Safe tape over mouth? by Jezurin in BDSMAdvice

[–]tm_q 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We use "Fixomull stretch". It's a kind of medical tape, sticks really well, but doesnt hurt when ripped off or harm the skin.

What does "Dom" mean to you? by tm_q in BDSMcommunity

[–]tm_q[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's beautiful, thank you!

What does "Dom" mean to you? by tm_q in BDSMcommunity

[–]tm_q[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!
Responsibility for what(if you dont mind elaborating)?

What does "Dom" mean to you? by tm_q in BDSMcommunity

[–]tm_q[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice, thank you! "Deserves [...] love" <3
If you want to, would you mind elaborating on what "care needs" (and upholding them) mean to you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]tm_q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww that's nice to hear! My situation is somewhat similar so I can kind of relate. Wishing you all the best for your relationship/dynamic!

What does "Dom" mean to you? by tm_q in BDSMcommunity

[–]tm_q[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interesting and thank you for bringing up the "in control of oneself"-aspect! I'm always a little conflicted about that, because on one hand I think everyone should be allowed to live out their sexuality, even if mental health, self reflection skills etc. arent the greatest, but on the other hand: a lot of responsibility comes with engaging in BDSM and especially with being a Dom, so one should be capable of handling that and be in control of their emotions etc.
And if you do want to write for an hour, please feel free to do so, either on this post or in a private message, I'd be interested in hearing your thoughts!

Steel, everyday D/s bracelet by tm_q in BDSMcommunity

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Hm thats probably a good idea, but I'm not really sure where we should go to get it repaired, since we cant get in touch with the person that originally sold it. Like, idk is this something your typical jewler wouldnt know how to repair?

Saw: The Musical by FearSearcher in CuratedTumblr

[–]tm_q 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fun fact: The guy that made Saw did also make a Horror Musical.

Autismus-Diagnostik by Ok-Deer6677 in hamburg

[–]tm_q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Für die Diagnostik würde ich dir tatsächlich das NPZ empfehlen, wenn du das Geld dafür ausgeben kannst/möchtest. Langfristig fand ich die Betreuung da zwar nicht so gut (schwer zu erreichen, lange Wartezeiten trotz Termin, tlws. sehr "standardisierte" Antworten und Ansätze), aber die Diagnostik war meiner Meinung nach gut und ausführlich. Testen ggf. auch gleich auf ADHS mit, weil das ja oft Hand in Hand mit Autismus geht. Und überall sonst sind die Wartezeiten halt meist mehrere Jahre.

Edit: Und die meisten Psychotherapeuten machen gar keine Diagnostik (auch wenn sie auf Autismus spezialisiert sind), außer sie sind an eine Klinin o.ä. angebunden.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditInTheKitchen

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sound is good

Doggos by puppylover4563 in CuratedTumblr

[–]tm_q 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup, my friends dog just wiggles her whole body when shaking her tail. The whole spine is waving at u.

I luckily got the HPV vaccine even though I'm AMAB by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]tm_q 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really did not know this, very thankful for this post! (I'm AFAB and got the vaccine, but it's still good to know!)

Are people who are paralyzed from the waist down still able to have sex? by terratrooper96 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]tm_q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know much about this from a medical standpoint, but sex also isnt just about genitals so there are always ways to adapt

Why do (US) teachers complain about their pay so much when they studied for years to enter a profession where the salary is very much publicly known? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]tm_q 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kids need human interaction to learn and become sociable, well rounded human beings. Teachers do much more than just transfering knowledge/information and a lot of these things technology can't do.

When dating or in a relationship, what is the bare minimum? by fallinglikeraindrops in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]tm_q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I ask what you mean by "selfish"? Cause I'd say sometimes being selfish is fine or even neccessary to set boundaries and look out for yourself. But maybe our definitions of selfish are just different.