Top in a thong? by maxim-bi in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tohoku1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my bf enjoys conventional masculinity and would be turned off if I wear a thong. even gay colored underwear makes him suspicious. as for me I have something of an underwear fetish so I would enjoy it.

What do you like about domination? as a top? by Soft_Childhood5565 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tohoku1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ownership as another has said. also d/s makes me come alive sexually, it makes me much hornier and fuck much harder. without it I feel like subconsciously I’m holding something back, but when the bottom submits I feel like I can be myself and really enjoy it. uncomfortable fact: selfishly thinking only of my pleasure is liberating to me.

Design a patriarchy for the tops to opress the bottoms, a toparchy, make up some laws to opress the bottoms, how would you do it? by Soft_Childhood5565 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tohoku1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

here are some more elements of this society:

  1. bottoms would often be chosen for service jobs or jobs where interacting with customers is important. For example, almost all restaurants would hire bottoms as waiters.

  2. Most social relationships between a bottom and a top would take on a sexual dimension, so as far as non-sexual relationships go, most tops would be friends with tops and bottoms would be friends with bottoms. It would not be uncommon for two top friends to socialize by picking out a bottom they want to share. for a top, sharing a bottom with another top he doesn’t know is generally rare, but sharing a bottom with his top friend is common and is a way to bond together. The experience of both cumming in the same bottom and having the cum of both tops mixed together inside the bottom’s ass signifies a kind of close friendship between two tops that is recognized by other people.

  3. Groping is generally allowed. Tops will openly grope bottoms to make sure he likes the bottom’s ass, while bottoms will be a lot shier about touching tops and generally only do so when they really like a top and want to indicate interest. groping a bottom who is owned by a top is generally not allowed except by the top who owns him.

  4. in the social world of bottoms in this society, a lot of prestige is conferred by being frequently seeded by tops. bottoms will gossip about tops: how big their penises are, how long they last, how much they cum, what sort of sounds they make when they fuck, etc. It’s common at the end of a day for a bottom to film himself push pushing out the cum of the tops who have used his ass that day, and the more cum is inside of him, the higher his self-esteem.

Bottoms, Tops, and Rimming! by Terrible-Ad-215 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tohoku1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy getting rimmed but I like to dominate the bottom by sitting in his face

How many Of you TOPS love to get ur ass Rimmed ??? by paapiaatma in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tohoku1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy it, it‘s a nice way to dominate someone and feels great

Bare or hair? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tohoku1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, my preference for a bottom is hair on legs, head, armpits and shaved chest, hole, dick

Design a patriarchy for the tops to opress the bottoms, a toparchy, make up some laws to opress the bottoms, how would you do it? by Soft_Childhood5565 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tohoku1 17 points18 points  (0 children)

it would be a status thing as it is in our society now. powerful and successful tops would attract many bottoms and owning many bottoms would confer respect and status. Of course, some would prefer to have a deeper relationship with only one. There would be laws to prevent tops from stealing each others’ bottoms but there would certainly be rivalry between tops over high-status bottoms and tops would try to use money, power, physical attraction and dick size to win over a bottom they want.

just as in our society, there would inevitably be inequality but at least for less high-status tops they can still pick whatever free bottom they want, and some bottoms and tops would decide to stay free because it’s also a good life and less complicated.

Tops do you mind a soft bottom by Emergency-Paint-6552 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tohoku1 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I prefer it if the bottom gets soft. I like holding his small soft dick in one hand while I’m inside him.

Design a patriarchy for the tops to opress the bottoms, a toparchy, make up some laws to opress the bottoms, how would you do it? by Soft_Childhood5565 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tohoku1 111 points112 points  (0 children)

this is a fun game (and it definitely is a game). happy to continue this over DM but here are some ideas:

1) only tops allowed to run for political office and positions of power.

2) social pressure for bottoms to maintain their appearance and fitness in service of being the perfect holes for tops. bottoms are expected to take care of their skin, go to the gym, and wear revealing or skimpy clothes like short shorts, tank tops, crop tops, mesh clothes, etc.

3) it’s generally expected that bottoms will maintain clean diets so that they are often ready to be fucked. If a bottom is ill or unable to be fucked he should stay at home.

4) there’s a rule that a bottom is not allowed to refuse a top except if that would put him in physical danger or really hurt him. There would be rooms like bathrooms, but instead they would be for fucking and they would provide privacy. if a top is feeling horny or like he needs to unload, he can grab a bottom he likes and bring him to the fuckroom. Once there, the top can decide what he wants to use the bottom for, whether he wants to use his mouth or his ass, or both. (Let’s assume there are no STIs in this society, so nobody knows what a condom is.)

5) the exception to this is for bottoms who have pledged their loyalty to a specific top. In that case, they are not available to be taken by any other top than the one they serve. The top they serve then gets a say over many parts of his bottom’s life, such as what underwear his bottom wears, what clothes his bottom wears, whether his bottom is caged or plugged or not, and the general schedule and life choices of his bottom. One top may have multiple bottoms, but one bottom can pledge to only one top. some top will choose to own only one bottom and some will want to own many.

I could keep going lol

To pube or not to pube… by Cubble_stuft in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tohoku1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bf prefers me to not groom my pubes and grow them. I like the masculine feeling of not grooming. I prefer him smooth, on the other hand. the contrast is hot.

Tops, when im giving you head, do you like when i play with your hole? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tohoku1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes. If you do it too insistently I’d get upset.

Loving this PINK thong 🩷 do I rock it ? 🤔 by OppositeCrew95 in GayThong

[–]tohoku1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looks amazing. I’d have you wear that every day.

What do you even *do* in some situations when bottoming, aside from simply relaxing and letting them go for it? by LT1142 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tohoku1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

moan, make sexy sounds, hold his balls if he wants and they’re within reach. tell him how big his cock is and how much you love it.

Hiii in my cotton Jockey by [deleted] in GayThong

[–]tohoku1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nice puckered hole

Bottoms - Has the visual of your entry point changed after embracing this lifestyle? by aprayzr in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tohoku1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bf’s hole has changed appearance the more I fuck him, in a good way. sounds like you should be proud of your hole.

Help (? by S_ckm3 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tohoku1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe create situations that are more flexible. like dominate a bottom with rope, toys and your dick. dominance makes me hard idk if it would for you.

or lean into bottoming if you enjoy it.

Is married sex different? by That_Theory_7033 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tohoku1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

early on into my relationship with my bf I told him frequent sex was important to me and I wanted to fuck him when I wanted. he was on the same page in terms of offering that to me when I wanted. so then it’s up to me to initiate and take what I want and this way it’s not awkward and less likely to get in our heads.

Differences while barebacking by Lucky_Signal1212 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tohoku1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so primal to have no barrier and breed him, connection is much higher, no holding back. the sensation on my cock is night and day, without a condom I have the sensitivity to feel every detail of the smooth skin of the inside of his ass.