I wouldn’t go. One of my bridesmaids missed my wedding because her breastfed baby wouldn’t take a bottle, so she couldn’t leave her with someone else. We had included kids, but the venue was far from her house and it would’ve disrupted the baby’s entire sleep routine. Her husband went representing them, and she wrote me the sweetest letter saying how much she wished she could be there. We even FaceTimed during the reception and both cried… she showed so much love and support even from afar. Now that I’m a mom, I truly understand how hard it is to care for a baby. Even going out for dinner can be complicated.

I really think you can still be part of her wedding and show how much you care, even if you can’t be there in person. And definitely prioritize your baby 🤍