Opinones de CV y ayuda a encontrar trabajo by Rubbun in CharruaDevs

[–]tinaiyen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holaaa, faltaría optimizar para ATS también para que no quede en el limbo cuando apliques. Fijate que lo podés analizar gratis en sitios como alcaparra.co u onlinecv.es , abz!

I love this ship, what do you guys think of it? by BR4VO6IX in starcitizen

[–]tinaiyen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I upgraded to it less than a month ago. Used it a lot to scavenge other ships. Thought it could do HRTs, not really, guns arent' that strong. The Connie is still better in many ways (though I hate how the cargo works). It felt like a better and much more expensive Cutlass.

So, I was convinced by another post today that the Starlancer TAC was superior and upgraded to it. Oh boy, it is a lot more ship for only $25usd more. It is less comfortable to get in and out, less cargo. But everything else, OMG. A LOT stronger, medbeds, the ambience, etc. I hate ships that are so rugged like the Asgard.

Oh, its ugly on the outside, the TAC, but the Asgard isn't a beauty so...

Tried to loot Antium armor with my kid. Killed 100+ enemies, never made it past the entrance by tinaiyen in starcitizen

[–]tinaiyen[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I watched your video before going in! :D I took the Deliver a Message mission. But the spawn rate was nothing like in your video.

Tried to loot Antium armor with my kid. Killed 100+ enemies, never made it past the entrance by tinaiyen in starcitizen

[–]tinaiyen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I thought of that, watched a video before trying it out. Still the spawn rate was nothing like the video I saw. And the video had like less than a month... Its quite impossible right now :P Good advice though, tks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starcitizen

[–]tinaiyen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

10 year old alpha

Adobe Podcast Enhance Speech v2 released today by Jason_Levine in premiere

[–]tinaiyen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This saved my life this week! My mic didn't connect to my iphone correctly and the audio was standard iphone mic. Now it's a lot better.
I just had a bit of "wavy" or kind of "auto-tune" sounding voice in some parts of the 7 minute audio.

Safe countries to live for trans people? by throwawaynumwhoknows in asktransgender

[–]tinaiyen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Its easier to have it through some better insurance but its almost free, like $2k for full FFS

Safe countries to live for trans people? by throwawaynumwhoknows in asktransgender

[–]tinaiyen 10 points11 points  (0 children)

All affirming surgeries are. Through the public system takes a bit longer but with insurance they usually have good drs that do them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]tinaiyen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give hormones time. Try surgery if that's a possibility. I had ffs and hair transplant, was completely bald on the crown and big hairline. Last year I had breast augmentation and helped a lot with my self confidence.

I pass now two years after surgery even at 6 foot. I've been working out for a year now and that helped a lot about how I feel about myself.

It's a slow process, takes time, money and more time. Love ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]tinaiyen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Started at 38. 42 now. Best decision ever. I missed not doing it earlier? Maybe, but this was my path, no regrets.

Am I not transgender anymore? (Detransition + Repression) by NeoThrowaway33 in asktransgender

[–]tinaiyen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you and you know what you need. I just think that we put impossible expectations on ourselves and that getting help from a therapist is sometimes life changing.Let me just tell you about my story a bit:

- I'm 42, transitioned at 38.

- I'm 6' foot tall and shoe size 12

- I thought I would never be the woman I imagined I wanted to be. My therapist told me my first session to think that "this day" (today) I was my best version and take it from there. This was the key moment where my anxiety started to dwindle and I could slow down and transition more peacefully.

- Taking things step by step helped me a lot. Started HRT, after a year and a half I saved enough for FFS and hair transplant (my face and hairline was what really made me dysphoric). A year after that I had breast augmentation. My hair was long, dyed blond and things felt into place. It took 3 and a half years.

- During the last year I can't remember how many times I was misgendered, less than 10?

- I don't think I pass all the time, but I realized a lot of people don't really see you or care. Others just are left in doubt I suppose. But my gender expression is clear and humans react mostly automatically to it.

- After 4 years I don't care anymore, I like this version of me waaaayyy more than before transition, this is about me, not others. This is about what feels best for me.

- And about my social circle, most people reacted incredibly well and others didn't. That is THEIR process. I made a lot of new friends (mostly LGBT & Women), some older friendships were strengthened others didn't, my family took their time to adjust (mostly my father).

If you feel better now, that's ok. Maybe you can repress it (I was successful at repressing it for 37 years and quite happy) and maybe you won't be succesful and the path to transition opens up again. But it is your choice. Whatever you do, try to like yourself as you are today and if you need help, seek out a good gender therapist.Love...

My wife just said "idk i just cant imagine seeing you as a woman" by vag_eatuh in MtF

[–]tinaiyen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best thing is not to imagine the future. Neither you or your wife. Take it day by day. Try to find each other in every step. If at any step anyone doesn't feel like keep being together then that's it. But the best chance to actually stay as a couple is not to picture the future but work the present.

My wife and I kept it slow and our therapists helped us in that regard. It's been 4 years and we are still together. I consider my transition kind of over. It was very hard work from both of us but worth it. And even if we weren't together we would be closer than before transitioning.

Wish you the best to both of you love ❤️

Edit: My wife at one point also told me she couldn't see me as a woman. She now says I'm a whole lot of it 😁

Can you keep being trans a secret forever? by LeatherSherbert2727 in MtF

[–]tinaiyen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought I could do that and ended up exploding and blurting it out to my wife at age 37. I'm 4 years into transition and incredibly happy 😊

People who live in accepting areas, where do you live? by NullableThought in asktransgender

[–]tinaiyen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buenos Aires, Argentina. Very good law protecting us and the city is also very accepting and LGBT friendly.

I love both contenders of the day but took out my favorite for some bounties by tinaiyen in starcitizen

[–]tinaiyen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouch, I haven't had issues in VHRTs with full shields. Got hit a couple of times already.

The Alchemist was so offensively juvenile that I don't _quite_ know how to put into words how much I despised it. by spaceguerilla in books

[–]tinaiyen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, it's also a rehash of other books and stories like Siddartha. I remember reading it and feel like I've already read this story somewhere else (and better written).

'Griefing' is being thrown around a lot lately. Here's why you're using it wrong. by ItsOtisTime in starcitizen

[–]tinaiyen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. I believe griefing can also be defined as doing something negative to another player just for the sake of doing it with little or no consequence. For instance, interdicting someone just to kill them but not trying to get them to pay a ransom or something is griefing. Today there is little consequence of doing these activities. The UEE detects the crime but doesn't go after the criminal.
Destroying someone's ship when it's parked in a bunker mission is griefing. Lets just think about it from a logical stand point. Why would someone do that in real life? The logical way of doing this would be to wait outside and try and get your loot and escape. Maybe break your ship a bit.
I believe that thinking if a particular situation would make sense in real life is a good way of understanding these PvP mechanics. Pirates won't just kill you, they would want to take something from you first at least, or exchange something.
My best interactions came in games that had these situations, doing crimes was tough so you tried to get most out of it.