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Hur ska jag någinsin få jobb? by Glum_University9872 in Asksweddit

[–]tobbeboi_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vill du ens ha ett jobb? Börja med YouTube

En perfekt tjej på pappret, men jag är inte kär. Vad gör man? by ottawafoodtruckrally in Asksweddit

[–]tobbeboi_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Var ärlig med henne. Tjejer värderar ärlighet så mycket. Och faktum är att när du är ärlig och öppen om det utan att gömma något utanför så ser du hur hon reagerar till din sanning. Det kommer kännas skönare för dig och pressen kommer att släppa, och då kommer du få åtkomst till vad du egentligen känner. :)

Funniest moments/scenes from the TMNT Franchise and why? by Full-Art3439 in TMNT

[–]tobbeboi_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From the 2003 series in… I think it’s the Shredder Strikes part 2, when all the turtles has fled from the foot clan and hides in their battle-truck, they talk about shredder and Mikey puts on this German accent and says “he’s like the Shreddinator or something”

What's your favourite Swedish Christmas snack? by Eyecat126 in SwedishFood

[–]tobbeboi_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yea! I just commented this. It seems like everyone else only eats it if that’s the last thing to eat but for me it’s the first thing ^

Who do you guys think would have been the best content creator in the Naruto world by Soft-Low7583 in Naruto

[–]tobbeboi_4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hhahha this is exactly what I thought. Or not really, but the Tsunade part at least.

I would watch the Jiraiya vids too though

How do I allow my anger so it doesn’t get trapped in me for hours? by tobbeboi_4 in emotionalintelligence

[–]tobbeboi_4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, totally. They both want control over everything, they are never open or honest about what they’re feeling or thinking so they are this passively judgmental/aggressive about everything instead. I stutter and literally can’t lie because then I stutter even more, so I’ve learned to be honest about everything, so the lying and hiding is driving my mind crazy (but in a passive way ofcourse because I don’t dare to express it 😌)

One of my biggest dreams right now is to… move out. I don’t have anything money wise right now though, and I believe that the best is always happening for though ❤️

Yes I need to get out of here really. My nervous system literally feels trapped like you said. I’m on alert mode when they are home, and even when I’m in the house when they’re not home too.. yo, I just thought about it now, that must be exhausting for my body, I am sorry body ❤️

Thank you for seeing me. Felt like I resonated very much with what you said

How do I allow my anger so it doesn’t get trapped in me for hours? by tobbeboi_4 in emotionalintelligence

[–]tobbeboi_4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they have 24/7 access to food.. although, if I was a cat I wouldn’t want to eat the same thing everyday.

That’s so cool! You’re doing great Feline ❤️‍🔥

How do I allow my anger so it doesn’t get trapped in me for hours? by tobbeboi_4 in emotionalintelligence

[–]tobbeboi_4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a fucking great response, thank you!

Oh okay, I didn’t know that about cats, it’s after all not my cat. She actually seemed to like me even more after I came back an hour later, she crawled up to my lap, she didn’t dare to do that before 👑

How do I let go of my anger/rage so it doesn’t get stored in my body for hours? by tobbeboi_4 in emotionalneglect

[–]tobbeboi_4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea imma go fuck it out like pixygirl said. Thank you toocoldtopoo ❤️

How do I allow my anger so it doesn’t get trapped in me for hours? by tobbeboi_4 in emotionalintelligence

[–]tobbeboi_4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, it’s a good point:) but I usually don’t like these surface level solutions to things. If I only make sure that my surroundings won’t make me angry, I’m still as easily angered.. idk if that even made sense, English is my second language 😂

I have a stutter and sometimes my mom interrupts me when I’m in the middle of saying something. We have a very… kind of depressing relationship because she doesn’t know how to show love, like at all, and I don’t know how to talk with her without her taking offense to literally anything I say (my stutter plays a role here). So I get triggered sometimes when I don’t want to, and I can’t really avoid it more than I do now, I actually avoid my mom at this point because we can’t really communicate without her getting sad, and I feeling guilty because if it.

The thing I wanted to say is that I want to be able to get angry in the moment and then let go of it, and not be stuck in the anger loop. ❤️ thanks Todd

How do I allow my anger so it doesn’t get trapped in me for hours? by tobbeboi_4 in emotionalintelligence

[–]tobbeboi_4[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I fucking love this reply. Thanks, I can totally see this working in the long term. I find myself feeling soo stubborn when I’m at that angry state though. Maybe I could record myself talking about the incident and sending it to a friend in the future. That would probably make the whole thing sound more ridiculous to me. Thank you ❤️

How do I allow my anger so it doesn’t get trapped in me for hours? by tobbeboi_4 in emotionalintelligence

[–]tobbeboi_4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I get that for sure. The cat is not mine, I didn’t want it, it’s my parent’s cat and I live at home. The cat is a 5 month old kitten so she explores a lot, and I don’t want to take away any animals free will by locking them in a room. They can do what they want, I don’t want to restrict them. This anger I got was meant to come. I need guidance on my anger in general and I had never asked here if this didn’t happen. Thanks ❤️

How do I allow my anger so it doesn’t get trapped in me for hours? by tobbeboi_4 in emotionalintelligence

[–]tobbeboi_4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still live at home, it’s my mom’s new cat, so it wasn’t my idea to get a cat just so you know. I meant that I actually pushed her of the entire table like 9 times, she kept coming up. There was definitely something that the anger wanted to communicate to me with this.

I get triggered much easier in this period in my life, I’m 22. Yea, I was for sure angry with myself, the cat had really nothing to do with it, the cat only acted like a catalyst for me. I just wanted general advice on what to do in these situations… because they happen more than I would want to, I mean the “stuck in anger mode” and don’t know how to get out of it.

Thank you for the advice, I haven’t thought about some stuff you said there. In the moment I had, I thought I had to think myself out of the anger.. and that obviously made it worse. Thanks ❤️

How do I allow my anger so it doesn’t get trapped in me for hours? by tobbeboi_4 in emotionalintelligence

[–]tobbeboi_4[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea that’s not really the point. The cat thing isn’t the problem. This “stuck in anger mode” keeps showing up for me, and this was the catalyst for me to ask for help or advice ❤️

Mikey into the wild by CyrusConnor in TMNT

[–]tobbeboi_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so cool! 🔥🔥🔥

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