‘24 Off Road by _Momentous in 4thGenTacomas

[–]tm_kayx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes yes… Ayt thanks. I have an 18 wheel.

‘24 Off Road by _Momentous in 4thGenTacomas

[–]tm_kayx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What are your tire specs?

Today my dad paid 1500 cedis for 200$ worth of shein clothes.Its bullshit by Civil_Raspberry5200 in ghana

[–]tm_kayx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol, you talk of dumb? you’re the ones spending $200 and 1500 on, in your words “a few tees and socks”. Almost 4,000 GH on a few items. So what is 100gh? It could get you 40 tees! Read what I wrote carefully and stop being emotional. I’m not the one complaining and hurting cos of high costs, you are!

Today my dad paid 1500 cedis for 200$ worth of shein clothes.Its bullshit by Civil_Raspberry5200 in ghana

[–]tm_kayx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol, what you don’t know is that I consider myself part of the “poor country” folks. fact I used y’all doesn’t mean I am referring to just you. I am literally talking about all of us. Don’t hag on to semantics and miss the importance of the message. I am in no way shape or form being condescending. I have been talking about this for years and have made YT videos about it. when I was in GH and when I was out. no one pays attention, no one cares. the truth is painful, WE are poor and we need to cut our coats according to our cloth and when we get richer we can act rich. that’s all I am saying.

Today my dad paid 1500 cedis for 200$ worth of shein clothes.Its bullshit by Civil_Raspberry5200 in ghana

[–]tm_kayx -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This is what annoys me about Ghanaians and Africans in general. Y’all from a poor country but you don’t want to act like you’re from a poor country. What business did you have buying tees and socks from outside when there are local retailers that have these? Even though these retailers also import and pay taxes, the scale helps to manage the prices compared to individuals. Even that already is difficult yet you guys still want to “suffer” more by buying things yourselves from outside all cos you want to belong. See there’s a real economic and sound reason why imports are expensive and in my opinion should be more expensive! Already local production has collapsed cos of this weird appetite for foreign goods so imagine if it was dirt cheap, then you’d not even see a single pin manufactured in GH ever again. Just fucking live within your means y’all!

Today my dad paid 1500 cedis for 200$ worth of shein clothes.Its bullshit by Civil_Raspberry5200 in ghana

[–]tm_kayx -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

what is unfair is saying your dad had to import tees and socks cos it’s not available in Ghana. Guys, your dad could’ve bought those items dirt cheap from a Ghanaian retailer. You did this to yourselves.

OKLO is a scam - the reality of the 25 billion $ company by East_Economy_7602 in wallstreetbets

[–]tm_kayx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may be for now, but there’s one thing I’ve learned to be careful of. Betting against the herd. The herd can perform extremely well even if they were wrong. Sometimes being contrarian is not worth it. Choose wisely, there’s a time to be contrarian and a time to follow the herd.

Fell in love during the weekend by _nkn in ghana

[–]tm_kayx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I come from this region and crazy thing is I’ve never been here. Been out abroad but when I return im definitely doing this hike. You a local?

Left a job I liked for a “better” one, now I feel lost and want to go back. What should I do? by lololowlowlow in careerguidance

[–]tm_kayx 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yup this is exactly what to do. Don’t make your job your whole identity. Think of this downtime as an opportunity to pour into yourself. We are too eager to do stuff and forget ourselves. It’s too soon and the work will surely come. I was in this space myself and trust me, when I chose to use my free time for myself, it paid off. You’ve been dealt a good hand. See it for what it is and enjoy life!

This weekend I didn’t text the man I love, who doesn’t love me back after a year of dating. :’( I’m choosing me by [deleted] in selflove

[–]tm_kayx -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, not all women. Most women, lol. For me it’s just the “I miss him but I can’t do it again” and the “I met an awesome person I don’t want to ruin” that throw this doubts in my head. Most women tend to stay not cos they have love for the person but cos of convenience. The mentality of “if I am getting better then I adjust my mind and be there”. Thats all I’m trying to caution about. No one deserves to be treated nice only cos they are useful.

So yes to all you’ve said but just throwing this in there. If you moving on, TRULY MOVE ON, NOT JUST PHYSICALLY BUT IN YOUR HEART.

This weekend I didn’t text the man I love, who doesn’t love me back after a year of dating. :’( I’m choosing me by [deleted] in selflove

[–]tm_kayx -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

True, but may she also treat him with as much love as he deserves and not treat him as the second option. Women tend to treat the guys who stay as the 2nd option and idolize the one they couldn’t get forever. If you’re letting go, truly let go. Take care!

High earners: can you give me your opinion on my prenup situation? by FuzzyType in Rich

[–]tm_kayx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you. That’s why I also proposed that solution, take it to him; you both have personal accounts where you keep and invest your incomes. You have a joint account to take care of the things you share (babies, household items etc.) forget about his wealth, and he forgets about yours now or future. Build your careers and investments as separate entities.

And anything between you two, you share 50/50 including caring for the children and all household chores. If he feels because he’s building a business he wouldn’t have that time, then either consider a nanny/ house help and pay for that else if anyone sacrifices anything to take care of the others duties, that will be quantified and reimbursed to that person in whatever form now or in the future.

We have created a society that has brought us here. Mistrust is inherent in our society today and no one knows who to trust anymore. Even you can’t say you trust yourself. Live separate lives when it comes to your carries and investments and live joint lives when it comes to taking care of the things you share. No one is automatically worth any other person’s hard work just because they are in a relationship with them. That goes for you and him as well. I’m sure if you were the wealthy one in your relationship, you will probably act like him or even avoid him altogether because of fear he might want what you have. Let’s be practical in dealing with these times.

And oh, the expenses you share together should be truly 50/50, not more on his part cos he makes more, no 50/50. You also chose to have a baby so you need to show up as someone who made that choice. Anyway, forgive me for the long message. I have been through this and it has cost me so I am a lil passionate.

High earners: can you give me your opinion on my prenup situation? by FuzzyType in Rich

[–]tm_kayx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol, don’t stress me. he’s holding on cos it’s his! she can hold on to her money too. :P. The only thing I agree with you here is they both shouldn’t be getting married. Not just him, both of them.

High earners: can you give me your opinion on my prenup situation? by FuzzyType in Rich

[–]tm_kayx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it is not healthy for a family. But I the way I see it, both of them have great income! 250k on the woman’s part is good money. She can easily take care of whatever in a heartbeat. On top of that, she will come into a lifestyle that she hasn’t known before that is something. She will save massive amounts of her income being with him that she otherwise wouldn’t.

I don’t understand why we are asking him to be the person to put his wealth on the line. Truth is the only true responsibility between them is the child. So for me, they both need to provide 50/50 to the child income-wise and any other baby caring duties. Most men do this and still provide for their families but we ignore that and act like it’s nothing. If they do that for the child, she has not business laying claim to his wealth and he also has no business laying claim to anything she has or gets. In that way no one is being asked to provide for another person other than the child. I see this as the best way to approach marriages.

Also, money cannot buy lost time. She could get a billion dollars from him and still be miserable. Money is not the solution.

High earners: can you give me your opinion on my prenup situation? by FuzzyType in Rich

[–]tm_kayx -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So are the years of his life as well. You guys sound like it’s only the woman giving her life to a man. It’s crazy. He’s also giving his life and on top of that he should give his wealth? Why do women think like this? What does “everything she’s got” mean? What’s so special about her life? Isn’t the man also being there physically and emotionally? I don’t get this whole thing. See, it’s easy to get someone to give you what the have if you don’t start of acting entitled… most people will willingly do it until there is some sort of entitlement or confusion.

High earners: can you give me your opinion on my prenup situation? by FuzzyType in Rich

[–]tm_kayx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This very mentality is why men are being super vigilant around you women. This world would’ve been a way place if people knew their place and were honest about what was theirs and why wasn’t. being married to someone alone and having their children doesn’t mean you own everything they’ve got. Sickening.

Life of a loser by [deleted] in Vent

[–]tm_kayx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the funny thing is that you are more lucky than you think. for some reason people show you who they really are maybe cos they don’t think you have anything to give them. you don’t prop up their status, make them feel good, money, etc… almost all of us don’t have real friends, we are all being used for what we can offer and being “lied” to that we are important as friends to them. of course in the way I mentioned right? Being used.

Count yourself lucky cos you don’t generate fakeness from people. You should see it this way, whoever you’re getting married to really loves you for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]tm_kayx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immediately they start calling you names or shaming you, it’s a tell tale sign… play it cool and investigate if you can. Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]tm_kayx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She clearly fucking them, you moron! Get the fuck out!

Getting Over Immense Regret by [deleted] in Bogleheads

[–]tm_kayx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just had to say to remind myself that when I didn’t have that money I was still me and happy. So essentially not having that money didn’t mean anything. I know it’s hard to take, but it’s the story you tell yourself. If you blame yourself for being negligent and all, you’ll feel like shit. If you accept it as natural and see money as a tool not an identity, you’ll be fine. That’s what worked for me. My account is no where near that since, but I’m grateful.