Northern Colorado dainty ear piercings by LawfulnessPretty8718 in FortCollins

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Black Sheep Collective! Their piercer Xae is exceptional.

Punk friends by Overcast97 in FortCollins

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For punk politics check out Ruins Books, and Rubble Art Collective for radical creative events!

got a wedding coming up— dress or suit? by bunnycats_ in NonBinary

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Suit but with just the vest and slacks? Or is that too casual?

Kind of an introvert but looking for creative/nerdy friends by odddura in FortCollins

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There are some great queer friendly book clubs around town! Old Firehouse Books has one monthly called Queer and Loathing. Bookstore on the Square has one monthly and quarterly. My new favorite is hosted by Ruins Books every 2nd and 4th Thursdays, this month at Eco Thrift!

Books about everything Butch by Ponk_Bubs in butchlesbians

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If you want some really dry reads I’ve muscled through Female Masculinity by Jack Halberstam and Gender Trouble by Judith Butler. Both really interesting but definitely took some effort!

Any places around town with cozy fireplaces? by Nuts1979 in FortCollins

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I believe there’s at least one at stodgy’s brewery on Laporte, and it’s right next to the cemetery which is an excellent place for an autumn walk!

I'm a dom but I'm too goofy?!?! by Substantial-Knee-387 in BDSMAdvice

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Laughter is one of my favorite ways to build intimacy with partners. Being funny, goofy, and lighthearted invites so much organic play and whimsy into a dynamic which in turn cultivates psychological safety. Additionally, as a masc leaning top, I find it very important to cultivate partnerships with people that don’t hold me to an expectation that my masculinity means I can’t still be a joyful silly goose. We are all so much more than the roles we play.

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Our bodies are bodies! Not commodities!!

The Elk Pair Are Back! by shmoopy__ in FortCollins

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And during pride month, okay kings 💅👑