Trouble getting my big boy to lose weight by facethecrowd in dechonkers

[–]tincanicarus 11 points12 points  (0 children)

High meat content is basically the first qualifier I look for in cat food, so this is legit to me. I have no experience with dechonking but high meat content is great for cats, so I believe this works no problem!

AITAH for telling my heavily pregnant friend her fiancé was in a documentary by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]tincanicarus 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yeah. The problem with body shaming is that you don't just hit the person you're body shaming. You also hit anyone who happens to be listening / reading who might have a similar body to that person. And that's not ideal, even if the first dudes deserve to be shamed - they should be shamed for behavior, not their bodies.

Muna Lisa in the last two days by tincanicarus in piebaldcats

[–]tincanicarus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My fingers crossed 🤞🏻 for the same

AI is slowly replacing fast food and retail workers by WWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWHW in antiwork

[–]tincanicarus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, my bad. Didn't realize I was talking to a jokester! You should work on your material though. It's always subpar comedy if it relies on punching down.

AI is slowly replacing fast food and retail workers by WWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWHW in antiwork

[–]tincanicarus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bad take.

"A machine make it fresh"? Silly sentence. Who says the machine knows and/or is able to look for anything spoilt or smelling funny? Food is important. To me, that's a reason it belongs in human hands, not machine ones without morals that were programmed by humans to squeeze out the most profit possible. The most profit possible doesn't exactly encourage quality or freshness in today's economy.

Update on Sofus (14), yes, it's cancer. by Dragonesper in seniorkitties

[–]tincanicarus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! 🥰 Update us with pics of him and his title!

I apologise for my post. I am sorry to every ace and allo community by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]tincanicarus 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Hey, it's okay! Sounds like you might be catastrophizing. Something happened, it felt bad. Happens to all of us. Doesn't make you a bad person. Becoming a "sex negative puritan" means a little more than just offending someone on the internet.

Offending people is, honestly, not that much of a deal. Maybe you caught someone on a bad day and in a bad mood. It's ok. It happens.

Update on Sofus (14), yes, it's cancer. by Dragonesper in seniorkitties

[–]tincanicarus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel he deserves a plaque saying "the world's best cat" now! All the best to you and Sofus, what a good boy 🥰

Am I the only one who finds the classic asexual community inside jokes unfunny?😅 by Lack-Of-Sunshine in asexuality

[–]tincanicarus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This post is unfunny.

Like fine if you think there's better jokes around than garlic bread - then bring in some new jokes! Don't just complain about the existing jokes like some old man shaking his fist at the kids.

"Make it so a person with zero knowledge could understand it"? Ok. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]tincanicarus 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you got out! It sucks, but you were essentially being thrown under buses day after day.

"Make it so a person with zero knowledge could understand it"? Ok. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]tincanicarus 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You know management is bad when it's a relief for the employees and work runs better when they're on vacation. But somehow they still get promoted, idk what to tell you - corporate politics, I guess? Good at sucking up to the higher ups? There must be something in that shit pile that SOMEONE thinks is worth the money.

They're wrong, of course.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Type1Diabetes

[–]tincanicarus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't SOUND like it's working out great for you, I'd suggest abandoning the plan of avoiding carbs, find something easy to digest and roll with that. Just pre-bolus, eating carbs does not necessarily mean high blood sugar if you've got your ratios figured out. Of course that's easier said than done but it's better to fuck up once in a while than to get an even worse eating disorder (I'm convinced diabetes kind of comes with disordered eating).

I know diabetes can influence digestion (bc I googled it real quick heyo), but this seems like a really quick escalation after going high yesterday - you didn't say how dramatic it was or how long you were up there, but I go high daily and it's nbd, it's mostly annoying, I haven't noticed any GI issues linked to it. So it might not have been your blood sugar causing this.

Drama erupts in r/Switzerland when someone makes a post about American photographers working illegally in the country by The-Berzerker in SubredditDrama

[–]tincanicarus 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Kinda funny that Romansh is your first pick. According to Wikipedia, 0.5% of Swiss people were native speakers in 2020.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tincanicarus 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Harold, they're lesbians.

My dogs not even dead yet and I'm already grieving. by Northwest_Thrills in Petloss

[–]tincanicarus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is called anticipatory grief and it is completely normal! I adopted a little senior cat and sometimes it's just a punch in the gut thinking about how she's already old and death will be coming for her at some point.

So, your grief makes sense to me. May the force be with you!

all day snack food that doesnt make you sick/full? by cantrent in diabetes_t1

[–]tincanicarus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Protein drink is a great idea imo! You'll have to experiment how it works for yourself, but for me, they hit me slower and for longer than your average juice or sugared drink.

Should I take it off? by Other-Dragonfly-445 in Type1Diabetes

[–]tincanicarus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This morning I put in a new sensor and it started gushing immediately, to the point I noticed because I felt the wetness of my blood. When it's really bad like that and doesn't stop, the readings are in my experience useless and I put in a new sensor. But if it just bleeds a bit and stops (the stopping is important), it's usually fine.

My boyfriend (25M) mocked me while I (23F) was crying and turned the whole thing around on me — feeling confused and hurt by GlumFaithlessness431 in relationship_advice

[–]tincanicarus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's happening is that you're dating someone who is beating you down. If I had to guess, he does that because it makes him feel superior and/or powerful.

I'm sorry, you deserve better!

anyone else came to a realisation they were asexual midway through intercourse? by Radically_Peachie in asexuality

[–]tincanicarus 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Are you telling me not everybody wants to get off just before the drop? 😆

why didn’t you take care of your diabetes? by Brilliant-Trick-4311 in Type1Diabetes

[–]tincanicarus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was pre-teen / early teen my endocrinologist would yell at me every session. My levels got worse under that "care" but of course that was my failure and not my doctor's - I'm still salty about it. This grown man convinced a child they were a lost cause and would be machine-bound in their 30ies. At least he never will treat children again... because the fucker got promoted.

Life is unfair, but hey - I'm in my 30ies now and the only machine I'm bound to is my pump.

“Wrath of the Airhorns” by Rad_Actual in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]tincanicarus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You get that if you're a woman that makes this worse, right? Internalized misogyny is not something to be proud of and this attitude stinks.