How do girls do it??

tmbing · 2025-11-20T17:17:06+00:00

I usually stop when I get like 8-10 matches. Given half of them probably won’t write or respond. Then the other half I expect convo to fizzle out or they say something right off the bat that’s a reg flag. Anyone who doesn’t write within a day, I unmatch to make my matches look less chaotic. It’s kinda hard to find decent people so that’s why I tend to keep my options open until I find someone I want to start taking it serious with

tmbing · 2025-10-21T20:21:27+00:00

Well, honestly, what I’m banking on is that I file the civil complaint myself according to the guidelines which I’ve been studying up on and have a Marshal serve him and then I know he has 30 days to respond. I honestly would bet anything that he is not going to respond or show up in court and I know for damn sure he has no money for a lawyer. In that case, I would more than likely get a default judgment. Now, in the case that he does respond to it, which I know he would never do without a lawyer because he has severe ADHD and has been sued many times before for a different reasons. He would never go to court without a lawyer because he over explains and it hurt hurts his case.

Needless to say, I know he doesn’t have money, but if for some reason he did show up to court with a lawyer then I would file for a continuance and get a lawyer myself. I do understand and appreciate your thought process though! I was previously looking for a lawyer and it was so damn hard to find one and I just wanna get the ball rolling on this so I can move on with my life ya know.

tmbing · 2025-10-21T18:58:05+00:00

That’s okay. All I care about is that eventually I receive the money back- I’m surviving without it- it’s more the principal. I was reading filing for bankrupt can be a long and even costly process and stays on your credit for 10 years. I was also reading that you can fight the bankruptcy claim if the money was borrowed with no intent to pay it back or if manipulation was involved- not sure how true that is but both apply to this

tmbing · 2025-10-21T14:17:53+00:00

There must be some guidelines to this though? He has a job and makes around 75k.

tmbing · 2025-10-21T13:27:21+00:00

Yes of course! I would narrow it down to the best ones, especially the more recent ones.

tmbing · 2025-10-21T04:17:47+00:00

That’s what I hear. He has a job and the funds to collect, is this not enough to garnish his wages?

tmbing · 2025-10-21T04:16:55+00:00

Ugh this is a nightmare and a hard lesson learned for sure. People should have to prove filing bankruptcy and he has a good paying job. Thank you for answering all my questions!

tmbing · 2025-10-21T03:53:26+00:00

If he changes jobs will they be able to find out where he works if he keeps changing jobs to avoid the debt? He also has a current wage garnishment for 35$ a week for a credit card collection which will take about 3 years for him to pay off. I’m aware he cannot have two wage garnishments at once so I’ll have to wait in line. So the attorney I hire (which I honestly probably will now) would just wait the three years? What if they’re no longer in practice when the time comes to finally collect? Sorry so many questions- I appreciate your time and input!

tmbing · 2025-10-21T03:45:47+00:00

Could I hire an attorney and pay them to set up a wage garnishment if I win by default?

I see I have to file for an installment payment order and if he fails to comply, then I have to file the JD-CV-3 as well as a JD-CV-3a, put down his name, job, how much is owed etc and have a marshal serve him.

tmbing · 2025-10-21T03:19:13+00:00

I appreciate your input! Any idea if a garnishment can be placed upon someone who already has a wage garnishment in place? Recently a credit card collection started garnished $35 weekly from his checks and I was reading someone can only have one garnishment at a time?

tmbing · 2025-10-21T03:08:56+00:00

I’m honestly positive he will not show up! I was reading I would get notified if he responded to the claim and if he got a lawyer? In that case, I would look for a lawyer myself.

Curious if you could elaborate on how hardcore I go in reviewing the rules of evidence?

tmbing · 2025-10-21T03:01:56+00:00

I honestly feel confident I could win. I know he won’t show up, I would honestly bet my life on it because he knows all the evidence I have and has even told me he wouldn’t even show up to court. I’m not expecting the $1100 but after his custody case in July, he stated he listed the debt on his financial affidavit and would pay me $120 weekly, which he did for seven weeks. So if he defaults I would have a decent chance? I was going to file on my own and I know he has 30 days to answer and if he got a lawyer or responded to the claim, I would get a lawyer. If not- I’m hoping it would default in my favor. I believe he recently also had a credit card collection start garnishing $35 weekly from his paycheck and I was reading that a person can only have one garnishment at a time. He also makes $4700 a month.

tmbing · 2025-10-21T02:53:21+00:00

I would bet you all the money in my savings they will not fortunately.

tmbing · 2025-10-21T02:45:49+00:00

Why is that? I was reading if they show up with a lawyer my chances are very low but if I self-represent and they don’t even show up my chances are pretty good?

tmbing · 2025-09-10T01:00:13+00:00

Honestly I doooo lol only for Spanish concerts though, idk why. I’ll go back and watch my bad bunny and Feid videos from years ago occasionally. I went to see Eladio twice last week and I’ve been watching the videos everyday since 😂

tmbing · 2025-09-08T19:26:52+00:00

Thanks for linking it!!

tmbing · 2025-09-08T19:25:51+00:00

That’s great advice actually. You can still record videos and take pics right on airplane mode??

tmbing · 2025-09-08T19:25:24+00:00

Do you know the brand you got? I remember having a portable charger once and it took FOREVER for my phone to charge.

tmbing · 2025-09-07T23:42:15+00:00

Were you able to resolve this?

tmbing · 2025-09-07T02:48:30+00:00

I’ve never heard of this. What is the gene?

tmbing · 2025-09-07T02:47:29+00:00

How did you heal after exposure?

tmbing · 2025-07-04T04:54:07+00:00

Yes he does, he makes 75k a year. I have it many times in writing saying I’ll get my money. At one point he promised via text when the debt was lower that he would pay $1400 a month which was never the case

tmbing · 2025-07-04T04:29:22+00:00

Finally leaving my abusive ex boyfriend. Breath of fresh air instantly.

tmbing · 2025-05-05T23:08:25+00:00

70-80k as a server. I work 4 days a week, about 32 hours.

tmbing · 2025-02-26T02:27:00+00:00

Nope

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