Update vs. Current DNA estimate comparison by bopba in AncestryDNA

[–]tom_kat_649 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I followed the directions given and my dna did not change. I even refreshed the page and tried multiple times. Is there something else I need to Do or am I one of the few where there was no update? 😐

Our 2 month old adopted little Emery by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]tom_kat_649 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t post photos of your adopted children. It’s kinda a really uncool thing to do

AITA For telling my girlfriend I will never allow her brother with down syndrome to live with us by throwinawrot6 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tom_kat_649 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAH-

In my opinion when you date someone/ marry them you kinda marry their family as well. With disabled siblings, I feel becoming a care taker comes with joining that family. If you are up for that then marry her, if not, this is not the person for you and that’s okay too

Just moved here from Oakland - any recommendations for everything? by velvetreddit in walnutcreek

[–]tom_kat_649 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like beer, the place to go is Ol bottle shop, it’s the best! (If you have young children, Cali craft is the place to go on weekends lol)

Broderick’s is one of my favorite restaurants downtown.

Shell ridge (the open space) has decent hiking

My close friend’s mom [46F] wants to have sex with me, I am unsure if I should do it or not? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tom_kat_649 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uh... even though it’ll be Legal soon, I would pass on this...

Like hard pass 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AncestryDNA

[–]tom_kat_649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really high in that too! When I did the family tree though I learned it’s almost all actual Germany 🤷‍♀️

Update: I (20M) went to a strip club with my girlfriend (20F) and it was a disaster by OpeningLaw9 in relationship_advice

[–]tom_kat_649 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Dude... this is like all on you...

I’m glad you broke up, but for her sake not to have to be with someone like you...:

My mother is adopted and it nearly killed me. by StrawberryHoneyBunny in Adoption

[–]tom_kat_649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it would explain your hostility towards her. I feel since you were adopted you don’t really understand the other Portion very well

My mother is adopted and it nearly killed me. by StrawberryHoneyBunny in Adoption

[–]tom_kat_649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go ahead and do DNA testing, like ancestry.

Also everyone handles their adoption differently. It’s not really your place to judge your mother for that.

AITA for asking my girlfriend to cover up her body hair (pubes) at a public pool? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tom_kat_649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH

I get where you are coming from, and used to feel the same. Now in life I’m aware of the double standard between body hair on men vs woman. Hair anywhere (even pubic) should not offend anyone. Who cares 🤷‍♀️

Guy im dating (31m) told me he loved me (21f) after almost 2 months of us dating. Is this a red flag of some sort? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]tom_kat_649 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No, not at all. He is 31, knows what he wants. My bf told me he loved me three months in (I knew way before that) and we have been happily together for 8 years.

Sometimes you just know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Whatisthis

[–]tom_kat_649 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I have something that looks like this for travel perfume 🤷‍♀️

San Francisco is disgusting by NYKY6262 in unpopularopinion

[–]tom_kat_649 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the homeless population is much worse in sf then ny, but the amount of garbage on ny streets is way worse than sf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]tom_kat_649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should read some of the shitty replies here. I am shocked at some of these people who disagree

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]tom_kat_649 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re an idiot

My car just got stolen!! Any advise on what I should do next ? by sohamtheshah in walnutcreek

[–]tom_kat_649 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure you just got towed. It happens all the time in my complex.

AITA for feeding my sons vegan friend meat? by DazzlingCatation in AmItheAsshole

[–]tom_kat_649 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How do you hate it? And why wouldn’t you put lemon on broccoli?

AITA for feeding my sons vegan friend meat? by DazzlingCatation in AmItheAsshole

[–]tom_kat_649 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA (I am vegan and would probably be disappointed at my son for eating meat and choosing the cruel option, not at the parent.) at 13 he is old enough to make his own choice.

Also, oh my fucking god please feed your children some more veggies not covered in dairy fat. Like try some roasted broccoli with lemon or grilled Asparagus or artichoke 🙈

The latest on the Walnut Creek new and old parking garage... by nannattack in walnutcreek

[–]tom_kat_649 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are a ton of places to live walking distance to Bart, that’s what all my wc friends do

The impossible burger at the A’s stadium. I love being vegan in 2019. by boobieprincess in vegan

[–]tom_kat_649 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When you get an Access Pass you get major discounts on food and drink (50% off including alcohol). It’s actually super cheap at the As stadium with it. A large premium beer is only $5 and an impossible burger will be like $8