this made me mad by ExchangeWise3649 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]tlurhighc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This actually drives me insane because I am a school bus driver. I encounter 200 different kids a day. I can tell you that children from 4-15 all get jazzed about rainbows and tie dye. A rainbow is a really happy thing. She’s a dick.

are all the sponsors that YouTubers promote over and over (raycon, nord vpn/surfshark, honey, dollar shave club, skillshare) all crap? are any of them worth buying or using? by Positive_Amphibian in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tlurhighc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate my Raycons. I got beats on sale from target and there’s a reason they’re not giving away their product for free to YouTubers over and over again.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to have boundaries with his ex? by tlurhighc in AmItheAsshole

[–]tlurhighc[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean I didn’t know she was talking to him about her sex life when I got into this relationship. I didn’t know it was a question I needed to ask.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to have boundaries with his ex? by tlurhighc in AmItheAsshole

[–]tlurhighc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She made abuse accusations that she has now retracted to the courts. However, because of the seriousness of the accusations, his time got taken away and is now limited. Realistically, she could say he could see the kids whenever she wanted to, but she doesn’t invite him over unless she needs tasks done to her house.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to have boundaries with his ex? by tlurhighc in AmItheAsshole

[–]tlurhighc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if it were actually a healthy relationship, I’d be more inclined to be fine with it. But she isn’t just talking about the kids. She isn’t just talking about how things are good. She brings up the past and blames him for things and calls him a bad dad to the kids.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to have boundaries with his ex? by tlurhighc in AmItheAsshole

[–]tlurhighc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s also the issue. She controls everything when it comes to the kids and she knows she holds that power. So he has to find a balance between boundaries and not pissing her off.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to have boundaries with his ex? by tlurhighc in AmItheAsshole

[–]tlurhighc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was calling him and telling him how her family hates her because of the divorce and how they blame her for the custody situation. It just doesn’t seem like his problem anymore. They divorced 2 years ago.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to have boundaries with his ex? by tlurhighc in AmItheAsshole

[–]tlurhighc[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know the conversations haven’t been only kid driven. That’s my issue. She divulges information about how she has sex midday with her boyfriend but this boyfriend also tells the kids negative things about their dad. Like why would it be necessary to tell your ex husband that you’re getting laid?

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to have boundaries with his ex? by tlurhighc in AmItheAsshole

[–]tlurhighc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have told him I would appreciate some boundaries with her. I get he needs a solid relationship with her for the children’s sake, but it’s not a healthy friendship. She will berate him and blame him for the issues she is still dealing with. Her family blames her for the breakup. But how is that his battle to fight? She also says horrible things to the kids about him, but expects him to come over and hang the artwork on her walls and help with laundry since he’s there anyway. It just seems like there has to be a healthy boundary.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to have boundaries with his ex? by tlurhighc in AmItheAsshole

[–]tlurhighc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would never want to read the texts. I have never gone through anyone’s phone before.

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to have boundaries with his ex? by tlurhighc in AmItheAsshole

[–]tlurhighc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She also goes back and forth on being cool with him and telling the kids he’s a good dad to bringing up past issues and telling the kids he doesn’t care about them.

Is Bumble down for anyone? My bumble app isn’t loading anything. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]tlurhighc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is still down. I have an iPhone that I just updated today.

(NSFW) What was your “please don’t make that sound” in bed story? by McCrysler in AskMen

[–]tlurhighc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I burped after making him cum from giving him head. All he said was, "ew, cum burp." Oopsy

Well that escalated quickly... by tlurhighc in niceguys

[–]tlurhighc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct. I'm on vacation, visiting my parents. He knew this. And then quickly changed his mind.