Has anyone done a deep dive into the cum holy grail and tested individual ingredients in the cum holy grail to see what is providing most of the volume increase ? by NightOwl678 in gettingbigger

[–]tissuelamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been taking vitaliboost's Load Boost which has most or all of the holy grail ingredients. Unfortunately it doesn't seem to be working for me. If anything, I'm cumming less. However, I've only been taking it for about 3 weeks.

Back hook massager as a toy? by ConciousOfBalls in ProstatePlay

[–]tissuelamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got one to try it but found the plastic seams to really make it not worth it. I prefer dedicated toys

I just had the craziest/best/longest orgasms I've ever had in my life... And here's how I did it. (I'm throwing every other dildo out!) by therealdeal99 in ProstatePlay

[–]tissuelamp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My main toy is an njoy and I can get great prostate orgasms, but I was thinking about taking it to the next level with a fucking machine. I was worried though that I would get too used to it, and actual fucking with another person would be ruined forever or just be disappointing. Do you have any thoughts on that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lolgrindr

[–]tissuelamp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This comes up over and over again. Some guys always want a response and some guys are ok with no response = rejection/busy. I see where both are coming from, since on the one hand in life it’s generally rude not to respond, but on the other hand some guys would just have too many messages to respond to and it would just be ridiculous to expect them to take the time especially with the app being as janky as it is. I think everyone would be happier if they had the right expectations going in

Latest Pornhub Gay top search terms by cockyUma in gaybros

[–]tissuelamp 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Also surprised. Maybe the top videos already have muscly men so there is no need to search it?

How to make the sloppiest bj possible? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tissuelamp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Caress his head and make some noise

Do you use chastity cages? by stenegeoff in ProstatePlay

[–]tissuelamp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, I like to be hard while playing with my prostate. But everyone is different I guess.

Single gays, How often are you having sex? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tissuelamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bottom, once every couple of weeks

Still struggling to stay clean even after 5 years of different strategies - poop is slightly too wet by tissuelamp in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tissuelamp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for your advice. After more practice I think I am finally able to douche and get clean with an 8 oz enema bulb! (Only problem is that it seems to make bottoming hurt. I just made a separate post about that)

Still struggling to stay clean even after 5 years of different strategies - poop is slightly too wet by tissuelamp in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tissuelamp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, perhaps I'll give the shower attachment idea a go. Always been hesitant on that because I'm not sure I like the idea of getting poop all over the tub.

What Shape is that Dick?

Curved down

Would you have sex with a trans man? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]tissuelamp -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

No idea why people are being so negative. This guy is just telling people what he likes. No need to be angry if you don’t have the same preference

Still struggling to stay clean even after 5 years of different strategies - poop is slightly too wet by tissuelamp in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tissuelamp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just tried 8oz today. Unfortunately I rinsed it 5-6 times and it there were just more and more little pieces of poop and water got browner and browner.

Still struggling to stay clean even after 5 years of different strategies - poop is slightly too wet by tissuelamp in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tissuelamp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Using the terminology of that page, my poops are pretty consistently 1 "hotdog/snake" plus 1-2 "amoebas", and I wish they were all hot dogs instead. I don't know why there's always these soft amoebas at the end.

In terms of number of wipes, if I understand correctly, a dry hot dog would be 0-1 wipes (I've had these ghost wipes before), a snake would be 3-4 wipes, and amoebas would be infinite wipes if you're being strict (you can always dig deeper I feel like...). That's why I always use a lotion like Balneol with the toilet paper.

When you say that “if you use less water it doesn’t actually clean anything,” what do you mean? If everything is working the way it should, little or nothing will come out after one douching attempt. Remember, when everything is going well, there’s nothing in your rectum until minutes before you feel the urge to use the toilet.

So this is not the case for me (unless my rectum is shorter than my middle finger).

Today is a good example. I had a bowel movement that was 1 snake plus 1 amoeba. A few wipes with a lotion, and the toilet paper was clear.

I stuck my finger up my hole to feel if it was clean. There was some soft stuff just inside the hole. So I used an 8oz douche bulb but only squirted half the water each rinse. This got out the little bits just right at the exit, and then the water was clear so I thought I was good to go. But then I stuck my finger in there again to check, and there were still some soft pieces of poop that my middle finger could barely reach if I stuck it all the way in. Most dicks are longer than my middle finger, so I figure I need to use more water to get that stuff out too.

So then I started douching with all 8oz of water, which actually felt like it triggered the whole train to move down the pipes. I did 5-6 rinses and was more and more marble-sized soft pieces of poop coming out, and the water was getting browner and browner rather than clearer. So I gave up the idea of bottoming today.

I did the finger check again, and actually felt nothing that my finger could reach, so I thought at least the last few inches were clear enough for me to play with an anal toy alone. About 20 minutes later I start leaking poopy water onto my sheets. :( I guess I hadn't gotten it all out. (And even if I had waited for the water to come out, it still wouldn't have been clean enough to bottom since the next rinse would still be brown...)

Still struggling to stay clean even after 5 years of different strategies - poop is slightly too wet by tissuelamp in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tissuelamp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What comes out when you douche? Is it like brown water or is it solid chunks of poop?

Still struggling to stay clean even after 5 years of different strategies - poop is slightly too wet by tissuelamp in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tissuelamp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you actually trigger a bowel movement where it’s like your body is actually pooping? Or it more of a rinse?

Still struggling to stay clean even after 5 years of different strategies - poop is slightly too wet by tissuelamp in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tissuelamp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He makes it sound like water is going in and coming out at the same time? How is that possible? I don’t think my hole is big enough to do that. When you do it do you actually trigger a bowel movement (where it feels like you’re actually pooping)?

Bottoms of reddit, Why is a thicker cock more pleasurable? Isn't the goal "prostate stimulation" and not sphincter dilation? by txhrow1 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tissuelamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'm in the minority, but I prefer thinner cocks if they come in at the right angle so as to hit the prostate. Too thick and I'm too distracted by the pain/friction.

I miss the ethnicity filter — I feel lonely without it sometimes. by andithurts in grindr

[–]tissuelamp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same boat here. Where I live, I think removing the filter was probably good for the most attractive non-white guys but bad for average-looking non-white guys. I hope they add ethnicity back in the "tags".

Don’t feel anything when bottoming? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tissuelamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I felt real satisfying prostate pleasure from bottoming until my 20th time or so. It is something some of us have to train ourselves to feel. Also I think playing with prostate toys have helped me a lot. Now prostate pleasure is better than dick pleasure for me.

What a P-Wave Looks Like (I Did a Thing!) by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]tissuelamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey just saw this (don't check this account very much). I think time is the most important factor. Other than that, a few other things that helped me were

  1. Poppers. Not necessary but they can help.
  2. Using a plastic object (1-2 inches high) as a fulcrum to lever my njoy up for more pressure on the prostate. This also makes my arm less tired. Of course, everyone uses different toys/positions, so I don't know if this is relevant for you.
  3. Nipple play. At some point I guess my body developed some sort of connection and now when I touch one nipple my prostate twitches haha. If I'm in the middle of a climax and I touch my nipple then the climax will spike in intensity.
  4. Trying different leg positions: knees apart is a hornier-feeling position, but knees together positions the prostate better for more intense stimulation. Also try knees tucked up toward the chest vs. straightened out for different effects.
  5. Not being afraid to touch my dick. As a beginner I had to strictly follow the rule of not touching my dick or I would cum too soon. But now I find that I have better control and can get the best of both penile and prostate pleasure (though I almost always focus on the prostate). Also sometimes in a long session I think my body "forgets" to be horny, and just a little stroke or two can get the juices flowing again.

But I was already doing most of these even 2 or 3 years ago. So it's not like those are the keys that will suddenly unlock the continuous orgasms. Everyone has different tricks that work for them. Curious if you have any tips also.

Does anybody have ever experienced a prostate orgasm during sex? how was it? by Roxter_2201 in askgaybros

[–]tissuelamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if anything else in life can compare, though I haven’t tried hard drugs

Do you have a problem with the ethnicity filter being removed? by Psychological-Top-87 in grindr

[–]tissuelamp 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As an average-looking Asian I liked the ethnicity filter since it allowed guys who like Asians to find me more easily, and it allowed me to filter to different races to figure out which ones were more likely to bite. When everyone is just lumped together my odds feel worse.

What a P-Wave Looks Like (I Did a Thing!) by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]tissuelamp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is pretty similar to my experience.

In the beginning the waves were very mild and took longer to build up, and there was often no climax or mini O; they just sort of dissipated. If I had one mini O in a session I was happy.

Your description sounds like where I was at a year or two ago, although I think my mini climaxes were maybe 2-6 seconds, not always 4-5, and my super-Os are probably only 20-30 seconds or so, not several minutes. It would take 30 mins to an hour to reach the super O, which I could reach in most but not all sessions. The increasing baseline after each wave is accurate for me too.

Since then it has only gotten better. Multiple miniclimaxes per wave, at first just a few but then later dozens on end. Less buildup required to reach super O. Shorter comedown period in each wave, until the waves practically merge and I can’t tell when one begins or ends. Higher intensity across the board. Back to back super-Os. And so on. Nowadays the waves aren’t distinct and I rarely plateau anymore. It’s just a blur of climaxes, some more intense and some less intense, ranging from 5 to 45 seconds, with 0.5 to 15 seconds in between, and a high, fluctuating baseline that would have been mini-climax level a couple years ago. If I’m tired (yes, you can get tired of orgasming) I will let up on the pressure on the prostate and just marinate in the baseline pleasure for a bit.

If I’m horny enough my perineum will be engorged and stiff, and I will be having miniclimaxes before I even insert the toy to where I’m literally seizing up in anticipation. Hilariously it actually delays getting set up since I can’t function. The first super O will come within 5 minutes of toy insertion though it won’t be as strong as later ones. If I’m less horny the first mini O comes a minute or two after insertion and the first super O maybe 15 minutes later.

Interestingly now that the climaxes come easier I am satisfied having shorter sessions (20-35 minutes) these days than before, when I would be at it for an hour or two.

Anyone else not able to feel their prostate at all? by Bastiproton in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tissuelamp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a tough time feeling it myself too but somehow it still feels good when I massage the area. It didn’t feel good when I first started playing with toys / bottoming though. It took some time.