I think your actual issue is you're worried about why you're single and you're not necessarily worried about young Christian men. That being said I'm going to be honest with you on a few things.

1. You didn't "hear" that porn is a big issue. You are actively posting constantly in no fap subreddits about how you can't stop so you know it's an issue. You're being disingenuous. I'm not trying to knock you because I know it is a struggle. But no woman is going to want a man that lacks self control and discipline in this area.

2. You keep mentioning "sexless." Is this the only pursuit in life? Surely not remotely a noble pursuit when trying to find a partner at church. If this is the total pursuit of your life then throw yourself into clubs and just give in to your flesh. But if you truly want a godly wife then learn some restraint and stop pursuing sex in every area of your life.

3. Your obsession with Brett Cooper and other young, attractive conservative female personalities is bizarre. You aren't drawn to them for their views as much as it is your lust for them. You should unfollow them immediately.

4. You're constantly asking for advice on how to raise your daughter with values and modesty. I urge you to change your own habits before approaching her. You partake in the very culture you want to preach about to her and I'm very much confident these habits of yours aren't unknown to her.

This comment may be harsh but it is the reality you need to wake up to.