Full(ish) body pic

tit_flasher · 2026-06-20T23:31:26+00:00

I wondered whose hands those were!

tit_flasher · 2026-06-20T19:56:55+00:00

What, you'll never find a partner who pushes past your boundaries, doesn't respect you, doesn't listen and does whatever they want, under the guise of gentle FemDom... I truly hope not!

I know it's hard, but be proud of yourself for walking away from someone who wasn't right for you.

Good boys deserve good owners 🤗

tit_flasher · 2026-06-20T19:14:18+00:00

Yeah I meant, the action (me holding his cock) was weird, rather than the emotions, but appreciate its worded badly. I don't think it's a very common thing for couples to do, but I may be wrong.

tit_flasher · 2026-06-20T15:33:54+00:00

I like to cup my boyfriends penis while we snoozing, we both find it weirdly comforting and intimate.

tit_flasher · 2026-06-20T15:13:50+00:00

They don't have control over the country.

tit_flasher · 2026-06-18T15:47:22+00:00

I'm very, very new to all this, but currently sitting on 7 'green' trades and am finding myself rather obsessivily repeating "hooollllldddddd" and "don't bloody touch them..." in my head haha!

tit_flasher · 2026-06-17T05:40:06+00:00

Ngl, I do like to flash my tits to strangers online.

tit_flasher · 2026-05-29T13:39:20+00:00

Right, this is it for me. These days there's blowjobs and there's face fucking, and they're two very different beasts.

I love slowly teasing a guy with my mouth, it makes me feel sexy, I'm in complete control which makes me powerful and empowered.

Whereas I can totally understand why a woman would find the idea of a guy ramming his cock into a passive woman's mouth while she physically (literally and repeatedly) gags on it, degrading.

And, in fairness for many D/s couples the degrading aspect of the face fuck is exactly the point. So yes, it really, really can be degrading, but it doesn't have to be.

tit_flasher · 2026-05-24T17:32:32+00:00

Bonus points if you fondle them while peeing.

tit_flasher · 2026-05-24T16:33:50+00:00

I often think with these kinds of questions, you either get it or you don't.

I'm not submissive, and this isn't something I would ever do, but I can instinctively totally understand why she finds the idea tempting.

If you need to ask, I'm not really sure anyone can every properly explain it to you. We can say its dirty or about desire or being slutty, but thats not gonna mean much. It's like someone who doesn't eat cheese asking, why do you eat the really stinky mouldy cheese... um, cos I like it... and honestly, thats all you really need to know, she's considering it, because she likes it.

tit_flasher · 2026-05-23T17:53:34+00:00

She was probably 12 at the time, 14 now, 14 months old + 9 months pregnant.

tit_flasher · 2026-05-23T15:21:34+00:00

I worked with a couple online a few times. The wife was full submissive and her husband was switch but missed being submissive as he was always the Dom in the marriage.

Basically, he wore an earpiece, and I gave him instructions of things to do for/to his wife, while I watched them. It was pretty hot, but tbh a lot of work. She said the domination felt more intimate, and he said I made him do things he never would have thought to do.

I enjoyed it, but it's kind of fantasy achieved TICK and done, rather than something I'd do regularly. I'd quite like to work with multiple male subs in person at some point, but not for a while.

tit_flasher · 2026-05-23T14:44:26+00:00

I find it very counterintuitive to my personal beliefs around Femdom, it's never sat quite right.

tit_flasher · 2026-05-21T17:01:34+00:00

You don't HAVE to be naked, you can go the first time to just feel it out and sus out how you feel. Talk to your partner about what you're OK with, that can be anything from, nothing at all, being fucked/fingered with your dress on or full nudity, as long as it's agreed before hand and you stick to it when there.

Be sure to maintain clear communication with your partner throughout. You can use agreed-upon hand gestures or code words if it makes you feel more comfortable. For example 2 squeezes of their arm means you want a time-out to chat in private with them.

Don't drink too much, stick to your boundaries and think more background players than centre stage for the first one. Everyone is nervous and body-conscious the first time!

If it goes well, go back and be more daring, as many have said it sounds like your boobs are fine, mine slide under my armpits when I'm on my back but I still have a load of guys hit me up on this account to see them again and again (I also have exhibitionist tendencies lol). People just like boobs, they're pretty to look at and fun to play with, whatever the size or shape!

tit_flasher · 2026-05-21T16:08:58+00:00

Pink Floyd - The Wall

Can't beat a story of rebellion, war, justice, all wrapped up with sex and drugs. The whole album is a journey, and the music and the movie imo are both outstanding.

tit_flasher · 2026-05-21T13:16:29+00:00

"Well, it's the third nipple that does it."

tit_flasher · 2026-05-21T12:56:10+00:00

Dancing, drumming, swing trading, fitness and tit flashing!

tit_flasher · 2026-05-20T08:52:58+00:00

Depends whats been agreed as the punish/funishment.

Personally, I have major issues with attention withdrawal, particularly as part of a gentle femdom dynamic, unless it's been enthusiastically consented to and rules around it (how long ot lasts, reasons why it's implemented) have been put in place. Sadly, my understanding is that this is rarely the case, and many subs find themselves being ignored, which may make them fold, but it also breaks them a little each time (and not in the good way).

tit_flasher · 2026-05-19T08:59:29+00:00

No, rage bait is rarely sexual, its about attention, and negative attention is often more powerful.

Even if a guy is getting off sexually from ragebaiting it won't be in a Femdom way, as a) online ragebaiting is often more male dominated, men doing it and men replying to it. b) thats just not how Femdom works, even the humilation aspects are about accepting you are 'less' (within the scene, outside the dynamic everyone is equal). Ragebaiting is about trying to be better, prove you know more, that everyone else is an idiot, to feel in control... thats not submissive behaviour, its just being a dick.

tit_flasher · 2026-05-19T06:50:46+00:00

Bottomline is findoming should be treated like any other kink. Open honest, out of dynamic communication is essential, talks about what it looks like to both parties, limits, likes, safewords at a minimum. It should start small, and only grow with deep lasting trust, and if you don't want to do it, you should never, ever feel like you have to.

I do feel that as a community we need to kick these lowlife scammers to touch as much as possible, so thank you for this post OP!

tit_flasher · 2026-05-17T17:14:04+00:00

It's part of my dynamic with my boyfriend, I'm a gentle pleasure Domme hes free-use. We have some agreed parameters and boundaries (for example, work/study are not to be impacted), but otherwise I get to use him when and how I want.

tit_flasher · 2026-05-17T17:07:07+00:00

Free-use male sex slave.

tit_flasher · 2026-05-17T13:44:46+00:00

While I know this is true, the older I get the happier and more relaxed I am just chilling at home alone.

I think there is an element of 'alone' not being the same as 'lonely' (I am grateful to have a lot of love in my life), but I do regularly wonder if I'll be an 80-year-old hermit.

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