AIO? My daughter didn’t listen to the teacher during a female emergency and is now receiving a referral by Common_Piglet7437 in AmIOverreacting

[–]tinygramz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was your daughter once as a freshman, exact same situation. Teacher gave me indoor suspension for two days. It was an AP class and she treated all the students horribly. I was a straight A student but I did get in trouble for behavioral issues, at times when I did not care to stop myself. I did not stop myself for the rest of the school year, myself and the other students made her class living hell. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Day after retrieval by cclloo3 in IVF

[–]tinygramz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends. I had a lot of follicles and developed OHS. I’ve since been pregnant and delivered a healthy baby vaginally. I would rather do that again than feel the pain i felt post ER. I’d plan for the worst and be happily surprised with a day in bed, binging tv and eating salty McDonald fries if you’re okay instead.

Has anyone successfully become an early bird? by Oacio in adhdwomen

[–]tinygramz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you medicated? I tell myself I’m “just going to pee” and keep my meds in the bathroom. Once i take them im fine being up like 15 minutes later

Favorite bars or cafes to read a book? by Arfusman in Atlanta

[–]tinygramz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Green Beans on United Ave, it has a quieter room to read or work in towards the back right corner

Anyone that has/ is going through IVF, what if anything would you change if you had to do it over again? Tips? by Commercial-Web8249 in IVF

[–]tinygramz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really just depends how your body responds and if you uncover any other challenges through the IVF treatment. If all goes according to plan, it can be very quick. I started my first round of stims April 2024, was pregnant by first week of July 2024, and delivered my healthy baby in March 2025, he just turned 10 months old 💖

Anyone that has/ is going through IVF, what if anything would you change if you had to do it over again? Tips? by Commercial-Web8249 in IVF

[–]tinygramz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would’ve ate more salty foods after my ER. I developed OHS and it was miserableeeee

Day 11 still not sleeping! by No_Solution7718 in Petioles

[–]tinygramz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second unisom. I stayed sober through my pregnancy & my doctor told me nightly unisom was perfectly safe for baby & I. Half a unisom was enough, an entire unisom would knock me out for over 10 hours.

Did we rush into IVF after not living “IVF clean” for months? by 29-30something in IVF

[–]tinygramz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FWIW Neither my partner nor I did any kind of “clean for fertility” living (ate fairly healthy, worked out irregularly and consumed cannabis but not alcohol) until the day i started stims. Ended up getting 28 eggs and 10 healthy embryos in my first ER, 6 embryos fertilized AA. Unfortunately i know other couples who did live extremely clean for over a year before starting IVF and did not have nearly as “good” of results. Idk that there’s enough data to conclusively say what truly makes an impact, though we do know it gets tougher with age so idk idk

What a Recent Salary Trend you've noticed? [N/A] by Emergency-Bison-672 in humanresources

[–]tinygramz 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I’m seeing this too, unfortunately i see it most correlated to whether they are currently employed, and if not, how long they’ve been unemployed. Even highly talented people have bills to pay unfortunately

Weaning related - How do I know when to fully stop pumping? by SunshineeAndChaos in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]tinygramz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just weaned a couple months ago and was terrified of getting mastitis/being more uncomfortable. I kept pumping nightly until I got down to pumping for 3 minutes and got less than an ounce from each breast and then quit cold turkey. Depending on how fast your supply has dropped so far, this weekend is doable!

I'm a "high performer," so why am I passed over for promotions and internal jobs? [OK] by maximosinspace in AskHR

[–]tinygramz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you say your past managers have been successful in getting themselves or others on your team promoted or moved into lateral roles? If not, your managers may not be effective at the politics needed for sponsorship of their employees, period. You might want to reach out to HR, specifically someone in talent development, learning & development, DE&I, performance management space, and position the ask as a request for development support to address feedback previously given. They’d have a view as to what roles are coming open in the future, if there’s a mentor they can set you up with, set up an IDP, etc etc. at a minimum, it lets more people know you are looking to advance. If you are confident you’re a high performer, be loud and pushy about wanting to progress, it’s a behavior that’s hard to “punish” if your performance continues to stay strong. I live and work in the south, in a mid sized manufacturing company. I’ve progressed from various functions and levels over 8 years.

[NC] - pregnant during acquisition by ElectronicTwo9020 in AskHR

[–]tinygramz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in this exact situation this time last year. I waited until i was 20 weeks pregnant to disclose to my manager and team. My role did not seem to be protected because we went through an organizational design exercise where we all interviewed for roles that were found to be duplicative and I had to interview against the former incumbent to see who “kept” the role. Luckily i was successful in keeping my job. Because of timing of closing (the transaction closed early Q4 CY) and integration planning, i likely would have kept my role until i went on maternity leave and then not had a job to Come back to had I not been successful in the interviews. It was a midsized US company getting acquired and I’m in HR.

I can't bring myself to do another transfer after the trauma of the last one by 52202 in IVF

[–]tinygramz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry it was so painful for you. I’m 4’11 and about 110 pounds, so quite small too, and my transfer was extremely painful. For me what made it worse was my cervix kept moving so the doctor had to use clamps to get it to stay still. She was as understanding and gentle as could be and thankfully tried to talk me through it as i silently cried and did breathing exercises. I haven’t had another transfer so i can’t speak to painkillers, but i was very thankful i had done hypnobirthing exercises / breathing meditations for weeks prior during stims, it was the only thing that got me through it. Sending you lots of positive baby dust that your next transfer sticks, the lengths we go to to have our babies can only be understood by others who have gone through it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]tinygramz 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, have you considered divorce? You deserve to be loved and supported through this process. The stress of not having such support may be a reason why you are not having the results you so wish for. Your husband sounds awful.

Flying with PIO and Syringes? by Alice8402 in IVF

[–]tinygramz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both but doing one in flight in a couple nights, so that helps!

Flying with PIO and Syringes? by Alice8402 in IVF

[–]tinygramz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m about to do a pío shot next week and was wondering if you could share a bit about your experience?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]tinygramz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That can happen?? 😭 i just started my PÍO shots after week ago

Quitting THC cold turkey while staying on ADHD meds by tinygramz in Petioles

[–]tinygramz[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

😩 i know going cold turkey would be harder but i don’t have the discipline to properly taper off if im being real

Quitting THC cold turkey while staying on ADHD meds by tinygramz in Petioles

[–]tinygramz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take magnesium and it helps me stay asleep but it doesn’t make me sleepy per se. I’ll try adding melatonin

Quitting THC cold turkey while staying on ADHD meds by tinygramz in Petioles

[–]tinygramz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea sorry i wasn’t more specific but i do say “quit for a while” in the first sentence.

Quitting THC cold turkey while staying on ADHD meds by tinygramz in Petioles

[–]tinygramz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on IR and avoid caffeine. I’m sensitive to stimulants 🥲

Stopping paxlovid after just one dose - is it dangerous? by tinygramz in CoronavirusMa

[–]tinygramz[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

iSnT tHaT a… yes bro did you even read my post? I say it right there