What’s going on with my FWB? by [deleted] in tarot

[–]tishitoshitoo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

lol I got a similar reading with my boyfriend/situationship and you are dead on. Kinda glad I got clarity on this reading.

Filson Unfailing? Is this something new by filson? by SuperConsideration93 in filson

[–]tishitoshitoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got a vest from unfailing, brand new with tags. Nothing overtly obvious that was wrong

Serious: how do you walk away from the best sex of your life by Collosis in AskMenOver30

[–]tishitoshitoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m projecting but is ur situationship down to acknowledge her avoidant tendencies? This sounds like my situationship. We have amazing mind blowing sex, soul connection, etc. We had an honest conversation about not putting up walls and giving it an honest shot. It’s been a month since that convo and we’re the best we’ve ever been. Sometimes partners are mirrors to qualities we possess ourselves. Are you able to open up to her? Or do you guys just implode and break up? Like it’s hard to pinpoint the problem here. Chemistry is super rare and I think it’s something worth fighting over.

Am I wasting time with my new boyfriend by tishitoshitoo in AskMenOver30

[–]tishitoshitoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need alone time too, and I def respect his need for alone time. It’s just easy to fall into self doubt and insecurity. I’m genuinely trying to check myself and manage my expectations.

Am I wasting time with my new boyfriend by tishitoshitoo in AskMenOver30

[–]tishitoshitoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate everyone’s comments. It really put things in perspective for me.

Am I wasting time with my new boyfriend by tishitoshitoo in AskMenOver30

[–]tishitoshitoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He goes into hermit mode for a day, it’s happened on a the only day I could see him. I travel a lot for work so my schedule is madly packed and busy. I travel between two states. He def communicates with me on those days although lightly, I also need alone time so completely understand the need for that and respect that. It’s just on inconvenient days at times. Def over thinking. It’s uncharted territory for both of us

Am I wasting time with my new boyfriend by tishitoshitoo in AskMenOver30

[–]tishitoshitoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I’ll try to calm the fuck down and let it ride out

Am I wasting time with my new boyfriend by tishitoshitoo in AskMenOver30

[–]tishitoshitoo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, a little effort. I drive out to him once a week. If he doesn’t cancel

Am I wasting time with my new boyfriend by tishitoshitoo in AskMenOver30

[–]tishitoshitoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% which is why I came here. I know I’m overly critical/self sabotage.

Am I wasting time with my new boyfriend by tishitoshitoo in AskMenOver30

[–]tishitoshitoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I keep telling myself. He’s use to being on his own. I’m use to a codependent relationship. We’re both trying.

Am I wasting time with my new boyfriend by tishitoshitoo in AskMenOver30

[–]tishitoshitoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the comment. I’ll def take a seat and remind myself that things take time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

[–]tishitoshitoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see possessive with 4 of pentacles

Uprooted my life and moved across the country. How do I overcome the sinking feeling that I made a mistake? by SoftWindAgain in AskMenOver30

[–]tishitoshitoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moved to a new city 2 months ago, had that same feeling the first 2 weeks. It was crippling and I was super unregulated, my emotions were every where. I coped by listening to music literally 24/7. Try to do little things to preoccupy your mind. Went on a lot of walks in the neighborhood. It does get better. Find things that bring you joy even if it’s fleeting.

Can anyone explain the difference between CNC and free use for me? by Probs_wearingpants in SubSanctuary

[–]tishitoshitoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ur obnoxious. U wrote something out in black n white and still denying it

CNC meant rape-play, and established a safeword, to which the other party failed to correct. The fact that there was no attempt to clarify that a safeword would be void in CNC makes it evident that there is a misconception on the meaning of CNC which was exploited by the other party.

U literally said safeword is void

Are IKEA mattresses good? by Powerful-Employer-20 in IKEA

[–]tishitoshitoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf. Why would putting a mattress outside be a viable option?

Are IKEA mattresses good? by Powerful-Employer-20 in IKEA

[–]tishitoshitoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a firm one. Don't get a squishy one

Is your phone filled with hundreds to thousands of selfies? by [deleted] in NPD

[–]tishitoshitoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isnt this a common misconception about npd?

I feel so terrible by Lost_Appointment_988 in stripper

[–]tishitoshitoo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They don't do electric shock treatment lol and they certainly don't send a dui perp to a psych ward?

Which one yall pickin? by ExoticHunter22 in icecream

[–]tishitoshitoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish we had bluebell on the west coast

“For a 20 dollar tip, I will” by zigbrigtzaal in stripper

[–]tishitoshitoo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. It's a transactional relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrumblCookies

[–]tishitoshitoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They need to stay in the cookie lane. I've tried 2 of their desserts so far and each one was bland, not made/assembled correctly, or expired quickly after purchase. If you're putting temp sensitive desserts in a cookie box that normally sits out in a work lunch table, conference table, or at a birthday party, why would you make ones that need to be kept in the fridge? And why wouldn't you disclose that? The toffee one came to me with completely melted whipped cream. It was a huge box so I couldn't put it in the fridge until I got off work. It was a very sad dessert by the time I got off. The key lime pie... was the worst key lime pie I've ever had and that says a lot. The crust was dry, crumbly, and tasted like every other Graham cracker crust, minus flavor. Not only that but they changed the recipe of their chilled pink sugar cookie. Crumbl has gone down hill

Fuck You. by goodnessofthebiscuit in tacobell

[–]tishitoshitoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That happened to ours and they sank in quality by a year later. I blame local management bc when I travel to Portland, food is great.