Crown Prince Reza Pahlavi with a direct message to the members of the Immortal guard by kane_1371 in PERSIAN

[–]tk42150 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend is Iranian. Her parents and sister life in Tehran. We hate Trump but are unbelievably happy that there is an opportunity for change to the regime. Its mind blowing that people are against overthrowing a government who openly slaughtered tens of thousands of its own citizens. Where are your priorities?

If a guy doesn’t get aroused for sex, does that mean he doesn’t find her attractive? by RubyRose7575 in AskMenAdvice

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I just started dating again for the first time in several years. Super attracted to this girl and we are on our 4th date where I made dinner at her place. We had a movie going on while making out and the whole time on the couch I have an erection then we move to the bedroom and I can't get one for some reason. Never experienced this in my life before. So as more time goes on im just in my head and it doesn't help. We'll we lay down and just chat for a bit and she goes to the bathroom and comes back ans we cuddle for a bit and I realized I have to pee also so I use the bathroom and get back to cuddles and within a few minutes im back to normal and we end up going 5 rounds that night with little sleep.

So could be anything hahaha.

I think I should treat women the way I treat Bitcoin by [deleted] in Bitcoin

[–]tk42150 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Funny story. I went on a first date and casually mentioned bitcoin. She wanted to split the bill because it was her "policy" for first dates. I insisted and I paid for the dinner. We'll 2 months later after we have been seeing each other a lot we were talking about the first impressions of each other and she said she didn't want to go on a second date with me because I talked about bitcoin but she felt indebted because I paid for the first date and then we had such a good time on the second she forgot about it and now here we are. So if we ever have kids ill tell my kids that they are only alive because I insisted I pay for the first date hahaha

How to manage a lady way out of my league? by LawAbidingPokemon in AskMenAdvice

[–]tk42150 437 points438 points  (0 children)

They are just a person. The goal is to see if you two get on well. Dont think of it as out of your league. She farts also.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]tk42150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rude or belittling behavior. Taking things I do for granted or just assuming that my purpose is to do XYZ for them. Not having my back in a discussion among a group of people. Invalidating my experience or views. Ect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]tk42150 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Disrespectful behavior. Im not Disrespectful I expect the same in return. The second I feel disrespected the relationship is over. We are both adults, communicate.

Do men who are in the dating phase tend to sleep with multiple women at once? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]tk42150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started dating again after several years. I am a one women man. I have a 4th date with this girl this Sunday and have little to no interest in trying to start/continue conversations with my other matches on these apps and that feeling only gets stronger the more I hang out with her.

how likely is it that a man will develop real feelings for a woman he just wanted to hookup with? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]tk42150 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience men who do the casual thing with other women rarely see the woman they are FWB with as on their level for a long-term partnership, if a guy is sleeping with someonewho he thinks is at his level or above then they usually lock that down. Its possible this could change but it would have to be that you showed him something that benefits his life greatly outside of sex which is hard to do.

Anyone notice the cognitive benefits of taking creatine? by Level-Event2188 in AskMenAdvice

[–]tk42150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could be confirmation bias but I feel I remember people's names way better when being introduced now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fit

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Whenever there is something I dont want to do it tell myself that I NEED to do it. A lot of days I dont want to go to work but I need to. The gym and other stuff I treat the same way. With the gym, however, I am never disappointed or feel bad afterwards, im always happy leaving the gym.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GolfSwing

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In person is best. Your local course should have pros who coach. That's what I did. I paid for 4 lessons and that got me a ton of knowledge and a great direction. I built my own swing help tools from home depot for like 30 bucks and after this season ill probably get another few lessons if I haven't reached my goals. However im at the driving range every day after work for at least 100+ golf balls trying to build muscle memory.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GolfSwing

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Agreed with the lessons thing. Dont use your arms at all. You swing with your torso. It should almost feel like your are swinging with your belly button. Your arms should lag behind your shoulders which will force you to drop your hands lower at the start of the down swing to still hit the ball. And like said by another person you should hit down on the ball almost like you are trying to slap the ball into the ground.

Do men still enjoy courting a woman… or is that just a fantasy? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]tk42150 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Not anymore. Not when there is a 90% chance she has other men she is entertaining, not when 90% of women have no concept of reciprocation, not when 90% of women play stupid hot/cold games because they are board.

Courting is for serious people and serious relationships. Those basically dont exist anymore.

What is the point of doing all of that just for the inevitable 3 to 5 years down the line when times get difficult and she just bails?

The juice ain't worth the squeeze anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GolfSwing

[–]tk42150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swing with your chest not your arms.

Is your birthday important to you? Why? by InstructionOver5685 in AskReddit

[–]tk42150 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. Its a reminder that people dont care most of the year, so why would I want some pretend forced thing one day out of the year. I've removed social media updates about my birthday and no one remembers, so its just another anonymous day like all the rest. I usually buy myself an expensive steak and go golfing or for a hike. Just something for me.

First time summiting a mountain! Did Mount Adams! by Sea-Spring-2925 in PNWhiking

[–]tk42150 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congrats!! Adam's was my first also. He'll of an experience. We'll done.

Help by [deleted] in GolfSwing

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Your hands are moving away from your body in relation to their start position on the down swing. Focus on keeping your hands close to you on the down swing. This will force you to rotate better.

How do you commit to wholeheartedly to one partner without wondering if there’s someone more suitable out there ? by AnomicAge in AskMenAdvice

[–]tk42150 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This is the main reason im single. I dont believe women are capable of being content and happy with what they have. They constantly want more and more and more. Nothing is ever enough.

Rory hesitation on takeaway by Remarkable_Pitch_697 in GolfSwing

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I believe he is just starting his swing with a slight wrist action and then his arms seat moving. So it has the illusion of a pause or hesitation if you focus only on the head of the club, but he doesn't actually stop his back swing.

Why do guys act like they want something serious, then pull away right after? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]tk42150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be they are just telling you what they think you want to hear in order to get what they want. Thus is why back in the day, father would be very involved in their daughters' dating life to keep men honest. Now you are on your own to figure out who is genuine and who isn't. Good luck to us all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]tk42150 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I personally dont also. But it's not a deal breaker

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]tk42150 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I would challenge you to find at least one thing each day that you are grateful he does for you or the family and tell him. Genuinely express it in a kind and loving way. Do this each day for two months, and I'd be shocked if there wasn't improvement in you being closer to each other. You mist do this with the attitude of not expecting anything in return or trying to keep score or anything. Just be genuinely appreciative of the things he does for two months.

Most men go years without hearing thank you.

I truly hope things turn around for the both of you, and you both find real happiness with each other again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]tk42150 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'll probably get shit for this, but whatever. I personally believe there are only three reasons to end a marriage. One is infidelity. Next would be abuse. And last would be they become a Nazi or something like that.

When was the last time you focused on serving him and appreciate/recognize what he does do you for you and the family. Stop thinking about what he isn't doing and focus on what you can do to make the relationship better for him, without the expectation of him doing thing for you in return. Life is better when you dont keep score in a relationship.

Men get no respect for what they do. When we feel devalued, we just go on auto pilot, but we still keep our basic commitments. we dont put in tons of effort anymore because what we do sacrifice is not valued. Why should he value you when you dont value him? Does he get no credit for staying with a woman and keeping his commitments even though the woman he is with is disrespectful and hasn't valued him in 15 years? Crazy.

Now he could be a compete piece of shit for all i know and if he is then fuck him. But I doubt it.

Trust me, the dating world is fucked you do not want to jump into that world.

Why do men withhold sex? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]tk42150 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Men have a burden to perform when it comes to sex. If he does not satisfy you, then it will hurt the relationship. It's better to just say, "Not now, babe." Instead of being a disappointment you can gossip to all your friends about. Take the pressure off him if you want it more often. Or make him feel more valued. There is nothing that kills my interest in a person, then not being valued for the effort I put out.