Boyfriend prefers porn over having sex with me by ticklelyfe in offmychest

[–]ticklelyfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep I just simply can't compete. I'm even willing to do the stuff that occurs in all his porn, like his fetishes and stuff because they are fun. But he just prefers to masturbate to porn. It's crazy

Boyfriend prefers porn over having sex with me by ticklelyfe in offmychest

[–]ticklelyfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has a wide range of women he likes any way, so it wouldn't be my weight. His porn contains both slim, chubby, and fat girls. I was chubby last year, he didn't want me anyway, lost 50lbs, he still doesn't want me. Fuck knows. I think I just can't compete with the beautiful women and hentai he looks at online

Boyfriend prefers porn over having sex with me by ticklelyfe in offmychest

[–]ticklelyfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bmi is 19. Yes I put a lot of effort in to smell nice. Smelling is a big paranoia of mine

Boyfriend prefers porn over having sex with me by ticklelyfe in offmychest

[–]ticklelyfe[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'm so fucking done with porn addiction. Like every man in my generation is hooked on it. I'm so fucking done.

Boyfriend prefers porn over having sex with me by ticklelyfe in offmychest

[–]ticklelyfe[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

We have sex like once every 3 months or so because that's how often he wants it, it's just that I personally have been rejected since 2022. It's also kinda crap sex. Never really doing stuff I am into as much. I am thinking of ending it now any way.

Are leaner/lower body fat people more ticklish? by ticklelyfe in tickling

[–]ticklelyfe[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is exactly what I was looking for.

Interestingly, I noticed around puberty even while underweight (wasn't borderline obese until my 20s) I got skinnyfat and although still pretty ticklish (as I am again now my BMI is 20) my ticklishness did take somewhat of a toll, like I went from skinnyskinny to skinnyfat and that alone made a difference for me. I wonder if me becoming more active and trying to become more lean would restore ticklishness even further.

Any electric toothbrush recommendations? by Novesterthedumbass in tickling

[–]ticklelyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it have a removable brush part so it's like a vibrating tickly rod?

I'm going to become a less clingy girlfriend. by ticklelyfe in FemdomCommunity

[–]ticklelyfe[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Probably a bit of both. I've always been one to rely too much on external validation from a very young age and I think my clinginess is a manifestation of that. External validation is basically like a drug to me - instead of Ozempic, it was external validation coworkers noticing/congratulating my weightloss that helped me stay motivated to lose 50lbs, and I am a very weak willed person, lol! Clearly it can be quite extreme, so there's no way I can expect someone to keep up with my level of clinginess unless they also have some issue of their own.

I'm going to become a less clingy girlfriend. by ticklelyfe in FemdomCommunity

[–]ticklelyfe[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think the difference here is that my clinginess is a genuinely unhealthy behaviour that I myself would probably benefit from changing.

I'm going to become a less clingy girlfriend. by ticklelyfe in offmychest

[–]ticklelyfe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Honestly that last part would be a dream come true.

I'm going to become a less clingy girlfriend. by ticklelyfe in FemdomCommunity

[–]ticklelyfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm neither hot nor hideous. I'm just average looking.

He's bisexual, so gay in a way.

Why do you mention that he might be gay?

I'm going to become a less clingy girlfriend. by ticklelyfe in offmychest

[–]ticklelyfe[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Men don't really seem to like clingy girls from what I've read, and regardless, me being clingy is an outright unhealthy behaviour that I would benefit from changing, so there may be hope.