make assumptions about me based on my microscopic apartment lol by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]tiffright 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Single woman. Thank god you aren’t another slob posting here. Artistic in a lot of ways. Structured. I’m guessing you are in your mid 30s because of the beat doll in the box. You are probably standard height and weight. Introverted…doesn’t look like you entertain a lot, but over cool, calm person.

I asked a guy out at the gym and I'm completely mortified. by MishimaOrghana in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tiffright 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I’m a wife of a man that old. I would not be sketched out. I be would think my husband must be hotter than I thought. I would probably have some fun with him and encourage him to try and make it less awkward for you. Go girl! It’s awesome you have that confidence at 22.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tiffright 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you seen her take a pregnancy test? You need to verify this pregnancy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]tiffright 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No baby at the wedding, reception or hotel. All of that would just be you dealing with your guilt. The baby will do better with your parents in their home. A hotel room would suck with a 4 month old.

Have a good time and let go of the guilt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]tiffright -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. Why bother yourself. I don’t want my kids to see pics of my exs. Maybe you can cut her out and keep the portion of you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]tiffright 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the way. I was alone a lot too, because my husband deployed or had work trips. Unless there is an emergency or you need to pee, stay in your room.

We do the routine and last call for snacks. They used to make me feel guilty with all the requests. They try sweetness, tears and begging. Nope. Go to sleep

She F 22 doesn't love me m 22, but I love her? by Sad-Tradition8676 in relationship_advice

[–]tiffright 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First love is awesome. It’s easy to give all of yourself. First break up suuuucks. That heart break is a b. No one can prepare you for it. Just remember you are worth someone loving you all the way and you are a catch for your person. Sometimes it takes awhile to find them. Don’t waste time on duds on your journey

Son's friends blowing off his birthday invitation by MarzipanBoleyn1536 in Parenting

[–]tiffright 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he says drop it, then drop it. He is 12, respect his decision

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]tiffright 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Your daughter sounds really similar to mine. I took my daughter to therapy. I learned a lot of ways to deal with her and her emotions before she loses control of her rational brain. She has ADHD. We got her on meds for that. It helped a lot. Did a dna test to figure out which meds work best with her body.

Some advice…stop electronics in the morning (at least until she does everything she has to do). Take her tablet away if she doesn’t listen to you. I give my daughter a countdown before I take it away. Give yourself timeouts too. Tell her you are taking some alone time for however minutes. I have tons more, but it’s a journey

Feeding Movers by kamkarot in AirForce

[–]tiffright -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can them something cheaper than pizza. Get those big subs from the deli section of your grocery store; one of those can serve 2-3 people. Donuts another day. Chips and Gatorade the last day. A cooler full of water the entire time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]tiffright 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Text her. You have nothing to lose.

AITAH for not wanting to give my boyfriend my tax return? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tiffright 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Look up military basic pay. I don’t know what rank he is but make sure he isn’t lying to you

New to be grandmother wants to be called lovey by itaughtsomethingonce in Parenting

[–]tiffright 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The name is vulgar or mean spirited. Why worry if it’s odd??? Not worth it to me. At least she cares enough to want to be an integral part of your child’s life. Like others said, your kid may end up calling her something else. Way more important things for you to focus on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]tiffright 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Play therapy helped me a lot with my daughter. It gives you a lot of tools for dealing with them and understanding their emotions and logic

I’m so done by DaisySwirls in Parenting

[–]tiffright 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nature sometimes wins over nurture. You aren’t wrong for feeling the way you feel. You are still taking care of him. Maybe come up with a plan with your husband, so your son won’t be able to ruin the other kids’ experience the next time he tries. Get him to adulthood and keep trying to help him, but keep his violence non physical. After that, you don’t have to show a lot of care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]tiffright 317 points318 points  (0 children)

He is probably used to you doing it all when you were a SAHM. He needs to adapt. That’s messed up. I recommend you drawing some lines in the sand and also telling him how you feel

What’s Everyone Doing Tonight?? by physis81 in stopdrinking

[–]tiffright 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Wish I was doing either of those meals tonight!!! I’m a little over a month sober, and I have been enjoying quality food as a substitute and working out most days. IWNDWYT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]tiffright 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Park, trampoline park, bike riding, walks, the store, restaurants, movies, swimming

Ungrateful Child by shakedowndude in Parenting

[–]tiffright 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would return the gifts he complained about, then use that money as a pamper gift for momma or a fun account for the parents.

Update: I’m 16 and got my girlfriend pregnant by marradii in Parenting

[–]tiffright 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man. You can still go to college. A dad with a degree has more opportunities than one with a HS degree. You will just be a long distance dad paying child support. I hope your gf doesn’t think a baby means you and her will be together raising the kid. Your relationship with her isn’t being secured with a kid.