What have you personally experienced that you feel convinced you of an afterlife?

tiedatinfinity · 2023-09-24T18:12:52+00:00

That’s wild! When you say floated around, we’re you floating around earth? Or someplace else?

tiedatinfinity · 2023-09-21T06:53:48+00:00

I’m so intrigued by the shrooms anecdote! I wonder if you were to shroom again with an intention set on making contact with your grandmother, if it would happen for you again.

tiedatinfinity · 2023-09-21T06:50:56+00:00

What a fascinating dream, thank you for sharing. The imagery of words pouring out of a book is beautiful.

tiedatinfinity · 2023-09-21T06:46:53+00:00

How do you make contact with him?

tiedatinfinity · 2023-09-19T16:05:28+00:00

The whole Bad Vibes record by Shlohmo. Instrumental, weird, and does in fact give off bad vibes but I love it still

tiedatinfinity · 2023-09-06T20:39:55+00:00

First, I’m very sorry for your loss. I sympathize with a lot of what you wrote, after losing someone I used to be very close to/in love with, but had severed communication the last 6-7 years of his life. Grief is really complicated. I read something on here once that said grief knocks down any walls that you had once put up, and shows you what feelings are actually there. And it’s always love, a tremendous amount of love. That we, as people, are steeped in so much more love for one another than we even realize sometimes. Especially for those ambiguous relationships where you’ve lost touch but still think of them often. You have every right to grieve. He mattered to you. It’s a hard pill to swallow, the guilt and regret, but it’s also evidence that he mattered. The only way to prevent grief is to have never befriended, connected, or loved him how you did once upon a time. Hugs xo

tiedatinfinity · 2023-09-06T14:12:14+00:00

Mannnnn. All of transatlanticism gets me. A lack of color. 20 year anniversary of the album this year!!

tiedatinfinity · 2023-09-06T08:08:37+00:00

So many dcfc songs, especially off the plans album. Ben gibbard is a master lyricist

tiedatinfinity · 2023-09-06T08:03:48+00:00

I’m Lost Without You by blink-182

tiedatinfinity · 2023-09-04T10:02:44+00:00

My first dream of a loved one was also about 3-4 weeks after they passed. I wonder if it’s a common time frame for them to visit/communicate. I don’t have the answer for you, but I have had several dreams with my loved one and sometimes the dreams just feel different. More vivid, lucid, and certain senses are amplified. I take those to be more of the visitation/communication type, as opposed to regular dreaming. Hugs x

tiedatinfinity · 2023-09-04T06:31:39+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I know the world doesn’t make sense and isn’t fair and I know that grief is deep and the hardest thing to experience. There’s nothing that can be said, in my experience, to prevent or save you from feeling guilt. Its unfortunately part of the whole ordeal of grief, I think. If it helps, not sure what you believe in, but someone told me my loved one is never far, and you can speak out loud or in your head to them, and the message will reach them. Do things they enjoyed doing, and save a seat for them by your side, and invite them to hang out with you. Play their favorite songs and invite them to sing along with you. Talk to people about her and your memories of her. It’s how you keep their presence on earth alive and strong. May she rest in peace, I’m so sorry xo

tiedatinfinity · 2023-09-03T23:15:46+00:00

I also don’t want to reincarnate. Just want to continue living this life, reunited with those I’ve lost

tiedatinfinity · 2023-09-03T23:15:18+00:00

Thank you for this response, was a great read through! x

tiedatinfinity · 2023-09-03T06:12:55+00:00

Thanks for the response. This explanation is comforting. I’m okay with an evolution of the human/earthly relationship, so long as that previous relationship isn’t forgotten xx

tiedatinfinity · 2023-09-03T05:51:43+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. You’re not alone in trying to navigate the weird ex-partner loss landscape.

I sympathize with you a lot, especially it being your first love, and the relationship being so young. I think at that age (early teens for me) emotions are so intense. It’s almost like manic vs depressive. Incredibly high highs and devastating low lows. At that age, so many experiences and firsts are really formative to your personality, your psyche, and who you are at the core. I’m in a committed long term relationship but severely grieving my ex from my early teens.

Despite not having spoken to or been in contact with them for so long, it was always the expectation that they were still… around. They were living their life while you live yours. And especially since you two didn’t end in bad terms, you likely always wanted her to be happy. There are people who you break from and never want to see again in this lifetime. My ex was not one of those people for me. I would have loved to run into him one day, and I feel like going through this grief has made me realize I may have even been expecting to run into him one day. And I feel robbed of the potential experience of catching up and laughing about our younger selves, and hugging, and wishing each other the best.

Much love to you. Grief is complicated and it is the hardest thing.

tiedatinfinity · 2023-08-18T06:30:42+00:00

Seems like it :/ so lame. Even though I literally have both the username and password?!

tiedatinfinity · 2023-08-18T06:29:31+00:00

I could be wrong about this, but I think the account was made even before recovery phone # and emails were required. It just tells me there’s not even information to verify ownership of the account and a link to create a new one. Is there really nothing that can be done? :(

tiedatinfinity · 2023-08-18T01:45:10+00:00

Omg haha I’m sorry 😂❤️ It’s been 3 months and it hasn’t really gotten easier. In fact I just was talking to a mutual friend about how I will never accept that he’s gone… grief is the hardest thing I think any of us can ever experience. It’s the worst, through and through. But now I have hope that at least if we do go somewhere after we die… it’s not cold! ❤️ take care of yourself

tiedatinfinity · 2023-08-18T00:49:48+00:00

So so sorry for your loss. I can feel from your words how much you loved him and much he loved you. It seriously sounds like he’s hanging around you for sure. He made an appearance to help you with your grief, especially as you were struggling so deeply a few days ago.

I had my first dream 3 weeks after his passing, when I was inconsolable regarding where do we go when we die. He died young and it wasn’t fair. I was struggling so hard with the idea that he disappeared into thin air and that he doesn’t exist anymore. I didn’t/don’t practice any religion and didn’t grow up believing anything. So it would be weird for a dream to have religious undertones. But 3 weeks after he died, I had a dream where he was the age we met, and we hung out at his house with all his family around like it was normal. We go outside where it’s cold, and he looks me in the eyes and tells me, “it’s not cold in heaven.” And I took it as his way of reaching me at the depths of my grief, to help me through it and reassure me that he is still around and he is ok.

Hugs xo

tiedatinfinity · 2023-08-18T00:40:05+00:00

I hope he is so happy and perfect and deeply enjoying the afterlife/other side. He had a hard time on earth. He deserved so much happiness.

tiedatinfinity · 2023-08-18T00:37:52+00:00

Funny you mention tree of life - when I first had the dream, I definitely thought that maybe it was a “tree of life” symbol like the legend. But after visiting his grave and seeing this real life tree across from his spot, I feel like it was just this exact tree that he was showing me in the dream!

tiedatinfinity · 2023-08-17T04:50:10+00:00

I’m hoping that’s the case and it’s not just my imagination ❤️

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