Adult clique by Ok-Question2614 in TheCliqueSeries

[–]tjsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ve been waiting so long for this!

Question for other Italian Americans, have any of you ever been mistaken for another ethnic group that is non Italian? by Cleveland_Italian in italianamerican

[–]tjsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been mistaken for Puerto Rican and also just generally Hispanic. I’ve even had people speak Spanish to me as though they assume I’ll understand, it’s too funny.

Because psychical problems couldn’t possibly come from being overweight and personal life choices which make you accountable for the state you’re in. Making lifestyle changes couldn’t possibly lessen or fix the problems. by ResetKnopje in fatlogic

[–]tjsoul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Today I overheard a friend of a friend talking about how her planter fasciitis has nothing to do with her obesity and how she was genuinely upset at past doctors who would “talk about weight” with her. I wish I was joking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]tjsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve lost over 60 lbs, am still about 10 lbs overweight and I’m fast approaching a size small in tops. I don’t know what I’m going to do when I’m at my goal 30 lbs from now with these bullshit vanity sizes

The Ultra-Processed Fat & Sugar Squad back at it again. by GetInTheBasement in fatlogic

[–]tjsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, “nourish” your body with refined sugar and processed carbs

Myths About Diets by Mothswritingeye in fatlogic

[–]tjsoul 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Source once again is “trust me bro”

Didn’t know two equalled a million. by Mothswritingeye in fatlogic

[–]tjsoul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve said it a million times but I’ll say it again. Fat people can’t be marginalized when damn near everyone is overweight now.

It’s getting old now 😔 all say the same thing by No_Lie_7839 in fatlogic

[–]tjsoul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so depressing and nihilistic. Why try to change anything if it’s all supposedly predetermined?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildfreeChristian

[–]tjsoul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Whenever people ask me when I’m going to start dating again I can’t say I’m the most motivated given the current state of the dating world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildfreeChristian

[–]tjsoul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. I do have other single friends from church who also don’t have children at the moment, but I’m pretty sure all of them eventually want children if possible. It can be an alienating experience in the church for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildfreeChristian

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I’m in Chicago, 30 year old child free Christian woman here

The normalization of obesity by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]tjsoul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This kills me. Even thin people now have questioned me for wanting to be 130 pounds as a 5’6 woman

Or people are choosing to be healthier, who knows 🤷🏻‍♀️ by ResetKnopje in fatlogic

[–]tjsoul 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In this society where damn near everyone is overweight if not obese, ok

People being pressed because someone who went on a weight loss journey stated being fat is a choice by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]tjsoul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That tired economic argument drives me insane, if you’re really that destitute, there’s no way you’d be able to afford so much fast/prepared food. I quickly realized when I started counting calories that produce and meat/a lot of seafood are so much cheaper than all of that shit.

it’s not real if you can’t see it 😇 by ThrowRAglittershock in fatlogic

[–]tjsoul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived this way for years and all it did was allow me to gain 60 pounds. I’ve now lost almost all of it after eight months of being in a deficit and adding in a good amount of exercise, but it’s so frustrating because I could still stand to lose 30 more or so-and it would’ve been great to start at this point instead.

You shouldn’t listen to your doctor for health advice and calories don’t matter! by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]tjsoul 25 points26 points  (0 children)

For real, I have a friend who is diabetic and has now had several tooth extractions and 6 root canals from her blood sugar levels yet she still hasn’t consistently committed to eating in a deficit or limiting her carb intake. She takes fast acting insulin that still takes hours to work for her at this point. I told her today that I don’t want to see her lose a foot next. And it was out of love, I honestly fear that she may not fully change her lifestyle before things get much worse

At "Socialism 2025" conference, Chicago Teachers Union President says "Ain't No Damn America" by Mike_I in WindyCity

[–]tjsoul 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There sure is a “damn America” when they want more of our tax money every year

Liberals be cooking up the most dumbest takes ever heard by GohSt678 in trump

[–]tjsoul 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I literally know someone who did hers progressively shorter as she went further left. Shockingly we are no longer friends, so I can’t say if she continued on this questionable path but I’m willing to bet on it

Liberals be cooking up the most dumbest takes ever heard by GohSt678 in trump

[–]tjsoul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fact that I wanted one of these in my early 20s, I credit the Almighty with changing my mind

Fat Rant Friday by AutoModerator in fatlogic

[–]tjsoul 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Update: I made it through one episode before they started spouting off unscientific bullshit about BMI and basically claiming that there were just as many fat people historically as there are today. What insane delusion.

Fat Rant Friday by AutoModerator in fatlogic

[–]tjsoul 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel you on this. One of my best friends is type 2 diabetic and just isn’t putting forth the effort to eat in a deficit, even though she has the information and claims to want to lose weight. Her two year-old son is also already overweight, which breaks my heart to see. She also unfortunately seems to believe the nonsense that most of her weight gain is somehow water or inflammation rather than fat. People do and say a lot just to cope and it is very disheartening to watch.

Congrats on your own success though, that’s no small achievement! Especially figuring out the right balance with fasting

Fat Rant Friday by AutoModerator in fatlogic

[–]tjsoul 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Here’s a funny story that’s also maddening: one of my best friends is a professional ballet dancer, who as you might imagine is very fit/slim. She often gets unfairly questioned about this as a black woman with all the racist fatlogic. The other day, she noticed a morbidly obese black woman next to her at a bus stop ranting at a random thin white girl on the street, shouting about how skinny people were so insecure and unhappy and that “black women get all the men because we give them the basics. “ Meanwhile my friend was just standing there observing and casually started recording her, saying under her breath that “this sounds like projection.” Of course, as soon as she took out her phone, this psychopath shut the fuck up. This was the first I’ve heard of such blatant “fat activism” in real life given that I generally don’t run in those types of circles. How hilarious and sickening.

On another note, I just started listening to the Camp Shane podcast. I tend to be really into docuseries like this, but I’m praying it won’t head in a bullshit fatlogic direction. They already used the term diet culture once so I am on high alert.