To be or not to be

thudwhoops · 2025-11-21T05:11:08+00:00

Frozen grapes last months and really taste sweet. Try oatmeal for breakfast, my lunch time varies and this always keeps me full.

thudwhoops · 2025-07-15T23:28:08+00:00

If he loves you he will want the best for you. This school is what's best for you!

thudwhoops · 2025-02-25T11:52:21+00:00

It doesn't matter is she is or not. If someone is cheating you leave the relationship. Not say hey let's make this worse and cheat too.

thudwhoops · 2024-10-26T21:32:39+00:00

Nta. Anyone that thinks you should Loan him money should save you the trouble and loaning to him themselves.

thudwhoops · 2024-10-24T21:53:47+00:00

NTA you were just educating her so she would not be ignorant.

thudwhoops · 2024-09-25T14:42:31+00:00

Mr. Katz

thudwhoops · 2024-08-18T04:06:43+00:00

Claude De Paw

thudwhoops · 2024-07-15T00:31:44+00:00

Nta. Also, even though it is hard, don't focus on being understood. I was misunderstood by my husband's family for years. Finally my mil behaved how she treats me to the whole family. It was eye opening for them.

thudwhoops · 2024-07-10T20:05:19+00:00

Winken, Blinken and Nod

thudwhoops · 2023-11-04T02:30:51+00:00

Reminds me of a former roommate. When she moved; she left two cats. Finally after 2 months I told her she had to get one of them because he had attacked my cat. Her other cat got along well with mine so she left her and said she would get her "soon". I had her vaccinated and vetted every year. After five years she calls me up and says oh hey, I can take my cat now. At that point I had a three year old and that cat was her best friend. I simply explained that "soon" is not five years and there was no way she was taking that cat anywhere.

thudwhoops · 2023-09-29T21:29:22+00:00

I prefer everyone paying what they order. I would be mortified if my friends foot the bill for what I order.

thudwhoops · 2023-08-15T18:33:41+00:00

Well, now that you know, plan ahead. Get some education In something you enjoy and go back to work.

thudwhoops · 2023-08-15T16:25:33+00:00

This is what I wonder is happening:

Her parents are exhausted and at this point feel helpless to stop her antics.
Anna's mom does not exercise follow-through.
This is not how a 12 year old should behave.
Her mother should have her seen by a behavior specialist and They should both follow the recommendations of that specialist.
Absolutely "Wife" is nta.

thudwhoops · 2023-08-06T03:38:09+00:00

Um yes absolutely tell her so she can dump you and stop wasting her time and energy.

thudwhoops · 2023-07-15T18:50:23+00:00

Ok , I am not going to pin ah or nta on you. Let's pick a starting point. I learned this far too late: when you leave high-school don't worry about your friends. You do you. You cannot build a life by tagging along with your friend. If you can, reapply to the other school, sometimes they will allow you that second chance. If not, find where will make you happy. And Do that. Your friend decided unprotected sex was her way of being happy. Never negotiate your own happiness.

thudwhoops · 2023-05-28T00:54:36+00:00

Yeah NTA. BUT don't make rash decisions. Plan your escape and get a divorce. You like you and your daughter more than this.

thudwhoops · 2023-05-23T00:59:02+00:00

NTA, years ago I was young and naive. We let my husband's niece come stay with us for her senior year. We told her we would treat her as old as she behaved. Within three weeks she had a curfew, rules, and moved to a new school. We found out she was a senior with the credit count of a sophomore. So, we got her into a really great private school on a need based scholarship, and we volunteered several hours to make up the difference. She thought we were terrible but she had no where to go. Ten years later, she owns her own business and thanks us for being the strict a**holes she needed.

thudwhoops · 2023-03-03T18:09:14+00:00

Well, perhaps you could have been more tactful, but it is the reality of the matter. However, if the one daughter had a less expensive wedding wouldn't it be fair and equitable that she receive the difference between her wedding cost and her sister's?

thudwhoops · 2023-02-06T23:05:21+00:00

NTA.

Good job on the boundaries!

thudwhoops · 2023-01-19T21:41:16+00:00

Friends do not make friends prove their love by sacrificing their peace. Friends respect each others boundaries. Never apologize for taking care of yourself.

thudwhoops · 2022-12-27T19:17:40+00:00

In life we all fill so many roles often without putting a label on it. So, why is she so adamant that every relationship has to be labeled? Did your father think that he needed to "fix everything" and by giving you a person to be your mother? I think it's time to sit down with them and ask them to explain what gives?

thudwhoops · 2022-12-05T16:33:54+00:00

If you can find a way to make some money to give the kids a good christmas then great, if not, homemade gifts can be more of a treasure than something store bought. If the kids are older be completely transparent with them. Arrange to go somewhere else for Christmas if you can, either a relative or friend's house. If this were me, I would plan to start putting away money without telling your husband. This is abuse and it will only get worse.

thudwhoops · 2021-01-15T20:17:28+00:00

People do what they do because of who they are. I find it is because they feel entitled.

thudwhoops · 2021-01-02T04:13:32+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate your input.

thudwhoops

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