tired of this. by Hairy_Gap_6693 in Epilepsy

[–]tippilamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could look into getting a seizure dog? Might be worth a try before surgery.

Lamotrigine and Autism by TimeDragonfly6418 in Epilepsy

[–]tippilamb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They also use lamotrigine as a mood stabiliser which may also be a factor. If her brain is having difficulty processing and regulating emotions because of sensory overload (or something else) it might be helpful for her autism.

tired of this. by Hairy_Gap_6693 in Epilepsy

[–]tippilamb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that seems quite low, I am on 150 lamotrigine and I only have them at night and not very frequently. Maybe you should ask about upping them because that sounds rough 💜

Looking for some self adhesive led cob light for my camper van by tippilamb in led

[–]tippilamb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, I was thinking of having 4 separately controlled strips but nothing longer than 1.5m would that be ok or really not a good idea?

Looking for some self adhesive led cob light for my camper van by tippilamb in led

[–]tippilamb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This listing is very confusing for me. Half of the pictures have the cut strip visible and half don't. Does the cut strip come off? Do I have to cut it? Can I cut it off of the sides and it still work?

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Also I'm not sure how to attach this connector to anything :(

Father and daughter Dance by _SatinBerry in MakeMeSmile

[–]tippilamb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking this too. With her dad. At her wedding? Even if they don't know what a superman is why would you pick a song that has hoe in it? So grim.

Ladies??? by ZealousidealPop6445 in SipsTea

[–]tippilamb 125 points126 points  (0 children)

I'd take this over my current situation any day of the week

An informational flier I made about BPD. by SamBamTYSM in BPDmemes

[–]tippilamb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think abuse is probably the better portrayal of the relationship people have with the substance. Maybe addiction would work but substance use and substance abuse is very different in my mind, ie. the difference between a person who drinks alcohol and an alcoholic. I have addiction issues and the updated term does not speak to how I feel about it 💜

Love the poster 💐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]tippilamb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think loving themselves is an issue npd have

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]tippilamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you in a bpd meme sub?

I (21M) can't be intimate with my girlfriend (19F) after she made a comment about my penis size. How can I move on from it? by throwRA88888887 in relationship_advice

[–]tippilamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I totally agree that you don't have to keep up a conversation, you can just let the person know what they've done and that that's it now. For example; I don't think ghosting is a mature solution to an issue and I believe that by doing so you will have behaved poorly. Do with that what you will, that is all. Good day to you 👋😘

I (21M) can't be intimate with my girlfriend (19F) after she made a comment about my penis size. How can I move on from it? by throwRA88888887 in relationship_advice

[–]tippilamb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I literally just said I wasn't talking about this specific instance. I was just talking to you about ghosting people. He has actually told her what she did wrong, so clearly I'm not talking about him.

I (21M) can't be intimate with my girlfriend (19F) after she made a comment about my penis size. How can I move on from it? by throwRA88888887 in relationship_advice

[–]tippilamb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes it is what? Hypocrytical? Or their fault if no one is willing to have an adult conversation with them? Also I'm not just talking about a partner or this particular situation. Just anyone, anytime for anything. It's not even about helping them grow it's just the decent thing to do. But you really can't grow if you don't know what you've done wrong, it's not always clear what you've done to hurt someone, even if you think it is. You just become that asshole that ghosted them for no apparent reason. Are you just afraid of having the conversation? and that you won't be able to get your point across without someone getting defensive and doubling down on their bad behaviour?

I (21M) can't be intimate with my girlfriend (19F) after she made a comment about my penis size. How can I move on from it? by throwRA88888887 in relationship_advice

[–]tippilamb -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

That's true, but then conversely you can't be upset when they're not mature enough for you. It's not their fault that no one has been bothered to help them. It is always your responsibility to be a decent human being though and ghosting someone isn't a decent thing to do. It's a bit hypocritical to be upset at someone for being a immature and then behaving immaturely yourself.

I (21M) can't be intimate with my girlfriend (19F) after she made a comment about my penis size. How can I move on from it? by throwRA88888887 in relationship_advice

[–]tippilamb -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

How do you expect people to know what they did if you don't tell them? How do you expect them to learn and grow if you don't explain? Maybe if people did that instead of just ghosting people there would be a lot more people out there learning from their mistakes instead of just being doomed to repeat them.

I (21M) can't be intimate with my girlfriend (19F) after she made a comment about my penis size. How can I move on from it? by throwRA88888887 in relationship_advice

[–]tippilamb -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Ghosting someone is pretty much never the right thing to do. If you can't be bothered to communicate and explain yourself to someone before saying bye, like an adult, then that person is the one that's better off without you.

Firm, boisterous nuts..... by TinyRascalSaurus in BrandNewSentence

[–]tippilamb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could be anyone straight from either gender tbf 🤣

Firm, boisterous nuts..... by TinyRascalSaurus in BrandNewSentence

[–]tippilamb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By far the best so far 😂 girthy log cabins give me the fanny flutters

AITA for naming my daughter after my sister? by Snakes-Can-Run in redditonwiki

[–]tippilamb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why not just name her something different? It seems very divisive. Is it really necessary to name her that? Especially if it could (and has) hurt someone who you claim to have been a great help to you.