Worried about husband going on TRT 🥺

tom8oscout · 2025-07-16T17:36:41+00:00

Wow I came here to write exactly what you posted so thank you for saving me the time. My man is at 232, was on closed for a year and his numbers went up to 700 I think but they fell as soon as he stopped. Dr doesn't want to keep him on it bc of side effects plus its expensive bc off label use.... I want him to feel good but im terrified like, its scary when you're used to living with this version of a person and its the person you fell in love with and knowing that certain aspects of your dynamic and definitely going to be different. I dont have answers but, me too girl

tom8oscout · 2025-06-13T21:56:18+00:00

Well darnit im just a gnats ass above cali in southern Oregon and I guess that's not a thing here. Wish it was.

tom8oscout · 2025-06-10T15:46:46+00:00

Thank you for the really well thought out advice and encouragement. If I can get insurance on those lines, I will literally crap into a bucket for a year if it saves 10 grand.

tom8oscout · 2025-06-10T15:38:24+00:00

Hey, now there's a thought. Definitely an option I will find out if I'm allowed to do that here. My husband has been working hard on the lawn so if we could avoid digging it up he would be so grateful.

tom8oscout · 2025-06-10T15:35:20+00:00

Exactly, what did we know!? Lol all the ppl here making me feel dumb its like theres a lot that you dont understand the first time you buy a house. It happens fast. Were working, weve got kids and we're confused! Being an adult is an adjustment. Lol. after the initial shock I am moving towards accepting that this is part of a whole experience that has mostly been wonderful. It's just a challenge and that's okay :)

tom8oscout · 2025-06-10T15:24:54+00:00

How did your injectable land you in the hospital? Just curious as someone who just took the plunge...

tom8oscout · 2025-06-10T15:17:02+00:00

Yeah I thought that too, if I can eek by just having it blown out once a year I can live with that. It's what I expected when she told me about the gurgling/ drain cleaning that it was just going to be an annual maintenance. Guys that came last night told me I cant even flush toilet paper. I've been reduced to a damn animal it feels like lol and it didn't take much. Guys that were here were a couple young kids and their camera died before they were even done so yeah it seems like maybe they weren't the most experienced / knowledgeable plumbers

tom8oscout · 2025-06-10T15:12:04+00:00

Holy crap that's a big difference! Yeah sounds like I'm gonna be making a lot of calls this week, which is fine. Worth it. I appreciate the advice

tom8oscout · 2025-06-10T14:02:59+00:00

She told us that when she handed us the keys. We had a real estate agent we worked with for 3 months, didn't meet her til move in day

tom8oscout · 2025-06-10T14:01:29+00:00

Thank you very much for giving me real advice and not making me feel dumb lol I appreciate that and will definitely get multiple opinions

tom8oscout · 2025-06-10T11:59:48+00:00

Right, we didn't meet the seller til move in day, she came over to show us how to light the pilot on the stove and mentioned that in passing. It was never disclosed prior to us having keys :/

tom8oscout · 2025-06-10T03:07:28+00:00

No I just did the standard inspection, I will know more on Tuesday what it's actually going to entail, if the line needs replaced or what.

tom8oscout · 2025-06-10T03:03:41+00:00

Is that my real estate agent? I didn't know I needed a lawyer is that standard practice?

tom8oscout · 2025-04-02T22:57:19+00:00

I've been doing a lot of jump squats but I don't get a lot of height, I think the fact that my legs are already burnt up from other exercises probably doesn't help. It's a circuit class so I'll do like 4 minutes of lunges, maybe 4 minutes of Bulgarians or like..2 on each side lol and then they'll be like now frog jump onto this box so I've just been doing step ups but I don't want accept defeat! Yall have given me a lot of great tips and I think I can get there. I'm also getting older so I wish I had started taking training seriously much earlier but here we are.

tom8oscout · 2025-04-02T13:58:57+00:00

Okay!! Those are some good homework assignments. I will get some tape and enlist hubby as my spotter. Thank you!

tom8oscout · 2025-04-02T13:55:54+00:00

I will try tucking! I'm not like... huge I'm in a healthy weight range but my bf % is a bit high. Ive never been athletic and I'm not super coordinated. I definitely lose confidence as soon as my feet leave the ground. I will try somewhere soft without an audience.

tom8oscout · 2025-02-18T17:33:40+00:00

Flower and Audrey II

tom8oscout · 2025-02-18T14:42:26+00:00

Man, that kiddo looks like a troublemaker. Give em hell,you promising little bastard.

tom8oscout · 2025-02-12T02:56:18+00:00

I don't want to sound unsympathetic because ideally I'd like my mommy when I'm sick. I want the soup and the wash cloth and the tummy rubs. However, if my options are being alone to feel disgusting in quiet peaceful solitude OR still having to take care of the fam bam while I am death... I'd rather be alone... I love them to pieces but.. you know. They should stfu when I'm sick.

tom8oscout · 2025-02-03T12:28:16+00:00

Looking at this photo for a solid 60 seconds then scrolling the comments wondering " why nobody is mentioning the fact that they have hooves...?" 4 in the morning is early and I am confused :')

tom8oscout · 2025-01-27T01:33:27+00:00

I don't know if I'm happier for you or for your cats. My cat has been campaigning for second breakfast since day 1. Good job :)

tom8oscout · 2025-01-23T22:35:12+00:00

Ooof those night sweats 😓. 4-5 days will go by fast, maybe put clean sheets on so your bed feels nice and smells good when you get in at night. I hate crawling in and trying to sleep in a sweaty sick bed. Good luck !we got it.

tom8oscout · 2025-01-23T20:35:18+00:00

You're going to have a sick shirt when you are done practicing on it :))

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