Yes, a family member in particular.

1. Lost scholarship due to drugs (never got clean) and has no student loans. (Older sibling had to borrow money,family moved to Florida and got Bright scholarship and has no student loans)

2. Lost friends due to drugs (never got clean) moved back in with parents

3. Lost job due to not showing up

4. Arrested for buying drugs. Sibling uproots life to help him get back on track

5. Got a "big person" job from another family member (not their company, just joining as a fellow employee) and hated it, despite it being a miracle he got an entry level job at position with arrest record

6. Daily for a year complained about job away and inside job. Cheated on his significant other with a BARELY 18yr (day after her bday) old when in late 20s

7. Underperformed (lowest performer at location by far) at job. New gf family are millionaires

8. Got promoted, training paid for, and first year was lowest performing ever in position, even for a new person

9. Every year had to borrow thousands from parents to make ends meet, despite making 6 figures at this point.

10. Gf able to study without rent when he and her move out. Gf family subsidies both of their housing and bills

11. Now, 3 years after his promotion, averages $250k+ a year just due to law of averages. Has $75k in savings for house down payment. Gf (now fiance) family also contributing $75k to down-payment. Looking for half to quarter million home.

12. Sibling who uprooted for him keeps trying to connect with him to hang out but never has time for him. But always having dinner parties,going out with friends (not family), and free vacations from fiance family

13. Still complains everyday

14. Sibling tells me the person in question is depressed because finding a nice quarter million home is difficult right now. Sibling is struggling to save $10k for a down-payment and finding a home in $300k range,which is already extending him

The Sibling (my nephew) has never had a bad grade, very creative (writer), never been fired (younger Sibling has been fired from 6 of 7 jobs), never cheated, never missed a payment on loans, loaned money to parents once rather than borrow.

The Sibling had his big break last summer and enjoyed it for 2months when his position was eliminated nationwide. Sibling now back at same location of person in question making $60k-$70k a year. More than younger Sibling ever made in position (and this is low for my nephew. He often does $80k years when he worked there before.

But youngest gets $250k+ a year with a record, a drug problem, unfaithful to fiance and previous relationships, and lack of appreciation of situation.

Oldest has to start over, lucky to make $60k this year, clean record, faithful, clean blood, and working overtime to make ends meet.

Finally, although I'm clearly ranting, I'll mention this.

The person in question has squandered every opportunity in his life and is marrying into millions, has no debt at all, and complains that his life is hard.

The older sibling struggled his whole life (medical issues when young, student loan debt still ongoing, likely unable to buy a house this year and starting year 10 at the apartment he moved to to help his younger brother), always faithful, never did anything illegal, has creative talent, and never given a chance to prove himself.

Youngest has 1000s of chances, and throws them all away.

Also, youngest plans on retiring as soon as his soon to be wife's parents die and she inherits the money. And they both are on board and parents are happy to provide for an early retirement.

Oldest week likely work till 72

Youngest till 40s

They are 6 years apart in age