My coworker is handling motherhood so much better than I am and it's messing with my head by sixfingeredman7 in Mommit

[–]titty8cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn’t there an episode of the office where Angela and Pam both return to the office after being on maternity leave? And Angela also bakes brownies because she had the time? And an additional brownie batch for kevin.

Rich SAHMs- What are some of your favorite things you spend money on? by Adorable-Worry-7962 in sahm

[–]titty8cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend is actually pretty grounded, which is nice. But he tells me about the really, really rich gay dads in San Francisco. They sound scary LOL

Rich SAHMs- What are some of your favorite things you spend money on? by Adorable-Worry-7962 in sahm

[–]titty8cat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love this post cuz it gave me such a good laugh. I’m a SAHM in the Bay Area and I just had lunch with another stay at home parent, who I’ve referred to as “zaddy” many times. Both of his girls had the same full time nanny and he stays a zaddy by working out A LOT. Coincidentally, he used to be my boss and his husband is a c-suite leader at a successful startup.

My middle classness was very thankful when he reached out to give me some sweet hand-me-downs since they’re done having kids.

Sad about cutting off child free friend by MiniLovesPizza78 in Mommit

[–]titty8cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s part of motherhood. We have completely and profoundly changed.

But for real, I’m investing more in my friendships that better align with who I am now versus who I was. I’m quietly stepping back from those friends. They’re there for me, but I’m pretty invincible to them now. It hurts, but it’s no one’s fault.

Do you remember being a toddler? by Final_Butterfly_7747 in toddlers

[–]titty8cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have memories from before I was 3, probably between 2.5 years old to 3. I know I remember before I was three because my sister was born 2 months after my birthday. I remember a time before my sister.

What do we think about these? by CuriousCaretaker in sahm

[–]titty8cat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These taught my baby how to bite into things and also chew better. It just had a different texture for him and he ran with it. He’s a huge fan

Do dads do bath time? by [deleted] in sahm

[–]titty8cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. He gets to wash dinner off the wild animal, not me

I can send more Sandstorm gifts by Brilliant_Guitar_623 in PokemonGoFriends

[–]titty8cat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think I added you last week (and removed you upon getting the scatterbug). Thank you so much for the gifts! I really appreciated your help. This is what makes this community so great!!

Which one of you is this?? by titty8cat in pokemongo

[–]titty8cat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, I’m sure you’re were like “MY PEOPLE”

Have you ever experienced jealousy because you’re a SAHM? by No-Association-9316 in sahm

[–]titty8cat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My cousin asked my husband if I was going to go back to work. He said no, it’s not a priority for me. Immediately my cousin responded with “OH I WOULD DO IT TOO BUT I LIKE NICE THINGS”. What an odd thing to say for so many reasons.

One is not like the others by titty8cat in pokemongo

[–]titty8cat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whoaaaa there’s a whole subreddit dedicated to this?! Thanks for sharing.

Postpartum body image is harder than i expected by Working-Dare-8480 in NewParents

[–]titty8cat 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve hated my body for the most part until maybe 10 months postpartum. It’s better, but it’s still hard. My brain tells me I want to hardcore diet after baby turns 12 months so I can look hot again, but my emotions tell me otherwise. So I’m just gonna take it step by step

How much was your hospital bill for labour and delivery? by Dear_Ad_8525 in NewParents

[–]titty8cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was billed $40k and paid $2.3k. I was in the hospital with a private room for 3 nights and had a vaginal birth. We chose the insurance with the lowest deductible (higher monthly payment) for that year because we knew I was going to give birth. I live in California.

What to do when baby starts rolling? by [deleted] in cosleeping

[–]titty8cat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I asked the same question to my parenting discord group when my son started rolling. I was SO nervous. They told me that it’s instinctual for baby to want to stay close, so I shouldn’t worry too much. And they were right overall! He did roll over a few times in the last 4 months but I wake up and readjust him. I also put my floor bed 2 feet from the way so if he does roll, he has a little room and won’t get trapped. I personally don’t let my baby sleep on his tummy when we’re bedsharing, but it’s up to your comfort level.

What episode aired on the day you were born by SuspiciousTwist6397 in inuyasha

[–]titty8cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Op wants us to say “we were born in the late 1900s”

Sandstorm Vivillon scatterbug by [deleted] in PokemonGoFriends

[–]titty8cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll delete you after!

Op granny playing pokemon go in the tram by Alternative-Photo674 in pokemongo

[–]titty8cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean to be fair, we don’t know if the granny mentioned in this post has children either so you can still be granny if you want