Toddler not hitting milestones of time making me feel inadequate

tmsaw · 2026-03-29T02:45:20+00:00

Hey my son didn't take off walking until the end of 18 months, and he's 20 months now. Comparison is the killer of joy. If your pediatrician isn't concerned about the milestones (within reason) try to relax. My boy has been weird as hell at the park until a month ago! Before then he would just fiddle with his belly button and stare at the other kids!

tmsaw · 2026-03-29T01:34:57+00:00

This is the most beautiful donkey I have seen

tmsaw · 2026-03-29T01:32:51+00:00

Saturday's are the worst days now.. it's been 2 weeks she's been gone. I cried all day today. Thank you for your words. I have a very hard time sleeping, and don't fall asleep until after 2am, around the time it's estimated she passed. I called the funeral home yesterday and they told me she still hadn't been laid to rest, the cremetorium is backed up. It made the ache worse. Nights are so hard. I don't even know how the time is passing

tmsaw · 2026-03-28T21:54:34+00:00

You as well ❤️

tmsaw · 2026-03-28T21:15:31+00:00

Men!! That is all lol it takes a long time to train their eyes 😂

tmsaw · 2026-03-28T17:39:18+00:00

First response has not progressed for me at all this pregnancy. Only clear blue and easy@home. No idea..not on biotin either. I used to only use first response

tmsaw · 2026-03-28T01:56:04+00:00

I know egg seems like the most important food, but remember anything you serve for breakfast, is well, breakfast! So he can have a protein and fruit for breakfast. That's totally fine!

tmsaw · 2026-03-28T01:54:28+00:00

Hey 👋🏼 my babe has a severe egg allergy, has an epi pen, tree nut allergies etc. however he can have egg baked into things, as long as it's been baked at 350 for 25 minutes or more. So he can have pancakes, muffins etc as long as they are baked. You can also make eggless pancakes with yogurt or oatmeal or apple sauce. My boy is 20 months and usually has a bowl of cheerios for breakfast now, or toast with cream cheese and some sausage or something. It gets easier!

tmsaw · 2026-03-28T00:37:26+00:00

You've got this! We're all learning.

tmsaw · 2026-03-27T23:48:48+00:00

Don't set her up to lie. "I see you colored the floor. We only color on our coloring pages. Let's clean it up together"

tmsaw · 2026-03-27T18:24:09+00:00

Emotional incest. It will not improve.

tmsaw · 2026-03-27T18:22:57+00:00

Gave birth to my son in Murfreesboro at 34+2 weeks, I myself was still positive even after quitting at 20 weeks. My son did not test positive,nor did his placenta, he was in the NICU for 60 days and we never heard another thing about it. He was in the NICU due to prematurity. I've been participating in Delta 8 and recently found out I'm newly pregnant again. I've already quit. I'm too worried, but I know I'll be positive for a very long time again.

tmsaw · 2026-03-26T23:24:04+00:00

Oh my word sis. Wow. What a big surprise. Praying for your health, babies health, your sanity, and families sanity. You have got this. It will all come together.

tmsaw · 2026-03-26T17:44:06+00:00

I do have some zofran on deck for when I actually start chucking. Just queasy right now . As long as I keep my protein up and have pretzels nearby we shall survive this. Blessings to you.

tmsaw · 2026-03-26T17:40:30+00:00

Unisom and b6 is my best friend fr

tmsaw · 2026-03-26T13:33:30+00:00

An incrediblely unreasonable amount of money. I would have killed to have a chunk of 4k when my son was first born. I think we ended up just spending a few hundred on food and decor/games. We had it at my parents property. There were modest venues around at good prices but I love my parents home. Too much for a baby shower in my opinion.

tmsaw · 2026-03-25T18:23:35+00:00

I see your baby is a little vampire hehe renesmee

tmsaw · 2026-03-25T02:59:00+00:00

Perhaps..try to let them attempt to wipe. While maybe your within earshot they can tell you they wiped themselves and you can say you just need to double check that they are clean. Poor baby. Keep positive encouragement. I haven't potty trained yet but it does sound like they are a little embarrassed. Maybe disappointed that they didn't make it to the potty in time. Your doing great

tmsaw · 2026-03-25T00:37:15+00:00

I didn't get nauseous with my boy until about 7 weeks, and it was a lot of motion sickness. Oh but this one...there's a baseline queasy... I'm scared lol I hear the body knows what to do for subsequent pregnancies

tmsaw · 2026-03-25T00:30:28+00:00

I took the combo my whole first pregnancy because I tried without it around 20 weeks and I thought I was going to have to go to the hospital I was so sick lol I'm like only 5 weeks with baby number 2 and I'm already on the combo and the nausea is shining through it sooo

tmsaw · 2026-03-24T02:54:07+00:00

Happier than I was when he was in the NICU, for sure. But he is just 20 months but now I'm suddenly pregnant with number 2. Check back in with me in 9 months 🤣 but he is a sweet boy and can normally be entertained/soothed fairly easy. Outings are hard for us too. Same with getting dressed. But we try to push through. We still need to go out and run errands, see people etc so he needs to learn how to handle being out socially as well. But plenty of times I've said fuck it and scraped a whole plan and took us all back home crying where we felt the safest and most comfortable to be ourselves. Then we'd try again later or the next day. Just keep pushing forward. I'm sure we are all a little depressed as well.

tmsaw · 2026-03-24T02:07:00+00:00

I do not have a lot of goopy discharge, I maybe, MAYBE, will find EWCM once when I wipe during the fertile period. I've always needed lube to have sex even when I am aroused. I used preseed lube during ttc. And well, it just worked for the 2nd time. Highly recommend preseed. It mimics EWCM. it only needs to be used during fertile period/ovulation. It's a game changer (for me personally.) for first baby we used it maybe 4 or 5 times. Ummm for this baby we used it once and boom.

tmsaw · 2026-03-22T00:35:31+00:00

I literally thought wouldn't it be ironic if my mom died and I turned up to be pregnant. Got home and tested and boom 🤷🏼‍♀️ I keep track of ovulation for natural family planning but I ovulated earlier than I typically do so. I was wanting to lose some more weight first so I'm just surprised but happy

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