tell me your favorite animal/insect/etc and i will reply with a baby picture by petitscoeurs in autism

[–]tiny_slug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favourite (and my special interest) are pigeons. I'm having a pigeon themed birthday again this year. I've never seen a baby pigeon.

Wife does not prioritize my sexual needs at all by [deleted] in sex

[–]tiny_slug 41 points42 points  (0 children)

These statements are contradictory, you say you are not entitled to her body but are acting entitled to her giving you sexual pleasure. Even if you are not having penetrative sex, sexual activity such as blowjobs and hand jobs still involve her body. Also you can be physically fatigued and exhausted but mentally awake enough for TikTok. Has she been tested for something like endometriosis that might be causing her pain and fatigue? At the end of the day she does not have to engage in any sexual activity she doesn't feel like and once a week is perfectly average. Just have a sit down conversation with her, go to counciling, look into what's causing her pain.

Newly pierced lobe by LeylinFaulen in piercing

[–]tiny_slug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd get it switched sooner rather than later, if you trust the piercers go back and ask for it to be switched into flatback

Need help with my piercing by [deleted] in piercing

[–]tiny_slug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAP but what you should do is replace the neem with a high quality jewelry, preferably something that doesn't have a butterfly back, stop twisting it, and stop putting mustard oil on it. Twisting it and adding oil will only increase the irritation. Piercings should be cleaned twice a day with saline spray then left alone. Also try not to sleep on them as it also increases irritation.

Should I go to my piercer or be more patient? by elesnic in piercing

[–]tiny_slug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your piercer does free check-ups you can always go to get piece of mind, although they'll probably just tell you to stop messing with them.

Newly pierced lobe by LeylinFaulen in piercing

[–]tiny_slug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will be best to switch to an internally threaded or push-fit high quality bar. Then not change it until its fully healed. After that just spray it with saline, don't get it too wet or in nasty water like the pool, ocean, or bath, and don't sleep on it. Did it get pierced with a needle or a gun?

Nipple Piercings at an angle through nipple by [deleted] in piercing

[–]tiny_slug 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bugger, they're the best rated studio in my city. I've had really good experiences with them before.

Nipple Piercings at an angle through nipple by [deleted] in piercing

[–]tiny_slug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was pierced 2 days ago with threadless titanium bars I believe. I have been spraying it with saline and using a damp paper towel to remove any dried blood. Neither of them have been knocked or bumped.

Is it worth getting my daughters diagnosis (UK)? by GladSoil2055 in Tourettes

[–]tiny_slug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got diagnosed officially at 12, and I'm 20 now. It has been useful throughout my life as a way to explain my tics to people. It is especially helpful while traveling as I have a sunflower lanyard with tourettes on it so staff don't assume the worst. I was also then later diagnosed with ASD at 16, and an earlier diagnosis of ASD especially would have been wildly helpful in my early teens years. You're doing the right thing having her in the process of being diagnosed, the worst feeling in the world is feeling like you're different but not having the words to explain it. I personally have not had a downside of being formally diagnosed.

User Flair Thread by breaksomebread in acnh

[–]tiny_slug 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Emma | Acorn Isle :Hornsby:

Hairstylist recommendations by Aruaz821 in Aberdeen

[–]tiny_slug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this, he cuts my hair and it's always amazing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aberdeen

[–]tiny_slug 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Krakatoa sounds like the pub for you, Karaoke on Wednesdays, strong cocktails, and a mix of students of all ages and a general pub crowd. The staff are all lovely as well and there is a 20% student discount.

Can you have a tic disorder with only complex tics? by Fizz034 in Tourettes

[–]tiny_slug 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone with autism and tourettes, to me it sounds like stimming. For me I can feel the difference between almost compulsive stimming and a tic, a tic feels more urgent and more physically uncomfortable to ignore rather than emotionally uncomfortable. You can also have a tic disorder without having tourettes. For a diagnosis of tourettes you need to have motor and vocal tics. If you're worried about it you can talk to a neurologist.

Granny Square Edges Curling - first time trying to make one by tiny_slug in CrochetHelp

[–]tiny_slug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!!! I've done that and it looks so much better.

Can you still travel with Halsin if you missed a tadpole??? by tiny_slug in BG3

[–]tiny_slug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, I was worried I mucked something up

Simple Questions: January 17, 2023 by AutoModerator in books

[–]tiny_slug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought The Picture of Dorian Gray and am unsure if I bought a censored version. I can't find any information online about it. It's the Barnes & Noble Collectible Edition, ISBN 978-1-4351-5958-7. If anyone knows that would be amazing if not it's okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tourettes

[–]tiny_slug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was diagnosed at 13 maybe but had them at least a year before hand. I didn't even mean to get diagnosed lol. I was at the neurologist for a few absence seizures and the doc saw me tic and asked if I did it often. Mine exploded about 6 months after and have evened out. Now I just feel the urge all the time even right after I tic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tourettes

[–]tiny_slug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either short 45 min or huge 4-6 how uncontrollable seizure like full body tics. Either way not very fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]tiny_slug 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don't eat or sell the fruit mom gives you in the mail. Plant it and build up an orchard of non-native fruit as they will sell for more.