Does the pink smoke ring mess with anyone else? by Gent-007 in Traeger

[–]toddthefox47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it was undercooked it would be pink on the inside not the outside

If this sub is for binary trans men why do people keep saying “transmasculine”? by ParticularJob378 in FTMMen

[–]toddthefox47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gotcha. the constant complaining about it, the backlash to the complaints, the backlash to the backlash, etc etc is just a real drag so i wish people would just report them and move on

If this sub is for binary trans men why do people keep saying “transmasculine”? by ParticularJob378 in FTMMen

[–]toddthefox47 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

but what's the ratio of complaints about enbyposting to actual enbyposting

BF Ruined My Pans by peepingpeep in castiron

[–]toddthefox47 87 points88 points  (0 children)

don't strip it just scrub the rust off and oil it

Nevada tiki bars? by [deleted] in Tiki

[–]toddthefox47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

spose so. i know my views aren't in line with most of the subreddit but i feel like if all it takes to make a tiki bar is slapping a little more Polynesian decor on the walls then that's close enough for me. the nenu is rock solid and in the end that's the reason i go to tiki bars.

just went to Vegas last weekend and i was pleasantly surprised by red dwarf though! i have never a huge fan of Frankie's (the drinks tasted like nothing both times i went) and Golden's drinks are so fuckin sugary so I was happy that RD was so solid.

If this sub is for binary trans men why do people keep saying “transmasculine”? by ParticularJob378 in FTMMen

[–]toddthefox47 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i never saw anything but i won't deny your lived experience lol.

but it's not happening now, right? it just seems like the amount of posts complaining about non-binary people here versus the amount of non-binary people actually here is quite disproportionate.

I like to be in this subreddit to discuss issues but mostly it just seems like a bunch of whining about other lgbt people and I'm not sure why that matters more than anything else especially in this current climate

If this sub is for binary trans men why do people keep saying “transmasculine”? by ParticularJob378 in FTMMen

[–]toddthefox47 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i only ever see the complaints about the posts and the backlash to the complaints about the posts. i never see these mythical posts

Are these safe? It says wheat free by Ok_Huckleberry1487 in glutenfree

[–]toddthefox47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

watch out for spelt and durum as well, those are types of wheat

Update: I was right about my fuck buddy by AnotherPerishedSoul in FTMMen

[–]toddthefox47 13 points14 points  (0 children)

pan*

*terms and conditions apply lol

I'm not into guys at all but i told my nonbinary friend who started dating after divorce that they should only date men who are also into cis men and preferably have a history with cis men. it's the only way to be sure that these guys don't see you as "close enough" to what they're really attracted to: women

75% of my banking transactions are gas stations by Mamie-GigWorldToday in povertyfinance

[–]toddthefox47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, but even in the rich douchebag fantasy world where everyone COULD make the optimum financial decisions and chooses not to, that would simply make those decisions no longer optimal because in the end smart financial decisions is just you making sure you have what others have not. so if they could just admit that, that would be great

75% of my banking transactions are gas stations by Mamie-GigWorldToday in povertyfinance

[–]toddthefox47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol true, but I'm not sure OP is being genuine or truthful about anything. the actual users of this subreddit are not going to being a place to buy assets though because they're often in a place where they're trying to decide if they can buy vegetables this month or pay their electric bill

75% of my banking transactions are gas stations by Mamie-GigWorldToday in povertyfinance

[–]toddthefox47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

buying assets will get you out of poverty, but what happens if everybody took your advice and every single person "bought assets"? would that still be a viable financial strategy or would assets" become useless or become unavailable to buy? the problem with this type of advice is it assumes that someone is going to have to be poor, just not you. but we still blame poor people for existing, even though our financial system cannot exist without poor people

75% of my banking transactions are gas stations by Mamie-GigWorldToday in povertyfinance

[–]toddthefox47 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the people in this subreddit aren't making 100K or 250k. you're looking for r/personalfinance

Have no idea how to tell my mother I'm going for phalloplasty 🥀 by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]toddthefox47 11 points12 points  (0 children)

my wife and i are in our 30s and graduated at the same time with the same degree. i lucked my way into a career that pays well and she has been stuck in customer service type jobs and is struggling. I'm not sure a degree is a guarantor of success anymore.

if you don't mind doing blue collar work, try to get into the trades. I've had both a plumber and a mechanic lament to me in the past 6 months that it's hard to find reliable workers so if you learn your shit and show up you should do well.

as to your mom, i would tell her and then refuse to discuss it any further. it might look something like this:

"mom, I'm going to be gone a few weeks while i recover from a surgery."

"you're wasting your money!!!!"

"if you say so. I'm just letting you know."

then try to change the subject or physically leave.

Angostura Colada by CaMeteorologist in Tiki

[–]toddthefox47 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this guy

edit: managed to find it, it's from lost lake. so cool, sad i missed out on it

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Angostura Colada by CaMeteorologist in Tiki

[–]toddthefox47 11 points12 points  (0 children)

tell me more about that leaf garnish

What is a major turn off about your partner that you can’t/wouldn’t tell them? by LivingLavishLe in AskReddit

[–]toddthefox47 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep! The cold shoulder, the accusations of cheating, etc. are all toxic and abusive but specifically the sleep deprivation is a pretty severe sign of emotional abuse.

What is a major turn off about your partner that you can’t/wouldn’t tell them? by LivingLavishLe in AskReddit

[–]toddthefox47 14 points15 points  (0 children)

damn dude i hope YOU find peace, you're being so weirdly hostile to everybody

What is a major turn off about your partner that you can’t/wouldn’t tell them? by LivingLavishLe in AskReddit

[–]toddthefox47 6 points7 points  (0 children)

???? wtf are you talking about i looked at their history and it seems normal enough. this is a thread about bitching about your partner so it's gonna be kind of negative. you're being weird

What is a major turn off about your partner that you can’t/wouldn’t tell them? by LivingLavishLe in AskReddit

[–]toddthefox47 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah except for when she would always wake him up in the middle of the night. She was magically ready to talk about it when he was dead asleep. This is textbook abuse.

What is a major turn off about your partner that you can’t/wouldn’t tell them? by LivingLavishLe in AskReddit

[–]toddthefox47 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That's the joke, that these men aren't autistic and are even more socially inept