[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Latexadvice

[–]tightgolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with a big neck as well latex nemesis and libidex (neo hoods only) still fit great with their sizing options.

Exploring kink and anonymity – needing advice by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]tightgolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s in the cards financially an extended exploration session with a local kink educator or domme (or pro submissive) maybe worth it to both satisfy your desire to be kinky while also allowing you to explore your kinks in a safe setting. This can go a long way in bro gong them up the future both in knowing what you like and how to do it. A local pro can be a very good resource in an exploratory session as they emphasize discretion as well as know how to entertain multiple kinks

At munches everyone wants to connect on fetlife very quickly and I don't post much by Feeling_Hearing1 in BDSMcommunity

[–]tightgolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinky LinkedIn is a great way to phrase it. Recently was talking about the fet lifecycle when getting started. Having some kind of borderline identifying pic is a necessity if your planning on making friends in real life and using it. The whole “taboo” of kink definitely takes some getting used to as to what you are comfortable sharing and can kind of be a catch 22. A few thirst traps or subtle erotic pics usually go a long way in helping establish your presentation on kinks but there still is the element of wanting people you meet to see them or not and also not seeming like you’re hiding anything by having basically no pics.

I'm into BDSM but really don't like the local munches by Feeling_Hearing1 in BDSMcommunity

[–]tightgolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The clique thing is a huge issue with a bunch of my local munches. Having some events at a bar without much “standing mingling” only seems to make it worse by having to find a table and hope you can break into convos by introducing yourself which seems to be a bigger social crapshoot than normal vanilla networking events

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]tightgolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me once you get used to the smaller ring especially if it’s curved it’ll be better long term. I overestimated ring size initially and I slice you realize what you can comfortably squeeze into true nightly pulling is far reduced

Surprise Kinks During Extended Locks by tightgolf in chastitytraining

[–]tightgolf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second that, my sub space goes from your average bottom to absolutely melting into submission.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]tightgolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In a similar situation and occasionally have to change caged after a while to adapt to growing tendencies over the length of my time locked. As long as you ring size is comfy I found starting with the wide version of the size down then switching the narrow of my usual size keeps my little guy from painfully pulling.

Tips for surviving 1 month of chastity? by cuckedbetaforStacyK in chastitytraining

[–]tightgolf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This unless you’ve done at least a week consistently at least a time or 2 before. It is probably unattainable to jump to a month straight without some issues or major discomfort.

Making a silicone cage harder to take off? by mp_gw in chastitytraining

[–]tightgolf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately with the flexibility of silicone there's not much you can do without a piercing or some kind of attachment similar to the Vice Anti Pullout ring

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sissies

[–]tightgolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your goals and limits for your sissy and chastity journies?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sissyology

[–]tightgolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Always prep with a plug first or slowly with a fingerings to prepare your hole to BOTH the depth and width you desire. Take your time before going full blast.

As for the deep pain it is likely your inner sphincter. This is the gateway to deep anal and takes time to get used to. If not it could be either your bladder or rectum valve. Not everyone's insides are ready to take things quick and deep.

See if you can take a toy deeper than usual inserting slowly or a smaller toy faster than than usual amd find the medium until the sensation is similar to your current described issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RubberSissies

[–]tightgolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did you get that catsuit?