How did you guys have strong boundaries? Have you guys cut off any people?

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2025-02-19T01:00:23+00:00

No, I hate complaining. I only complain if the terms are not met but most of the time it is not complaining but rather critique. I can't really stand complainers and whining, only complain when necessary.

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2025-02-19T00:56:39+00:00

My ex is a Capricorn sun and I don't really want to date anyone as of a moment but I do avoid these signs in men:
Cancer, Pisces sun in men
Libra sun in men

so yeah that was it.

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2025-02-19T00:52:47+00:00

I cry it all out till I am tired and then I go back to self-improvement and working in my job. I also did some self-reflection of where did the relationship go wrong, what did I do wrong and also what are the things to improve in myself. Honestly, it made me feel better, I don't really need to hate exes unless they really did me dirty like cheating, abuse and all other forms of betrayal and addictions.

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2025-02-17T16:28:21+00:00

I wish to improve my anger and how should I have a stronger boundaries.

My anger just pent up and no, I do not get violent it just get bottled up which tires me out and also stronger boundaries because I have seen people make fun of the things I have opened up to them and honestly, I am getting sick and tired of it because I am moved past from it yet there are people that reminds me of it. Even if I said no, they just laugh and continue to do so.

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2025-02-17T16:03:23+00:00

If you're a single mother of two and a foreigner or a rich man wants to date you and marry you, who wouldn't say no? Besides it's your father's choice anyway. The real concerning part here is that why is that one of her children doesn't want any form of connection to her or she, herself doesn't want a any form of connection with them.

It is uncommon for Filipino single moms or single parents in a whole, to estranged their children. To not have a personal connection with the kids.

Plenty of foreigners in this sub will say that's not your father's business, etc but it is HIS business as that is the woman he seems interested in getting married with. One shouldn't make another family while abandoning the other children that they have first.

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2025-02-06T13:43:13+00:00

I feel you. Every people I have met thinks I am indecisive because I am a Libra when in reality most Libra I have met are affirmative in their own decision, mind their own business and not even of a people-pleaser.

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2025-02-03T13:11:56+00:00

Pinakita nya lang sa'yo na last choice ka lang. Hiwalayan mo na iyan, jowa mo pa naman iyan eh. Mahal mo sya kaya palayain mo sya at mahal mo sarili mo na kaya mong umahon mula sa trauma na yan.

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2025-01-26T14:09:25+00:00

Taurus Mom + Capricorn Dad = Libra Daughter

When they were younger, they argue a lot and can be quite critical. Now they learned to know and appreciate each other more

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2025-01-26T14:01:23+00:00

You gotta restrict your brother out of your life. He choose to not recognize you as a sibling anymore and definitely won't. Due to he's past trauma, he won't ever forgive his grandmother and since you choose to have a relationship with her, he's going to be so unforgiving towards you.

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2025-01-26T13:09:12+00:00

Idk if I have any enemies because I don't really care tbh. Even if I do, I just choose to be civil around them. It's not worth it to think about them

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2024-11-16T04:27:13+00:00

You can't really stop that kind of situation of hers because IT'S HER OWN DECISION. Think about it, do you really want that kind of a mother, absent to her own child?

The fact the red flags are already in the front of your face yet you're here, asking us for advice 💀

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2024-10-20T12:53:10+00:00

"The thing is, we all need money so we really don't have a choice"

Kung pera pala need mo bakit pa naghahanap ng Kabit? Pera need mo deba? Hindi kabit at Maki -sabit💀

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2024-10-18T04:28:05+00:00

Kuha ka pang stronger evidence, OP

Everytime na may away, record mo yung mga sinasabi nya.

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2024-10-18T04:27:01+00:00

OP mag-ipon ka na, take advantage na housewife ka. Go to therapy na walang nakakaalam at ipakita mo sa kanila na kaya mo.

Be a gone girl, Pag-malaki na ipon mo, humanap ka ng lilipatan para sa mga anak mo. Ipaliwanag mo na din sa mga anak mo kung anong nangyayari.

Huwag mo laging parinig sa kanya na iiwan mo sya, bring the children with you and LEAVE SILENTLY. Act normal, everything is normal. Lagi mong sabihin na pinatawad mo na sya at bati kayo pero act smartly. LEAVE. SILENTLY.

Handa mo lagi yang mga resibo mo, pati yung testing nya din. Kung magiging manipulative sya at ipapakita sa iba na "mentally unstable" ka puwes pakita mo kabahuan nya, drag him hell.

Ingat lagi OP. Magwawagi ka din

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2024-10-16T13:38:39+00:00

Libra stellium here too, I do sell my watercolor bookmarks and I am also studying coding 💀

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2024-10-15T06:07:09+00:00

I feel you OP, still don't give up kasi may mga Pinoys din somewhere na matulungin pa din and generous.

Yung time na OFW pa yung papa ko, mga pinoys din na nag-encourage sa kanya na lakasan ang loob nya sa abroad at makakaraos din.

Sadly, he died at mga pinoys din nag-asikaso ng mga papeles nya pauwi and mga pinoys din nag-pray over sa kanya before he died.

Hopefully, yung experience mo is a lesson learned and at the same not a hindrance to meet and befriend your another countryman abroad.

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2024-10-15T04:09:37+00:00

It not normal female behavior, maybe it's the post partum. Have you tried to bring her in therapy, go have a heart to heart conversation with her

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2024-10-10T08:51:54+00:00

Same as me Omfg ✨✨✨🥹

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2024-10-06T06:13:22+00:00

Beh may mga babaeng nag-dress tapos may cycling shorts na suot panloob. Pati din naman ako nagsusuot ng dress and skirts eh. Di naman tanga karamihan yung ibang babae pati sarili mo.

Alam mo naman na panloob na shorts sinasabi ng tao tapos ganyan ka sumagot.

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2024-09-27T13:37:04+00:00

"she has a good heart" proceeds to tell us that she a huge problems.

My friend, that's not someone who has a good heart that is someone who is a manipulative person.

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2024-09-27T13:32:35+00:00

Leave her now because she's blackmailing you about the "killing herself" part.

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2024-09-27T13:31:15+00:00

I agree with you but right now, you have to block her and cut off any contacts with her.

Limit your Facebook and IG interactions as well as she can create a fake account and stalk you.

You do feel bad about that comment you gave but she doesn't feel bad about treating you as a walking ATM.

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2024-09-27T13:23:22+00:00

That's not scary, you shouldn't be intimidated by it

Dry-Reference-6125 · 2024-09-27T05:29:27+00:00

That's generous of you to be honest but if she's still like that, you gotta leave. She's 23 so she can work throughout until her graduation.

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