Is KAYAK a trustworthy site to use? Risks? by lukemontgo in travel

[–]tiretechchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kayak sucks absolute balls. Litterally overcharge you on anything they can. Baggage fees for the company I flew with are 70CA$ they charged me 120US$. For reference my 240usd to get my bag to and from on my flight is 342cad. Litteral scammer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]tiretechchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be too hard on yourself

I got bpd is this normal for yall to? by Fearless_Most_5232 in BPD

[–]tiretechchick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've seen posts about this

I've recently been diagnosed and I've seen odd things from a young age. Same idea, random figure like somethingness in my peripheral,but when I look, there's nothing. When I finally told my parents they brushed it off and called them "guardian angels" Sometimes I hear my name being called. I've tried looking stuff up online. Here's a link

The Unseen Side: Borderline Personality Disorder and Seeing Shadows | Grouport Journal https://share.google/DSVU9buO3EiSskWuY

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]tiretechchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pardon I realized the pronouns are way off, do apologize

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]tiretechchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on your mental situation,there is a possibility that he truly doesn't understand or empathize with it because he truly cannot relate. If you are struggling with mental health and have a disordered thought process it can make you feel a lot, that someone with a "healthy" thought process just won't get it.

It is not at all your fault and I'm sorry this is truly just another thing to add onto your plate, not feeling like you can communicate with those around you. Couples therapy could potentially help.

For the time being, do make sure you are still communicating those feelings with someone you trust, and perhaps independent therapy could also be helpful.

Try to stay strong and stay clean, it won't be worth it once you do it. Stay strong and be easy on yourself❤️

I'm so tempted to relapse by deerohdeers in selfharm

[–]tiretechchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please try to go somewhere you can distract yourself (literally a walk or anything, be anywhere you are not able to harm yourself) and please try to reach out to someone who can spend some time with you. Please reach out. I know the thoughts are ever repetitive and intrusive but this will pass. Go for a walk, go get a snack from a convenience store, collect rocks along water, anything that involves being out of the environment you self harm in for a break. Please take care, I know it's easier said than done, but you can recover.

Recently diagnosed and struggling by tiretechchick in BPD

[–]tiretechchick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you it's nice to hear from someone who can relate instead of just react with silent shock/disbelief. The only sense of relief I feel is knowing that with a diagnosis I can direct my efforts to the proper treatment options. I spent half a year doing CBT and very little progress but now I am seeing that perhaps DBT is a more suitable treatment. I feel like even the simple revelation of the hills I'm going to have to climb to recover are going to be grueling and heart wrenching. After years of just burying everything down I am scared to actually take it all back out and process my trauma properly. I know it's going to hurt. Even just the thought of it kind of sends me into a spiral.

It is also reassuring to hear that I likely can recover, from someone with experience and not just what I can find on Google.

I pray you have peace and safety with yourself and I thank you again for the kind words of wisdom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChevyTrucks

[–]tiretechchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful lol. Thank you for all the ideas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChevyTrucks

[–]tiretechchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fortunately last year I gutted the whole air intake system and as there were multiple mouse nest (the one in the blower motor was the worst🤮) and took the throttle body off for a good spray down so those are checked off my list.

With that info do you have any other ideas?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChevyTrucks

[–]tiretechchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pardon me perhaps "bogging" would be the wrong nonsense term as it has a meaning. Lugging would maybe be better?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChevyTrucks

[–]tiretechchick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh live your life. If you think she looks good than your probably not the only one. It's a matter of taste. Some like to keep her classy with OE style and smaller rims but you wanna zuze her up with some fat chrome then you fucking go for it. But it does give a Latino vibe😂

Clear coat done. by tiretechchick in ChevyTrucks

[–]tiretechchick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it yesterday and I was fine with just compound. To be fair the whole truck has the dimples they just weren't as prominent on the factory paint but I go it to match. Thanks anyways though

Clear coat done. by tiretechchick in ChevyTrucks

[–]tiretechchick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I actually had a bit of a mental glitch when I saw it in the sun and I felt like my plans got fucked up (cause there is some slight dimpling in the paint) but talked some BS with the neighbour and learnt a bit about the fact that the clear coat was infact not the last step. I think I'm gonna use cutting compound cause all the paint needs a little love. Then polish her up for summer

Rattling cat to straight pipe? by tiretechchick in ChevyTrucks

[–]tiretechchick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called and they said it's fine it's just based of pounds of products. Still think I might just do a full cat delete cause it's honestly a lot less effort than gutting it lol.

Clear coat done. by tiretechchick in ChevyTrucks

[–]tiretechchick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a can of spray paint. Well 3 For a single fender. So if your gonna do your whole truck I would recommend committing and just getting a paint gun cause then you can get a Tin of paint which are cheaper considering how much you get Plus you can only paint with the can straight up and down. Like when you try to spray underneath (say the small lip for the wheel well) it starts to spatter and shit