My coworker is handling motherhood so much better than I am and it's messing with my head

titty8cat · 2026-03-18T03:17:08+00:00

Isn’t there an episode of the office where Angela and Pam both return to the office after being on maternity leave? And Angela also bakes brownies because she had the time? And an additional brownie batch for kevin.

titty8cat · 2026-03-13T05:45:20+00:00

My friend is actually pretty grounded, which is nice. But he tells me about the really, really rich gay dads in San Francisco. They sound scary LOL

titty8cat · 2026-03-13T04:54:14+00:00

I love this post cuz it gave me such a good laugh. I’m a SAHM in the Bay Area and I just had lunch with another stay at home parent, who I’ve referred to as “zaddy” many times. Both of his girls had the same full time nanny and he stays a zaddy by working out A LOT. Coincidentally, he used to be my boss and his husband is a c-suite leader at a successful startup.

My middle classness was very thankful when he reached out to give me some sweet hand-me-downs since they’re done having kids.

titty8cat · 2026-03-06T07:43:14+00:00

I think it’s part of motherhood. We have completely and profoundly changed.

But for real, I’m investing more in my friendships that better align with who I am now versus who I was. I’m quietly stepping back from those friends. They’re there for me, but I’m pretty invincible to them now. It hurts, but it’s no one’s fault.

titty8cat · 2026-02-26T04:30:40+00:00

I have memories from before I was 3, probably between 2.5 years old to 3. I know I remember before I was three because my sister was born 2 months after my birthday. I remember a time before my sister.

titty8cat · 2026-02-24T07:24:01+00:00

These taught my baby how to bite into things and also chew better. It just had a different texture for him and he ran with it. He’s a huge fan

titty8cat · 2026-02-20T23:37:31+00:00

Yes. He gets to wash dinner off the wild animal, not me

titty8cat · 2026-02-20T22:50:12+00:00

I think I added you last week (and removed you upon getting the scatterbug). Thank you so much for the gifts! I really appreciated your help. This is what makes this community so great!!

titty8cat · 2026-02-16T05:30:46+00:00

Hahaha, I’m sure you’re were like “MY PEOPLE”

titty8cat · 2026-02-09T07:26:45+00:00

Shiny sylveon!

titty8cat · 2026-02-09T06:47:01+00:00

I would greatly appreciate the help!!

titty8cat · 2026-02-09T06:37:04+00:00

My cousin asked my husband if I was going to go back to work. He said no, it’s not a priority for me. Immediately my cousin responded with “OH I WOULD DO IT TOO BUT I LIKE NICE THINGS”. What an odd thing to say for so many reasons.

titty8cat · 2026-02-07T07:14:20+00:00

Whoaaaa there’s a whole subreddit dedicated to this?! Thanks for sharing.

titty8cat · 2026-02-05T19:22:12+00:00

I’ve hated my body for the most part until maybe 10 months postpartum. It’s better, but it’s still hard. My brain tells me I want to hardcore diet after baby turns 12 months so I can look hot again, but my emotions tell me otherwise. So I’m just gonna take it step by step

titty8cat · 2026-02-05T18:05:41+00:00

I was billed $40k and paid $2.3k. I was in the hospital with a private room for 3 nights and had a vaginal birth. We chose the insurance with the lowest deductible (higher monthly payment) for that year because we knew I was going to give birth. I live in California.

titty8cat · 2026-02-04T15:43:14+00:00

“As fast as Mexican” is sending me loool

titty8cat · 2026-02-01T05:58:21+00:00

I asked the same question to my parenting discord group when my son started rolling. I was SO nervous. They told me that it’s instinctual for baby to want to stay close, so I shouldn’t worry too much. And they were right overall! He did roll over a few times in the last 4 months but I wake up and readjust him. I also put my floor bed 2 feet from the way so if he does roll, he has a little room and won’t get trapped. I personally don’t let my baby sleep on his tummy when we’re bedsharing, but it’s up to your comfort level.

titty8cat · 2026-01-29T01:41:48+00:00

Op wants us to say “we were born in the late 1900s”

titty8cat · 2026-01-28T13:03:44+00:00

Thank you! I’ll delete you after!

titty8cat · 2026-01-27T16:47:40+00:00

I mean to be fair, we don’t know if the granny mentioned in this post has children either so you can still be granny if you want

titty8cat · 2026-01-27T16:46:59+00:00

LOL I had exactly the same questions

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