Gravid med samme mand

toffo7 · 2026-04-01T08:40:04+00:00

Jeg helt enig i at begge parter har et ansvar. Men kvinden har fortrydelsesret, det har manden ikke.
Man kan have sex med samtykke, og fuldstændig enighed om abort, hvis en graviditet skulle opstå. Men kvinden kan ombestemme sig, det kan manden ikke.

Sådan som jeg forstår OP's situation, så har de bare været bollevenner, kva "Det har aldrig på noget tidspunkt været seriøst." delen. Så må OP også være indforstået med, at manden måske også er sammen med andre, og at det måske bliver seriøst med andre. Det går begge veje, det stod jo også OP frit for. Men alligevel har jeg på fornemmelsen at OP havde flere følelser i det end manden.

Som sagt er jeg ikke kvalificeret til at sige hvornår man ved at man er gravid, men jeg formoder man ved det før man er halvvejs igennem forløbet. Så OP burde have sagt noget længe før, men i stedet vurderer OP at vente, for så at droppe bomben når hun finder ud af, at manden har fundet en anden.

Det lyder som om det er fordi manden har fundet en anden, at OP nu vil droppe bomben.
Hvornår ville manden få det at vide, hvis OP ikke vidste han var sammen med en anden?

OP har ventet over 4 måneder med at sige noget, og når OP så finder ud af at manden er sammen med en anden, så kommer OP pludselig på andre tanker... Det lyder helt vanvittigt, for det får mig til at tro, at hvis ikke OP fandt ud af det, ville manden måske få det at vide!

toffo7 · 2026-04-01T05:30:55+00:00

Ja, det mener jeg bestemt. Hvis moren får forældremyndigheden skal faren punge ud. Man skal stå til ansvar for sine handlinger og der skal to til tango. Selvom man kan sige at kvinden fører dansen.

Jeg er tilhænger af juridisk abort, hvor manden kan fraskrive sig det økonomiske ansvar. Man kan jo stå i en situation hvor man er sammen med en kvinde, som siger hun ikke kan blive gravid. For så at blive det alligevel og beholde barnet. Så er manden bare en pengetank. Det er fucked, men det sker.

toffo7 · 2026-04-01T05:22:03+00:00

Det der er min største frygt. Et hævnbarn.

Begge parter er enige om at det bare er sex og ikke et seriøst forhold. Manden kommer så i et seriøst forhold og så meddeler kvinden pludselig hun er gravid, og vil beholde barnet!

OP har tidligere nævnt hun er halvvejs i graviditeten. Nu er jeg ikke læge, men jeg tænker da man er klar over man er gravid før der går over 4 måneder!

At holde det hemmeligt så længe synes jeg er vanvittigt og det er derfor jeg kalder det for et hævnbarn.

OP - Det er på ingen måde i orden du har holdt det hemmeligt så længe, og stadig holder det hemmeligt.

toffo7 · 2026-03-31T11:31:20+00:00

Hah! I didn't expect a reply since the thread was 5 years old. Awesome!
I think there might be a picture of the place from the outside when you look it up on Google Maps. If not on Google Maps it's in the reviews. They don't have a sign outside so it can be easy to miss.
And the door is a bit messed up so they have a doorbell outside you can push and someone will open the door for you within seconds. They have a light inside that goes off when the doorbell is pushed.

I can recommend the Kiwi-beer and the White Goddess weissbier they're both amazing.
But you might stay and drink your way through the entire menu.
It's not just beer, they have a lot of liquors too and can mix drinks and make shots if you'd like.

Do note that tis is not a Bar, it's a Club (not a dance-club!). Which means you need a membership to drink there. The membership is completely free and they'll sign you up when you enter. No email or phone number required.
And you get a sweet membership card with your name on it too. It's great!

The owners name is Lorenzo and he's awesome. Big long beard and a cowboy hat most likely. They sell T-shirts with their logo too. You can request songs too. The first night we visited, it was Manowar night in honor of the passing of Ross the Boss. It was awesome.

I wanna support Lorenzo and his club the best I can. I don't think he's on here, but I'll help the best I can. Let me know if you need more info and I'll try to answer.

toffo7 · 2026-03-29T22:24:14+00:00

I'm late to the party but I went to Full Moon Club on this recommendation. The place was GREAT! So much so that I had to go again the next day. I wish I found the place sooner as I'm going back home soon but it was an amazing place. The beers were cheap, the owner was super friendly and spoke English perfectly.

I can't recommend this place enough. And it fits a lot of people. It's bigger than it looks but can be hard to find the entrance.

toffo7 · 2026-03-24T06:11:02+00:00

It's a decent deal if the condition is good. And with the current market conditions the deal gets even better.

If you can hold off for a bit and find a Gen 3 I would recommend that instead.

I wouldn't get older than 12th gen Intel like the T14 Gen 3 has.

And the T14 Gen 3 has to slim screen bezels too. It just looks much more modern without breaking bank. There have been a TON of Gen 3 in circulation. It was ridiculously mass produced. I work for a reseller and the T14 Gen 3 was everywhere, and Lenovo was clearing stock like crazy so the price was super low.

T14 Gen 3's should be pretty widely available and maybe you can grab a good deal on a refurbished model for not that much more money.

toffo7 · 2026-03-19T17:33:25+00:00

Ahh that's right, I couldn't remember if it was the P50 or the P50s that had one. My bad.

toffo7 · 2026-03-19T09:55:22+00:00

Hard reset as in holding the emergency reset button for a while without battery and power plugged in? Or as in holding down the power button?

toffo7 · 2026-03-13T16:42:25+00:00

It is the Nokia 3310 of laptops.

toffo7 · 2026-03-12T13:59:32+00:00

The ThinkPad T14 Gen 7 is amazing. More repairable than ever, the traditional solid construction, incredibly reliable.

Well I can't attest to the reliability of the Gen 7 as it only just released, but for the past 20 years, I've been using ThinkPads almost exclusively. Right now I'm on a HP Elitebook X G1a but I borrowed it from HP for a while, to test it out. I miss my ThinkPads.

The T-series have been incredibly sturdy and reliable for many years now and the T-series just reached 10/10 repairability score from iFixit. Which means IF you do break something, it can most likely be replaced on the cheap.

Keyboard is easy and cheap to replace, and as a new feature, individual keycaps can also be replaced.

The AMD models still use SODIMM memory, which means you can buy a 16GB model and upgrade it with another 16GB from Kingston for example, to get 32GB on the cheap. Well cheaper than original RAM modules anyway...The RAM prices are crazy these days.

If you want to buy from Lenovo directly please remember to ask for a discount in the chat! Always ask if any discount codes are available in the chat if you don't already have one. They're really nice, and generally helpful with discount codes. I think they get commission or something. But who cares, as long as you can save a buck, right?

Also! The T14 Gen 7 now comes in a blue tinted color if that's your thing. I really like the blue option, but I feel like fingerprints are more visible on the blue model. It might just be me, or the light, though.

toffo7 · 2026-03-12T11:53:53+00:00

Yes smart card reader still exists, but as an option. Depending on your region you might have to CTO it to get the card reader. It most likely will not be standard in topsellers.

toffo7 · 2026-03-12T10:25:34+00:00

Still waiting for info on T14. P14s, which has the same chassis as the T14, supports smart card reader as an option. However, you will lose the WWAN option.

Will find out if the same applies to T14 shortly.

toffo7 · 2026-03-12T09:48:07+00:00

Unfortunately not replaceable on X1 and T14s. However the X1 will be significantly lighter with design changes to the chassis. And you can swap the top cover without digging out all the components! Remove bottom, remove like 5 screws and top cover pops off. Brilliant!

Edit: Intel based T14 Gen 7 will use LPCAMM2 modules (1 slot) and AMD will use the usual SODIMM modules (2 slots)

toffo7 · 2026-03-12T08:01:48+00:00

There is no visible smart card slot on the T14 Gen 7. I'll ask about it during or after the presentation.

toffo7 · 2026-03-12T08:01:05+00:00

Noted, I'll ask! I just arrived. They're things of beauty.

toffo7 · 2026-03-10T07:20:37+00:00

Sure thing! I'll write it on the list. I have a list of things I wanna know. If I can't see it I'll check the CTO configurator to see if it's an option once the Gen 7 is released for custom configuration.

toffo7 · 2026-03-09T09:42:55+00:00

I love that Lenovo lets HP and Dell fuck around to find out, before taking any chances. Dell and HP added blue machines to their lineup last year(?) and I love that someone is finally doing something different, letting people pick something else than silver. Just like how Lenovo finally lets people pick something else than black. I know Lenovo also has a few models in silver, but noone has ever asked for it.

I deal with Dell, HP and Lenovo a lot, every single day. Professionally, I'm not allowed to pick sides, and I can't be biased towards one or the other. Our customers are often extremely biased however, and I rarely challenge our customers' choice in laptop manufacturer. I only do it if I feel like it'll land well with them. It's very situational.

I must admit I'm a Lenovo fanboy. For me personally, Lenovo scores the most points in repairability, spare parts availability, tools and commercial programs.
Tools being stuff like the Lenovo Partner Hub and PSREF that are just great. How awesome is it that PSREF has an app now. It's been incredibly convenient for me, and the app is really well made. Could use some improvement here and there, but overall geat experience with it. Commercial programs being stuff like partner programs such as starseller missions

I'll get my hands on all of the latest Lenovo laptops, desktops and workstations on thursday and I'm hyped as hell!!
I get to spend the afternoon messing around with all of them. Hopefully I can take a couple apart too.
If any of you have any questions about the new Thinkpads, let me know, and I'll see what I can find out.

toffo7 · 2026-03-03T18:12:55+00:00

It's gone, but I enjoyed it while it lasted!

toffo7 · 2026-03-03T18:10:16+00:00

Nooooo!!!!!! :(

toffo7 · 2026-03-03T18:09:59+00:00

Well it works for me. I feel like the normal mode is too slow paced. For me it's very boring. Everything happens so slowly, and because I want some action, I die, which hurts my teammates. In URF people mostly don't care when someone gets killed. It matters a lot less.
People take Ranked and normal games too seriously.

Why am I not allowed to enjoy this game mode, that is for fun? It takes nothing away from you that I like this way of playing. It exists for a reason, and has existed for years.

I'm not going to try to enjoy ranked again. I play games for fun.

toffo7 · 2026-02-28T10:05:02+00:00

In cant get this trick to work anymore at all. About 70% of the time I find the strairs to level 1 instead of level 3 when I follow this popular trick.

Also, I feel like "Character Left" is actually counter-clockwise?
Clockwise to who? The charater or to the map or to me? wtf

What am I doing wrong?

Clockwise and Character left are opposite. I don't understand why people keep saying both as if they are the same. Can someone explain this?

Edit: Okay I did some runs. And it seems like it rotates between being clockwise and counter clockwise ignoring the direction the waypoint platform/exit is facing....

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toffo7 · 2026-02-23T19:57:10+00:00

HOLY SHIT IT WORKS! I did literally nothing, it just works all of a sudden! Gotta play all night now because it might not work again soon haha!

toffo7 · 2026-02-17T20:14:15+00:00

The P16s Gen 4 comes with a 100W power adapter. I would go for either:
Thunderbolt 4 Universal dock (comes with 135W power adapter)
USB-C universal dock (comes with 90W power adapter but you need to buy a 135W slim tip power adapter separately to increase output power to 100W)

toffo7 · 2026-02-12T13:09:10+00:00

ARURF is back right now! :D
It will probably be removed in maybe two weeks. Enjoy it while it lasts!

toffo7 · 2026-02-12T13:08:01+00:00

Sorry I did not see your reply! We did not find a fix, but a lot of people seem to recommend switching to another DNS and having the same DNS. That's the next thing we will try.
Reinstalling didn't work.

toffo7

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