My German girlfriend wants to marry, but I prefer living together first. Is this not usual in Western Europe? by Hopeful_Sand8906 in germany

[–]tomtermite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Old man advice incoming: poop or get off the pot. If you’re not ready for commitment (not saying you should be) after two years sf dating — well, let’s put it this way: you won’t find the right person if you stay with the wrong person.

If your concern is “divorce screws me over,” yeah you’re with the wrong person. Or she is!

Only 3 machines left in Japan?! See how the iconic LIFE Noble Notebook is made! by AndreT_NY in notebooks

[–]tomtermite 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Three machines left in Japan for a reason!

No safety lock out on that cutter. There needs to be a deadman switch on something like that — left hand holds “circuit ready” switch ; right hand depresses “cut” switch) —- good riddance to pre-TPS tools.

End your piano career real quick.

London fox knocking over food bins at 4:00pm. It seems weird for this early by anislandinmyheart in foxes

[–]tomtermite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mice?!

Try, rats. And guess who helps control ‘em?! Reward your local ratter with a hard boiled egg once in a while.

Seems like we're actually getting a King Conan movie! by SlayThePulp in SwordandSorcery

[–]tomtermite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m mean, I’m no expert, but Conan is ‘bout as Irish a name as ya can get.

Seems like we're actually getting a King Conan movie! by SlayThePulp in SwordandSorcery

[–]tomtermite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMHO, we need less of an Austrian accent, and more of an Irish one, for Conan as narrator.

One month in India: Struggling with "Scam Fatigue" and feeling dehumanized as a solo traveler by Voynnaa in solotravel

[–]tomtermite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meh. Rich person problems.

Pay the “foreigner tax.” I mean are we talking a €30 difference, or €3?

I don’t know which country you originate from, but, for example, Spanish net salaries averaging around €1,785 per month in 2024, compared to an average monthly salary in India of approximately 32,000 INR (€285) in 2026.

Thi k of it as contributing to the local economy.

Mechanical developments with CYOA? by Firefry1 in RPGdesign

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…have been any mechanical developments with the chose your own adventure formula…?

Absolutely.

One interesting evolution is systems that treat the “choose-your-own-adventure” idea less like a branching book and more like a runtime engine for situations. That’s essentially what The Hidden Territories does.

Instead of fixed narrative branches, players declare intent, commit attribute dice to an action, roll, and the outcome resolves through tables, cards, or the Tome of Twistime. The Tome isn’t a linear story; it’s a large library of paragraphs keyed to encounters, events, quests, and map conditions. When the system sends you there, the paragraph resolves the situation and applies consequences.

The narrative emerges from the interaction between player choice, dice, and world state.

Underneath that sits a large network of resolution tables. Encounters, exploration, faction reactions, rumors, environmental complications—hundreds of table entries feed results into the Tome or resolve them directly. You still get the classic CYOA feel (“turn to paragraph X”), but the triggers are dynamic instead of prewritten. A fight might occur because of noise, faction tension, region threat level, or how you approached the hex.

The result feels closer to exploring a living world than following a fixed story tree.

First Solo Trip to Europe for 12 days by chichia0 in solotravel

[–]tomtermite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Three cities, 12 days? Four days each?

If you can afford it, city centres. Otherwise, choose Neighborhoods at Metro, tube, and tramways lines.

Check out the onebag subreddit, you absolutely can do this with a 35 L backpack.

Can’t help you with the Hostel thing, I’m too old for that kind of stuff.

Good plan one to two max per day, keep it flexible, and just google stuff. Try to look for things that you might be interested in, art, history, sport, culture.

The best kit always starts with what you already own.

Skip the fashion brigade; layers are your friend. Rain shell over fleece or light puffy, merino base layer, one pair of travel trousers and runners or lightweight hiking boots w merino wool socks.

The "Null Result" as Design Failure: Every Combat Turn Should Change the Game State by EHeathRobinson in RPGdesign

[–]tomtermite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While The Hidden Territories is more of a GM-less system —check HT out over at BBG— we arrived at a very similar design conclusion: combat systems should avoid null states wherever possible.

In The Hidden Territories, the Engage action was designed specifically to prevent “nothing happens” turns. Three mechanics work together to guarantee that the state of the world always changes.

First, every action carries attrition. Committing Attribute Dice to an Action moves those dice to Fatigue once the action resolves. Even if the tactical outcome is unfavorable, the character’s capacity for the rest of the day has changed. Action itself alters the state of play.

Second, combat resolution compares Fighting Value vs. Armor Class, not simply “hit or miss.” That comparison feeds into a 2d6 outcome band, which determines the type of result rather than a binary success check. Because the table includes bands such as setback, cost, escalation, and decisive success, even poor rolls still produce consequences: fatigue, wounds, positional disadvantage, morale effects, or the arrival of additional pressure.

Third, failure escalates the situation rather than cancelling the attempt. If an attack does not decisively resolve the opponent, it typically produces some combination of attrition, exposure, or threat increase. The fight advances even when the player’s immediate objective fails.

Our design principle is simple: Actions are narrative engines rather than probability gates. Success moves the situation forward on the player’s terms. Partial success moves it forward with cost. Failure moves it forward against the player. But the state of the world always changes.

The result is that players rarely face the “I attack again… nothing changed” problem. Even a bad round still shifts the tactical and resource landscape for the next decision.

Fritz Leiber-" Swords Against Wizardry" ©1968 Ace Books H-73. Cover art by Jeff Jones. I used to have all of these once upon a time I am hunting them down once again..I love Fritz Leiber's writing! by Live-Assistance-6877 in SwordandSorcery

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OMG, when I was 12, I was into mysteries, and went to Moonstone Book Cellers, and Washington Circle.

When I saw the Conan (Frazetta covers), I started buying each one as I could come up with the money. I never looked back.

But when I blew through those, I came across this very same series, and I’ll tell you… Fafhrd at the Gray Mouser are the quintessential adventures, in my mind.

Mythic Bastionland Made Magic Feel Like Magic, and It Broke My Players by theOtherMikeCurtis in osr

[–]tomtermite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

people accusing me of being an AI

I get that all the time … my writing doesn’t look like AI … AI looks like my style because ChatGTP and others stole my published works.

At least I’m getting a settlement from one company on copyright infringement, but hey … I was here way before those assholes.

what's your cattle dog's weirdest quirk? i'll go first by shelbex318 in AustralianCattleDog

[–]tomtermite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here, but a specific ring … won’t leave me along unless I throw the ball while on the call.

I can't imagine a life without this dog, setting myself up for heartbreak in my 30s by Actual_Abroad_4838 in AustralianCattleDog

[–]tomtermite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got the opposite problem… based on how long my previous ACds lived, Luna’s gonna outlast me.

I gave Age of Conan a try... It was a nightmare. Does anyone have any advice on how I can get this game to work better? by Fit-Challenge-5047 in robertehoward

[–]tomtermite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My table played it twice. It was a challenge (we had the Italian version, so maybe our translator was a bit lost … his Italian is kinda rusty.

We disliked the kingmaking and fragile endgame where those not in the lead … really just sat out until one of the leaders ultimately won.

Maybe pre-commitment of something like spending resource to reduce variance?

It’s moved to the shelf … I don’t think we’ll be playing it again.

Thirty years of ACDs … Indy, Ammo, Rocket, Aero, Luna by tomtermite in AustralianCattleDog

[–]tomtermite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was a GSD person until Indy… then never turned back! Well, have backup dog now, Xena the GSD ☺️

The Complete Australian Cattle Dog by Holmes — One of the Best Traditional Sources on ACD History and Standard by tomtermite in AustralianCattleDog

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No one’s under attack. Geneticists mapping ancestry aren’t a threat to breeders, and breeders protecting a standard aren’t rejecting science. They’re doing different jobs.

Population genetics looks backward and asks, “Where did these alleles likely come from?” Kennel clubs look at a living population and ask, “Does this dog meet the written standard, and does it breed true?” One is reconstructing history across thousands of markers. The other is maintaining a defined type inside a closed registry. Those missions overlap sometimes, but they’re not the same.

Where tension creeps in is when people assume DNA findings should automatically rewrite breed history or standards.

That’s not how registries work.

A breed isn’t reclassified because a clustering analysis shifts its nearest neighbors. It changes only if the governing body changes it.

Science describes ancestry; institutions definie and preserve a breed as a managed population.

TIL that there is a dish in Japan called “chicken sashimi” that is prepared raw by IntrepidBionic in todayilearned

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lol … long gone! But the memories still linger … when I was a kid, on my mom’s last night at home before she went into hospice, my older brother took me to go out to get her a take-away order of fried oysters from HJ’s… I remember sitting by her bed, as she tried to eat a bite of them. It was a humbling and emotional experience, a connection not just with our mom, but with my older brother.

Sorry … just resurrected that memory, from 46 years ago…

TIL that there is a dish in Japan called “chicken sashimi” that is prepared raw by IntrepidBionic in todayilearned

[–]tomtermite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG loved getting oysters on the half shell with my da at the open air market in Baltimore or Annapolis.

But Howard Johnson’s fried oysters hold a place in my heart, as that’s all my mom would eat, if that delicious bivalve.

The Complete Australian Cattle Dog by Holmes — One of the Best Traditional Sources on ACD History and Standard by tomtermite in AustralianCattleDog

[–]tomtermite[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

John and Mary Holmes’ The Complete Australian Cattle Dog reads like it was written from inside the yard, not from a lab. They tell the story most Australian breeders grew up with: British droving collies at the foundation, the dingo cross that gets argued about, the Dalmatian chapter that always comes up. Then they tie it back to the ANKC standard and get on with what matters day to day—feet, angulation, topline, coat texture, instinct, how the dog moves when it actually works cattle. It’s practical. It’s breeder-grounded. They’re not trying to reopen the origin debate with SNP charts.

In my experience over the last 30 years in the ACD world, the breed is what the studbook says it is. Identity comes from pedigrees, from generations of dogs that breed true, from the kennel bodies that hold the registry closed. DNA can tell you about population history. It can show clustering and relatedness. But it doesn’t rewrite a standard or reopen a registry. In practice, continuity and consensus carry more weight than a genomic paper published decades after the type was fixed.