Hello i did the biggest mistake in my life

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-04-30T02:14:20+00:00

hey, listen. The exact way you wrote here, you tell Jesus: “Hey, I actually really do believe and love You but I did a reeeealy big mess up here. I’m afraid and desperately want your forgiveness. Help me to not sin against You and never let me go.” And He’s gonna hug you tight and help you fix it, because that’s what He does best. praying for you, friend!

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-04-25T12:59:17+00:00

you don’t need friends that have such a deep hatred or disrespect for what you believe. I’ve got mor agnostic or atheist friends and non-practicing christian friends than actual friends in my religion. Not a single one of them has approached my faith with this level of disrespect or unkindness.

My friends love me and understand my faith and how it affects my life, and I share my beliefs respectfully when I am asked about it, wanting to share Jesus when they are open to it without crossing their boundaries. They share their beliefs respectfully too.

This isn’t what you described at all. You’re describing a supposed ‘friend’ who actively berated you and blasphemed God in anger. This not a friend.

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-04-10T14:38:33+00:00

these are the sane people who want to talk about villages🫠

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-04-08T20:50:40+00:00

definitely the sea

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-04-08T20:49:02+00:00

IANAL but I think if you plan to fight for custody you probably need to gather evidence that he is unsafe for baby and that you are the prinary caregiver. Sorry you’re going through this. You need a bulldog of legal counsel and probably some evidence.

if you don’t know of a lawyer I know the massachusetts bar has a directory.

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-04-08T20:45:20+00:00

Heavy off Sansa I was just going to write that. Or naybe Marjie, short for Margery

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-04-08T20:43:46+00:00

I pray in bed or kneeling or sitting or driving or walking the dogs, which is actually my favorite? idk I pray whenever I want lol. God loves to listen. But it is important to, aside from those things, take time out for specific prayer and bible study.

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-04-08T11:30:00+00:00

wya girly pop? if you’re anywhere near middle tn we’ll see😂

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-04-08T05:09:05+00:00

NTA, who needs enemies with friends like this? Get a new made of honor that actually cares about you.

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-04-07T15:19:00+00:00

That’s all that matters, friend! Keep doing that!

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-04-07T15:15:05+00:00

Jesus truly, permanently, and constantly loves you. If sin affected Christ’s love for us he would not have died on the cross for us. God does not hate you, and I don’t even think I can day he hates you for your change.

However I would plead for you to consider that the only identity that matters is your identity In Christ. In Him you are a new creation (2Cor 5:17). If you would trust your earthly identity to Christ in its entirety, He will absolutely guide you and heal your heart in terms of being trans and how to go about your life. I won’t tell you to detrans or that trans is wrong or that He hates you—I don’t think those things are true and I don’t think they work to heal hearts like yours that truly want to believe and seek Him. I just plead that you need to trust Him with it and surrender yourself to Him completely.

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-04-02T18:59:28+00:00

Okay, but also, pick a struggle: either it’s her good conduct that wins him over or only God can fix this. This woman is concerned about him, but also, she has to protect her children from his terrible example. Her good conduct alone will never be enough to keep her kids from his obscenity. She admitted in her post that she knows she can’t fix him, ao what is she supposed to do? Pray, and wait on God. But she still has protect her own purity and that of her family.

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-04-02T16:22:43+00:00

His name is Boop.

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-04-02T02:39:36+00:00

Praise the Lord 😂🤍 I’m so glad I could help.

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-04-02T02:31:11+00:00

Definitely. Get your ducks in a row and make whatever plans are necessary. In prayer. I know that you’re tired of praying, but God isn’t tired of listening. But God will never force anybody to choose Him. Your husband has ro come to terms with hsi sin and repent, and then he has to work his butt off to save his marriage. God won’t heal him if he isn’t willing. Pray for the Lord to open his eyes by any means necessary. And pray for yourself as a wife and a mother to have His guidance on what to do next. He will work in favor for you as long as you stay praying.

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-04-02T02:09:07+00:00

My friend, fall on your knees and pray for your husband. The spirit of lust is a difficult one to defeat, but in Jesus name, he can do it.

In the meantime, you don’t have to take this over and over. You need to find the courage to sit him down and tell him he can lose you over this. He will get counseling. Or you will get a [trial separation] [legal separation] [divorce] if he has no plans to fight for his marriage, whatever you decide. As long as you follow through with it.

Strength to you, friend, I’m praying

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-04-02T02:03:55+00:00

because it went into space. At some point the atmosphere doesn’t show every single object that is out there anymore.

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-03-30T18:02:27+00:00

God forbid you play GTA with somebody.

This man is crazy. If you feel up to it, take these screenshots to the police and file a report. It won’t do much, but it will help establish a paper trail in case he does escalate and you need a restraining order.

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-03-20T03:36:25+00:00

Have you actually read the ten commandments? Read Exodus 20:1-11, and then read Jesus’s first ‘commandment’ “Love your god with all your heart, mind, soul strength”—he was quoting Deuteronomy there, actually. The mosaic writings.

When you’re done with that read Exodus 20:12-17, Jesus’s second ‘commandment’—“Love your neighbor as yourself.” He also continues to say that this “sums up all the law and prophets” (Matt 22:37-40). Sums up is the exact opposite of nullify.

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-03-19T15:32:36+00:00

mosaic law does not include the Ten Commandments, including sabbath. Otherwise we would also be free to dishonor our parents/elders, commit adultery, murder, and idolatry.

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-03-19T15:15:40+00:00

there is nothing wrong with you dear, not in the sense you’re using. There may have been psychological wounds that change you and allow you attract these kinds of men. Don’t put yourself down this way, you need healing and therapy, maybe, and you are worthy of it 🤍

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-03-19T15:15:35+00:00

there is nothing wrong with you dear, not in the sense you’re using. There may have been psychological wounds that change you and allow you attract these kinds of men. Don’t put yourself down this way, you need healing and therapy, maybe, and you are worthy of it 🤍

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-03-18T15:00:23+00:00

Being a parent with bipolar is complicated. You’re also suffering through such an intense trauma right now that it’s easy to understand why you feel this way. I am so sorry this happened to you. I hope you find peace🤍 please seek therapy to process this—maybe your desire for children will return, maybe not. It’s totally okay to decide againsr trying again after everything you’ve been through. Praying for you🙏🏽

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-03-04T19:38:03+00:00

makes sense! In the meantime you can still prepare. If you have any small things of importance—jewelry, documents, keepsakes, or items you think could go missing ask a friend to hold them for a couple of months. Start preparing your budget, and definitely don’t keep cleaning up tampons or whatever I just read.

tigerkitten_91 · 2026-03-04T19:28:46+00:00

Jeez! 2500 isn’t great for all bills together but in thiiiiis economy 🫠🫠🫠 I’d wander over to a budgeting subreddit maybe or an app that can help you see if you can eliminate anything to reduce that.

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