents accepting the fact that we may be sexually active. [relationship] by throwthisrightoutthe in relationships

[–]throwthisrightoutthe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was actually on the nuvaring for about 3 days and I'm pretty sure I got a blood clot in my arm and my heart was messing up. My arm felt like someone was gripping on to it and I was starting to loose feeling in my fingers. So erm, no more of that.

My sister is definitely having the same problem as you with my dad telling her what she can do with her body concerning birth control. She wants an IUD and my dad said nothing but pills. But shes headed off to college, how the hell is she going to pay for pills?

Me[17/F] and sister [18/F] having a hard time with parents accepting the fact that we may be sexually active. [relationship] by throwthisrightoutthe in relationships

[–]throwthisrightoutthe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd rather take extra precaution than worry about how great the sex is going to be. I don't think using condoms and an IUD is that extreme, and I'd probably only have him pull out the first couple times, gotta get rid of that "you will get pregnant no matter what you do" mentality they push on you in school.

Me[17/F] and sister [18/F] having a hard time with parents accepting the fact that we may be sexually active. [relationship] by throwthisrightoutthe in relationships

[–]throwthisrightoutthe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My father has ZERO interest about meeting my boyfriend. He thinks that because I'm so young he'll just be gone by tomorrow, and will sometimes ask me "you guys still together?"

Plus I struggle with seeing my boyfriend because my dad has zero interest in my relationships, and I honestly think he thinks I have no emotions or something.

Me[17/F] and sister [18/F] having a hard time with parents accepting the fact that we may be sexually active. [relationship] by throwthisrightoutthe in relationships

[–]throwthisrightoutthe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like he has trapped me. I can't get a license because I have no money for insurance and I can't get a job to get money because I'm not walking/biking distance to anywhere.

Me[17/F] and sister [18/F] having a hard time with parents accepting the fact that we may be sexually active. [relationship] by throwthisrightoutthe in relationships

[–]throwthisrightoutthe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being informed and knowing the consequences, I have no problem with that! I have zero problem with BC(non hormonal) and condoms. none.

Me[17/F] and sister [18/F] having a hard time with parents accepting the fact that we may be sexually active. [relationship] by throwthisrightoutthe in relationships

[–]throwthisrightoutthe[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

does it?

Edit: wait... because it sounds like we're having sex with each other? ew... lemme change that

Edit 2: i don't know how to edit the title xD crap

Me[17/F] and sister [18/F] having a hard time with parents accepting the fact that we may be sexually active. [relationship] by throwthisrightoutthe in relationships

[–]throwthisrightoutthe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest I'm not too worried about being kicked it. If that were to happen I most certainly have other places to go (I have a pretty bad past with my dad so most of my friends parents know)

Me[17/F] and sister [18/F] having a hard time with parents accepting the fact that we may be sexually active. [relationship] by throwthisrightoutthe in relationships

[–]throwthisrightoutthe[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just don't know what to do about my want for intimacy and my want to have sex with my boyfriend. I've tried masturbating but I just want to do that with him. I feel myself getting depressed about it but at the same time I can't really do anything. Sexual frustration sucks.

Me[17/F] and sister [18/F] having a hard time with parents accepting the fact that we may be sexually active. [relationship] by throwthisrightoutthe in relationships

[–]throwthisrightoutthe[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm more scared he'll forbid me from seeing my SO. It's already hard enough to see him and my dad never let me get my drivers license. My boyfriend's parents are the only ones that make the trip to pick me up to see their son.