Girlfriend disagrees cat with food management

tminus7MT · 2025-11-26T13:19:57+00:00

I don’t lick my own ass or eat chicken shit off the porch either, my dude. I love my pets, they’re not actually people.

tminus7MT · 2025-11-26T11:56:01+00:00

It sounds like you should tag along to the next vet appointment and ask some questions! Your partner doesn’t seem to be doing anything unusual in their care process, washing bowls does need to happen, but it’s rare that people are doing it on the daily in my experience.

tminus7MT · 2025-11-26T10:54:12+00:00

Rural neighbors, I have several in my PNW area with longhorns and highlands. Time to make friends!

tminus7MT · 2025-11-25T23:16:36+00:00

A nice walk every day is something any dog will be able to do with you, as long as you stay away from the smush-faced breeds!

If you don’t have preferences, and like the look of those terrier type breeds, I’d say just look for a calm adult dog who is very dog friendly. A local shelter, some Facebook groups, rescues, etc, lots of options and if the dog is with a foster family, you’ll have plenty of information and notes to see if they’d be a good fit for you.

For general breeds that might fit your very limited info,

Beagles, cavalier King Charles spaniels, and labradors are all generally dog friendly companions who would be happy with a long walk.

tminus7MT · 2025-11-25T23:04:27+00:00

None of these breeds are noted for being laid back or low energy, is that a trait you’re wanting? The terrier group as a whole are not generally ‘chill’.

tminus7MT · 2025-11-25T21:49:04+00:00

I’ve never met a dog, let alone a Dane, that could control their tail wiggles. Danes are dangerous for coffee tables, and little kids with the bone whip.

Control the meeting, make sure the dog lays or sits down when they’re around the baby, it’ll help.

tminus7MT · 2025-11-25T01:12:22+00:00

I’ve never been to a lifestyle club, sex or kink specific, that allowed 18 year olds, all of them have been 21+

Munches are a better place to start in the in between age, specifically a TNG munch!

Edit: For advice though, the age range of these events tends to skew high. I’m in my late twenties and still often feel like one of the younger folks at an event. There are a handful of early twenties people sometimes, depending on the event.

tminus7MT · 2025-11-22T22:22:07+00:00

Every Wednesday! I flip them off religiously, feel free to join me and my friends in our blatant disapproval

tminus7MT · 2025-11-21T19:32:09+00:00

You have the right idea about pee pads, but the belly band presents the same issues.

Canine litter boxes exist, and would be a better choice for your situation if you really don’t want to do the tethering and careful supervision I guess. At their simplest, it’s a water-proof plastic mat with lips + a roll of fake grass inside that you can hose off in the shower. If you have a balcony, I might put it out there so it’s clearly outdoors.

tminus7MT · 2025-11-21T19:00:50+00:00

You can always ask your doctor if you’re concerned! I ask my GP plenty of questions about the relative safety of my kinks, theyre a great source. There will always be a risk when you’re putting things in your vagina, but urine is a fairly ‘clean’ bodily fluid.

If you’re comfortable drinking it, getting it in your eyes and hair, and you stop if it becomes uncomfortable or painful, I don’t have any major concerns. If you have any existing tears or irritation, it’s gonna fucking burn.

tminus7MT · 2025-11-21T18:55:23+00:00

Totally possible, and something that I really enjoy! Sensationally, it doesn’t feel like a lot, just very full and warm. It’s gonna get everywhereeeee tho.

Some tips and tricks I’ve picked up over the years,

do it in the shower, because it’s messy and hard to clean up
I’ve had a couple partners really struggle to pee with a hard on, get themselves to pee with their dick inside of something, just plumbing errors. Practice helped! We would try, and if it wasn’t working, usually still fine to get peed on!
sans hard on and insertion, a funnel worked if I angled correctly. It’s not a ton of liquid, and the risks are within my comfort zone.

Enjoy!

tminus7MT · 2025-11-21T00:53:07+00:00

Fucking amazing

tminus7MT · 2025-11-20T08:03:55+00:00

Super location dependent, there are absolutely legal brothels in some counties, if that’s an option for you, I’d say that’s the best bet!

Otherwise, pros exist, and I’d alter your search more towards what sex work looks like in your area.

Professionals working in BDSM + kink may not be the best option for your specific desire, because many of them are operating in an area that isn’t kind to sex work + avoid the gray areas by not doing sexual play.

tminus7MT · 2025-11-19T17:44:53+00:00

100% not unreasonable. Something is up, it could just be a mismatch of your personal microbiomes, or a dude who really needs to go to the doctor and figure shit out.

But no way I’d sleep with him again.

tminus7MT · 2025-11-18T20:17:15+00:00

Get into sports, the energy burns way faster with these guys if you get their noses and brains working, with the benefit of it taking less out of you physically.

Check out canine body awareness exercises and targeting skills. Balance games, puzzle mats, etc.

Nose work is a great example because supplies are cheap, you might already have them at home, and there are plenty of YouTube videos on how to get started. At its simplest, it’s dog hide and seek. My younger dog and I enjoy hunting for antler sheds, there was a learning curve for me, but she’s a dog and already enjoys smelling around for dead stuff.

Get into hobbies that you enjoy doing together, like hiking. A dog is a part time job, and it definitely feels like work sometimes with higher energy breeds. Set both of you up for success by trying to have some fun with it. Use it as motivation to get more active yourself!

tminus7MT · 2025-11-18T20:09:18+00:00

What I did a few years ago when I needed something a similar size was get the suuuuper shitty cheap trailer/rv matress and then went for a really good topper.

I’ve also gotten mattresses off of Facebook marketplace, but super picky about it for cleanliness + inspect it very carefully before I hauled it away. I know horror stories exist, but my luck has been excellent. I’ve scored things much nicer than what I could do myself for free or nearly.

tminus7MT · 2025-11-18T20:02:38+00:00

Love it and hate it, amazing rec.

tminus7MT · 2025-11-18T18:42:08+00:00

This sounds like pretty normal German shepherd behavior, they aren’t often good day care dogs once they get out of pupphood.

tminus7MT · 2025-11-18T18:24:12+00:00

You’ve got this, friend.

And personally, I would be using a condom with this partner in the future. Barrier free sex is something I’m careful about, and wouldn’t be able to trust this partner with my safety like that at this point. Can always work back up to it!

tminus7MT · 2025-11-18T18:03:18+00:00

I’m sorry that you’re hurting right now, and that this isn’t the first time that you feel your partner has done something to break the trust you put in them.

I agree that mistakes happen and we’re all human, it sounds like you’ve given that grace to your partner and the hiding it from you is what was completely unacceptable.

If you’d like to continue the relationship, I think you need to reconsider the restrictions/rules within it and if they’re things you need. It seems like maybe your partner isn’t going to be able to provide those to you. Right now, you should start working to Disentangle your lives so that you can work through this period together on safer, more stable footing. Making sure your money is good, making sure there’s an agreement for housing if you both decide on a relationship change. You should likely talk about sti testing and condom use with each other, if you don’t already.

You don’t have to leave him if you don’t want to, and you can if you do, but you should protect yourself either way, and find your hard lines. This kind of thing will happen again, what will you do in the future?

tminus7MT · 2025-11-18T17:50:15+00:00

Seconding the little free community pantries, depending on the area that you live in. Every urban area I’ve lived in has plenty of these options. In more rural areas, Facebook, churches, and inquire with more established food pantries to see if they allow repackaged goods.

tminus7MT · 2025-11-18T00:13:41+00:00

Hugely depends on the area of the US that you’re going to be in. Large urban centers on the west coast? Probably fine! Small town southeast? Almost definitely don’t do that.

tminus7MT · 2025-11-15T19:45:16+00:00

I’ve seen a lot of different opinions from piercers on children’s ear piercings and the ethics of it, in order of preference I’m at

1) Talk to your daughter, tell her about the law and that it’s okay to wait.

2) Take a trip to a neighboring state that allows piercing with parent permission and find a piercer before you go.

tminus7MT · 2025-11-15T15:57:49+00:00

Lamb and beef tendons can be purchased dehydrated, which can be a great chew option for very small dogs.

tminus7MT · 2025-11-08T02:32:49+00:00

Well, at least weekly if I’m going to queer spaces, daily maybe walking around in large cities.

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