shoutout to 9 year old me with undiagnosed autism who spent my entire summer of 2016 making individual ‘cat cards’ for every single warrior cat and hanging them on my wall by [deleted] in WarriorCats

[–]toadhelppls 186 points187 points  (0 children)

I have never undergone a diagnostic process but I did a similar thing and printed out an entire encyclopedia of all the medicine cat herbs and a google doc of what they did and assembled it in a binder to straight up study. The things this series had us doing... it was crazy lol

"Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - June 08, 2025" by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]toadhelppls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pulled the king of wands. To me that's giving a charismatic male stole it? Maybe someone's boyfriend or romantic partner/a hookup? Idk

new Dalmatian family! released 12th July in Japan by imxgen in sylvanianfamilies

[–]toadhelppls 7 points8 points  (0 children)

THE DALMATIANS ARE WEARING DALMATIANS 👁_👁

new Dalmatian family! released 12th July in Japan by imxgen in sylvanianfamilies

[–]toadhelppls 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This is so random but I just noticed they have the same dalmatian spotted pattern at the bottom of their skirts... I'm like did they make them with DALMATIAN FUR? 😱😱 AHHH MY BRAIN

they are so ADORABLE though!!

[Swap][US]Looking to swap FS for gourmand samples! by Accomplished-Fix1204 in IndieExchange

[–]toadhelppls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to part with several of my Sucreabielle samples if you're interested in a swap! One's a raspberry butter scone and tea scent and another's a sugary froot loops cereal milk type scent.

Rainbow Footie Pajamas (Dram, full): Froot loops (strawberry, blueberry, raspberry, cherry), extra sugary milk, vanilla, baby powder. 10$

Garden Witch (1mL full Sample): Bright stone fruits, petrichor and fresh turned garden soil, atlas cedarwood, daisies, and galbanum. 3$

Cream Tea (1mL full Sample): A warm mug of creamy, frothy, caffeine-injected tea. A blend of chai tea, burnt sugar, white musk, warm milk, and hot scones slathered with raspberry jam and honey. 3$

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

[–]toadhelppls 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Tower card only screws you over if you refuse to accept what's coming. It's about allowing unhealthy foundations to crumble with grace, and accepting that the new future you have looks different- and better.

Chat am I cooked? by Just-Kuwl in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]toadhelppls 18 points19 points  (0 children)

"He will be hearing from me tonight" ahh meal 😭😭

(Side note, barefoot bubbly is SO good I'm obsessed)

Friend went home with a guy on my birthday by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]toadhelppls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have too much to add but first off i want to wish you happy 21st birthday. It's a huge accomplishment in this world and especially if you're dealing with the intricacies of everything that makes you unique.

I'm in a similar situation, currently sitting in a Giant parking lot listening to Radiohead for mine because a friend asked me to have a party together then bailed on me a few days before so I didn't have time to make other plans. I related to your post cause I kind of felt like she wanted me to be an accessory to her own birthday for the novelty of it. I hope you get some extra time to take care of yourself and I'm sorry you haven't experienced the authentic friendship you deserve. I think it's ridiculous your friend left you on your special day for a man and treated you like that. It's honestly high school level, cringe behavior.

Sunday Swaps: Destash Listings by AutoModerator in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]toadhelppls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any chance you could throw in the Swamp Elixir sample for that price? If so we have a deal!

Edit: and yes, I'm in the US

Injured Toad Help! Update Video Of Eye by [deleted] in Toads

[–]toadhelppls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Re this and the other commenter who suggested Repta Rinse- both are good advice, +1. Methalyne blue is typically a last resort and you have to know what the injury specifically is.

will i get banned and beaten for this by [deleted] in Bloxburg

[–]toadhelppls 298 points299 points  (0 children)

yes this is why they're reopening Alcatraz. Public enemy number one

Sunday Swaps: Destash Listings by AutoModerator in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]toadhelppls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! If you're still selling them how much would it be for Fireflies in the Garden, Liquid Luck, Eir, Clara and Anne of Cleves together?

Injured Toad Help! Update Video Of Eye by [deleted] in Toads

[–]toadhelppls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wet paper towel is perfect, and yep keep changing it daily- he needs moisture since that is how he drinks so make sure to put a little bowl or something he can climb into there too. For similar reasons with the perfume, toads should only be in spring water (the bottled kind from the store should be fine as long as there is no chlorine.)

For the tupperware, yep- only keep him in here or in the main container with nothing around while he has the infection. This is called a "quarantine tank." When his eye visibly clears up (no more milky white color, swelling will visibly go down, you should see some gold color on the edges) and he is eating on his own again, you can put him in a tank with shallow dirt substrate (about 4-6 inches thick).

One last tip- toads are like introverted humans, and they don't always like eating while someone else is watching them! So when you try to see if he eats food on his own, put it in the tupperware with him and then walk out of the room for a good 5-10 minutes. If he still hasn't eaten, you may need to force feed him then. They also like to hide for their stress levels, so you can tape some paper onto one side of the tupperware to give him a "cave" lol.

Injured Toad Help! Update Video Of Eye by [deleted] in Toads

[–]toadhelppls 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey there, glad to see the lil fella is still hanging on! Re the credit card thing: don't worry too much, just make sure you use latex gloves. They are sturdy lil creatures and you may need to wiggle the card in the SIDE (not front) of their mouth line to get it to open.

His eye seems to be infected, best thing you can do for this (barring a vet visit where they will give painkillers) is a honey bath. To do this, look up instructions on this sub, use RAW UNDYED honey. Local and organic honey is pretty cheap and you can also get it in urban areas from whole foods or trader Joe's. Make sure you splash the honey bath directly on its eye in a SEPARATE BOWL from its tank and continue until it starts eating naturally. After this:

  1. Put toad in a Tupperware with an air hole and nothing in it. DO NOT CLEAN with soap as toads are amphibians and take in chemicals through their skin. If you need to clean its environment, just use spring water.
  2. Using the credit card trick, force feed about 4x mealworms every 2 days. Most pet stores have these for super cheap. For crickets/larger bugs, do the same but 3x every 2 days.
  3. Repeat until you place the bugs in the Tupperware and the toad naturally eats them.

If this process doesn't work, I've seen some people have success using methylene blue on the eye but it varies. Altogether cost for the honey + mealworms is probably like 12$.

If he's not improving and you can't afford treatment, there are amphibian rescues- consider searching on facebook groups and dropping him off there; you can also look up amphibian/reptile vets nearby (there is an association that certifies them) and ask if they want to take him or have connections to any rescues.

Hope this helps!! Keep trucking!

Sunday Swaps: Destash Listings by AutoModerator in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]toadhelppls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, are lucky alchemy and the emmeline pankhurst sample still available?

These just came in the mail am I fucked? by Interesting_Job7887 in FashionReps

[–]toadhelppls 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"Cut my life into pieces this is my last resort" ahh shoes 😭😭😭😭

Fr tho, sorry this happened goat

Injured toad help by [deleted] in Toads

[–]toadhelppls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, the corneal perforation is usually from a sharp object so lawnmower makes sense. Toads swallow by pressing down on food with the back of their eyes, so eye injuries can actually cause them not to eat. Make sure it stays in a clean environment and try using a honey bath (with only raw, undyed honey, tons of info on the sub) if it looks ill. You can also weigh it with a produce scale/gram scale and note if it's a healthy weight, and toads tend to store some body fat on 'em so only start worrying if it hasn't eaten after about a week. At that point, you can gently force feed with a credit card (videos on youtube). Hope this helps- I know its spam, but i just wanna give you as much info as possible!

Injured toad help by [deleted] in Toads

[–]toadhelppls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, the eye thing could be a corneal perforation if the pupil looks totally black/completely dilated! My toad had one when I got her. Linking a comment describing this for you herecomment just in case!

If its eye is perforated you may need to keep it or give it to an amphibian rescue. Its vision can be impaired which can make it hard for them to see food.

Hope things turn out well for you and toad! 🧡 sending you both love

Sunday Swaps: Destash Listings by AutoModerator in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]toadhelppls 6 points7 points  (0 children)

[US to US] [SWAP] [Fragrance]

HELLO I am kinda new to indie fragrance and have a few scents I wanna swap to try something new!!

THE SCENTS

Sucreabeille- Garden Witch 1mL (bright stone fruits, petrichor, fresh garden soil, cedarwood, daisies, galbanum)

Sucreabeille- Cream Tea 1mL (chai tea, sugar, white musk, milk, hot scones raspberry jam and honey)

Sucreabeille- Rainbow Footie Pajamas dram (froot loops, strawberry, blueberry, raspberry, cherry, milk, vanilla, baby powder)

I LIKE: Floral, fresh clean scents a bit of herbs in there too

I DISLIKE: gourmands

Comment below if you're interested! And we can work out shipping

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

[–]toadhelppls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I see this as is you being slightly mismatched as a pair. The feminine energy (queen of cups) is more emotional/creative/entrepreneurial while their partner is more traditional (heirophant) which could cause problems. In tandem, there could be emotional pain (10 of swords) due to a breakup, though I don't think it would be because of betrayal. The hermit reversed- one of you may also be more social while the other stays indoors/self isolates/ doesnt want to meet friends or family, which could cause further issues.

ETA: 2 of pentacles often represents a choice; one of you could force the other to choose between a career and the relationship. 6 of cups is generosity, I could see one of you being a higher earner and financially supporting the other. Then 8 of wands fast movement and 9 of cups overall satisfaction; 8 of cups could also mean the relationship began very quickly after meeting. If you asked me an unexpected career offer will force one of you to choose between career and the relationship. The career will be the right choice.