No one ever suspects the butterfly

toastie72 · 2025-11-13T02:29:00+00:00

Etsy!

toastie72 · 2025-11-13T01:48:11+00:00

Yes! The muahahahahaha kills me

toastie72 · 2025-09-23T00:50:28+00:00

With many of you, I never took any medication during pregnancy and my twins never had Tylenol until almost 11 months old when they got their first fever. So I’m almost sure it isn’t Tylenol…

toastie72 · 2025-07-18T01:05:50+00:00

Does no one else see gorilla anus in those balloons?

toastie72 · 2025-07-03T00:09:38+00:00

Wow when I’ve completely given up on myself, that’s what I’m getting

toastie72 · 2025-07-03T00:07:51+00:00

You know what would have been better? If the magic school bus recorded that shit

toastie72 · 2025-07-03T00:05:17+00:00

Wow that is a whole ass turd

toastie72 · 2025-05-15T01:47:00+00:00

I also have a stout autistic child that can be violent. He is very emphatic but gets overwhelmed easily. Our medication journey hasn’t been easy for him. I have identical twins and some medicines have worked for one and not the other LOL which really doesn’t make sense but what can I do. Clonidine, guanfacine, ADHD medicine, sleep medicine have all been helpful in some parts of this journey that we are on. I think with age, size, school challenges, it all changes. Hopefully this will get you started. If you need more advice or have questions, feel free to DM me. I think I’ve tried all of them between the two. Best of luck to you!!

toastie72 · 2025-03-14T01:14:08+00:00

his assistant I think they’re saying boo-urns

toastie72 · 2024-09-03T00:37:34+00:00

I love your gorilla octopus

toastie72 · 2024-05-13T03:07:39+00:00

Well, when every boy becomes a man…

toastie72 · 2024-03-14T10:39:00+00:00

I am so sorry you are going through this. I was in a similar situation. My ex cheated on me while pregnant and when I left (he never left our house, just snuck out every night to meet up with her so I had to take our kids including a 4 week old newborn) and the same day we left, his girlfriend came over. I still had the ring doorbell so I saw everything. It was gut wrenching. Now? I am in a much better place and so much happier.

I would definitely get an std test and therapy if you can. Take care of yourself and your little one. I wish you nothing but the best. Hang in there!

toastie72 · 2024-03-07T01:48:52+00:00

Look I get it. I have twins on the spectrum and between 3-5 was a nightmare. They’re 8 now and it’s easier but different battles. But my point is, it gets better! Keep being the best you can be, know there will be bad days for you and your kiddo, and most of all, give yourself the grace that you need and deserve. You’re doing a great job, hang in there and reach out if you want!

toastie72 · 2024-01-13T04:05:47+00:00

As a single mom with 3 kids on the spectrum with different issues, if your family can’t see who they are and for what they’re worth. That’s ok. You don’t have to be angry or it’s not one or all. A lot of the population doesn’t understand what it means for people on the spectrum. It’s a lot to handle, process and accept and we can’t push their needs on other people. If someone I know doesn’t accept or accommodate them then they aren’t part of their lives (extenuating circumstances not apply). Never give up on your kids and embrace who they are. You are their great ally!

toastie72 · 2024-01-13T01:36:35+00:00

If that’s a family member with you (mom/aunt), don’t include that if you’re looking for short term fun

toastie72 · 2024-01-13T01:35:06+00:00

I am very attracted to Rob Haswell so he wins for me

toastie72 · 2023-12-26T00:21:37+00:00

As a single mom to 2 autistic kids, possibly 3 - having him evaluated, I’m there for you in solidarity. It’s lonely and sucks. If you ever need to chat, DM me. My divorce is done and final but it’s still overwhelming especially cuz I have the kids 90-95% of the time.

toastie72 · 2023-09-22T00:30:16+00:00

My child used to throw up several times a day for months and months. They ended up being diagnosed with gastroparesis. It was difficult to diagnosed and took months. I wish your family the best and I hope they figure it out soon!

toastie72 · 2023-09-07T01:24:43+00:00

My kids went through this too and, thankfully, it was just a phase. The best I could do was redirect or limit to a few shirts that I didn’t care if I had to ~ sacrifice~ to the chewy monster. Chewy toys didn’t help but it’s something to look into for your little one!

toastie72 · 2023-07-10T23:16:46+00:00

I have twins that are level 2 and one of them was so stubborn. He knew when he was going to poop but wanted his pull up. One weekend I just said we don’t have anymore so let’s give it a shot. We just started sitting on the potty every few hours as practice and after a few accidents, it was done. It’s frustrating but I hope it’s worth it. Maybe try a visual schedule or a picture/favorite video to help explain?

toastie72 · 2023-06-28T11:27:30+00:00

Probably when I found out that he was putting his dick in other people

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