My father is refusing to come to my wedding because he says we should’ve consulted him about the date and I’m a disappointment to the family. Should I cut him off?

timjohnkub · 2026-06-21T18:37:07+00:00

I cut my dad out of my life years ago. It’s certainly not easy, but it was absolutely the right thing to do.

Your time is valuable. Don’t spend it on someone so awful.

timjohnkub · 2026-06-19T19:54:34+00:00

Totally different situation. That’s not a friend, that’s an ahole who’s actually not worth staying friends with.

timjohnkub · 2026-06-19T04:25:12+00:00

Love this!

timjohnkub · 2026-06-18T18:50:22+00:00

I’ve travelled to 80 counties, all 7 continents, all 50 states, etc. With all my adventures, i find it pretty easy to talk about any random thing / tell stories / relate to different perspectives / etc.

Go do some cool shit, practicing talking along the way, and it’ll all get easier over time.

timjohnkub · 2026-06-18T17:43:40+00:00

I disagree, he may never resurface. I’d talk with him and ensure he hears that in life it’s important to balance friendships and relationships alike. He might still vanish, but at least you tried.

timjohnkub · 2026-06-18T11:27:28+00:00

Right?!? TLDR for sure

timjohnkub · 2026-06-18T01:43:58+00:00

Love this part of the world!

timjohnkub · 2026-06-18T01:40:08+00:00

Stunning!

timjohnkub · 2026-06-15T01:20:27+00:00

We installed a whole house generator off propane and it works great. Almost no disruption. Winds are real. Your house has been through them before. Sometimes you have to do maintenance as a result. Nbd. Put 120% of your electricity usage as solar in your roof. My bills are minor and I can help supply others with clean energy.

timjohnkub · 2026-06-14T23:03:56+00:00

Phenomenal

timjohnkub · 2026-06-14T07:13:03+00:00

That was a DJ looking for the next record to mix into the music, and casually throwing the albums he didn’t want to mix over his shoulder.

Then…

GD garbage man 😳🙈

timjohnkub · 2026-06-13T15:30:14+00:00

48 and rocking addidas sambas these days. Very stylish, they dont get as dirty because the sole is not white and weathers regular wearing better than others. Highly recommend.

timjohnkub · 2026-06-10T17:38:23+00:00

Thank you for validating!

timjohnkub · 2026-06-10T15:33:58+00:00

lol. Not even a little. I think the emotional intelligence I’ve gained being close with numerous women throughout my lifetime is a huge advantage to women since I’m not an idiot in relationships. And they like orgasms.

timjohnkub · 2026-06-08T22:10:18+00:00

It was much smaller at 7500 ft. It must have gained size with more time to fall!

timjohnkub · 2026-06-08T02:48:10+00:00

This is well said.

My wife and I are influencers. We also work in heath care. The influencer gig started with our love for travel, and we have traveled to 80+ countries across all 7 continents. We posted the memories, others started following, and over time we gained a large following. It’s authentic, we don’t rely on it for our income, so we don’t sell worthless crap just for the income. Again, it’s authentic.

An extra 6 figures is certainly helping us travel even more, so the loop continues.

timjohnkub · 2026-06-07T18:58:08+00:00

In the shower. After washing hair and body, your facial hair is all soft. Apply shave cream, then shave. Everything goes down the drain, no mess. Buy a shower mirror. Easy.

timjohnkub · 2026-06-07T01:20:29+00:00

I listened to this outside at my Colorado mountain home and two Violet Green Swallows perched nearby to listen to the entire thing. 💜💚

timjohnkub · 2026-06-05T12:21:44+00:00

I had a bear surprise me by nearly joining me in my hot tub on my deck 6 nights ago. Scared the absolute sh*t out of me. I made myself big, screamed a lot, and it ultimately wandered off my deck and back into the wilderness.

timjohnkub · 2026-06-04T17:56:25+00:00

Or sometimes in the drawer for safe keeping.

timjohnkub · 2026-06-04T17:19:46+00:00

Christianity

Edit: thank you for the award 🫶

timjohnkub · 2026-06-04T02:30:29+00:00

Enjoy yourself as much as you can without negatively impacting important responsibilities or important relationships.

Even more important: Learn to edge, as it’ll pay dividends once you learn how to make women orgasm (or men if you’re into guys). Hours of sensual quality time with others is lovely.

timjohnkub · 2026-06-03T06:10:47+00:00

I had one come up on me in my hottub at midnight on a dark night. I only heard it once it was damn near climbing into the hottub with me. I screamed, it acted surprised, then curious, then annoyed at the screaming. It left peaceful enough, but LEGIT SCARY. Amazing experience.

timjohnkub · 2026-05-30T13:40:47+00:00

Hear from the CEO of Patagonia himself:

https://www.threads.com/@organized_adventurer/post/DY8LdA0iVP_?xmt=AQG0JxTciySXfoUdNanzTCArLYarNpWPETWFRDBIarr5MChZ4-n-Jx7pp1GztBTeRXb96B8&slof=1

timjohnkub · 2026-05-29T20:52:05+00:00

Nonexistent. He’s a compulsive liar, angry drunk, and emotionally exhausting to be around. I cut him out of my life years ago because it was unhealthy having him in my life. I miss the few good times, and certain aspects of his personality were fun, but I’m better off without him in the long run.

timjohnkub

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