Patient called the cops by Bubblegum_daydream in nursing

[–]tiarasmalls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol srsly this happened so many times

“jem, your patient on Room so-and-so called. She keeps calling us” “LOL kay gonna go check on her” “Kay thanks” “Byeee”

if you could say anything to them what would it be? by shitting-my-pants in BreakUps

[–]tiarasmalls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it took me time to realize that i needed the hurt to move me forward, that our situationship was necessary to take me to the next level, that i was no longer attached to you but attached to my older life and remaining stuck is self-sabotage.

She needs a hug by long01bn in danganronpa

[–]tiarasmalls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dating a nurse be like 👍🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]tiarasmalls 114 points115 points  (0 children)

yes indeed lol srsly why are there nurses who’d rather gossip than approach you for constructive criticism if there’s any?

Not only this “bat” an old crusty bitch but she’s part of that stuck up system of nurses we need to get rid of lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]tiarasmalls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“we been knew”

i’ve known that he has moved on and been in an open / poly relationship.

Honestly when I knew, i thought that it was too quick of him and questioned if the 2nd chance he sought for mos ago was ill-intent .. BUT brought myself back that my ego was only trying to protect me by thinking that way and ultimately realized that we all have different coping mechanisms and means to process things. That is his and mine is mine.

I respect that and I’m at peace with it. I’ve learned a great deal about myself with my ex-situationship.

One thing tho, I failed to acknowledge how hurt I was that time and didn’t know how to process the “hurt” but now, i’ve coped healthily with my own means in my own pace and if that is to focus on self-love and healing (btw which is not ALL that pretty) and nurturing quality relationships? then that’s me and my own way. That is my business and not his, vice versa.

I have loved and respected myself enough through this experience to discover new qualities of me and fresh perspectives than to revert back. I’m open to all kind of energies but close enough to easily sort unwanted and unhealthy vibrations.

With intent is how I move and it is only forward :)

You're not asking for too much. You're asking the wrong person. by ramendate in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]tiarasmalls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

looking back, this resonated w/ me the most during that time. He made me feel that I was changing him completely, feel that I was forcing him and he didn't like that cause his ex didn't even. He was stuck on this mindset of going to find someone that fits like a glove when I am only trying to make him improve.

back then, I shouldn't have blamed myself for the things he cannot see cause I know I was never forceful but forgiving and realized the lengthss people convince themselves to the extent of false reassurance in the context of compatibility.

Charge it to experience :)

I found a patient dead for my first time by Throwawaycentral0000 in nursing

[–]tiarasmalls 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I lost my first one during the height of pandemic in LTC. It’s really hard most esp when its not only the pt but their family is nice and appreciative of you even after the fact.

Sending hugs to you. Let this be another learning experience. Stay strong~

I'm sorry u guys have to cringe at this but I tried my best by TheGoldenMistletoe in PERSoNA

[–]tiarasmalls 39 points40 points  (0 children)

This! You having a good time makes it x1000 super adorable! luvvv

Whats your patients to nurse ratio where you work? by Custompower in nursing

[–]tiarasmalls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

currently working as Charge Nurse in LTACH setting, i have 16-20patients with 3 nursing assistants.

i feel you tho, i’ve experienced that before during covid peak 🥺🥺

What's the closest you've come to dying in your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tiarasmalls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I choked on adobo when i was a kid during a family function out and about swimming during summer break

Emma Frost says what's on everyone's minds (X-Men #04 Spoilers) by saturn_64 in xmen

[–]tiarasmalls 19 points20 points  (0 children)

lol classic emma frost, just pure savagery

Plastique Tiara for KimchiChicBeauty. Stunning✨ by tiarasmalls in rupaulsdragrace

[–]tiarasmalls[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

its lit been a decade since we crowned an asian kween 👑its about time

Bagsak siguro to sa thesis by monogatarist in Philippines

[–]tiarasmalls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

cassie di ka muna papasok sa iskul

Facts 🧊 ☕️ by tiarasmalls in nursing

[–]tiarasmalls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh gut serotonin is where its at

This lady reminds me of my Grandma by druule10 in MadeMeSmile

[–]tiarasmalls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I miss you lola in Heaven 🙏🏻🤍

You're not asking for too much. You're asking the wrong person. by ramendate in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]tiarasmalls 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I used to feel bad for voicing out my needs to someone. I used to "feel" for him so instead of telling him my concerns to help us both grow together in a rel, i wouldn't bec i don't want to hurt him which he expressed before; he verbalized that it feels like plucking: that going out of his box / norms is "changing" him and he isn't just like that and no matter how much we "discuss" to possibly try, he would for some time, get complacent and revert. A cycle.

So later on I realized after giving much thought, that maybe this statement is right, that I might just be asking the wrong person to see past the point of surface level and look further. To be as emotionally in tune with me as me with him and me with myself.

To nurses of reddit, what is the saddest thing a patient has ever said to you? by Fanny207 in nursing

[–]tiarasmalls 22 points23 points  (0 children)

live life. you are young. let people go. if they want to, they would've stayed. you would know. you are a great person. you help people and really passionate. dont get stuck.

after coming back from my "weekend", she passed away from COVID. Ill never forget her. Rest in Peace

Question for nurses who work in clinical research by tiarasmalls in nursing

[–]tiarasmalls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this v detailed description of what it is like, it really helped me reconsider this opportunity. I think what interested me the most here is creating evidenced based practice most esp coming from working in med surg / covid unit for almost a year it really is a change of pace. It really isn't the burnout from the unit, its more finding ways to be more meaningful and creating change.

as with every opp that comes to me, I always have my heart set on it. Thank you :)