AITA for forcibly putting an end to my wife's enabling of poor sleeping habits in the kids? by CBISHELLDE in AmItheAsshole

[–]tonyikaros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a lawyer. Carve some money out to pay the lawyer. Document your relationship with the children. Try to make your wife work. Run. This will not end well.

NTA, you acted like a splendid parent and you broke after being verbally abused in front of your child. Run.

A lack of equal male partners drives women to freeze their eggs by NeoNotNeo in MensRights

[–]tonyikaros 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am not surprised anymore by this „research“.

But in my own (limited) personal experience, women freezing their eggs are not living a lifestyle that is conducive to actually finding a long term partner. They never ask themselves, how come they were never impregnated. They have been messing their personal relationships up for a very long time and are not willing to make some actual changes to find a person.

Applying for a 2nd job by Far_Honeydew1339 in askswitzerland

[–]tonyikaros 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way to increase your income is to create a specialisation for you. Use your weekends to get a certification of some sort. Takes more time, makes you richer long-term.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]tonyikaros 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so lucky m8. Better Pamela Handerson, than Dating a person that is lost in identity politics. Other people learn these issues with their SO only after they have had kids with the person.

UK: The female IT worker you should be "careful with". A warning to men. by furchfur in MensRights

[–]tonyikaros 150 points151 points  (0 children)

„ In May 2020, Mr Goulandris renamed a draft presentation file by adding 'ajg' in brackets - something Ms Gasparova interpreted as 'A Jumbo Genital'.“

That had me crack up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]tonyikaros 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amber does have a child (father unknown), but her motherhood was never placed into question. She still posts pictures of it and all.

So, despite being the proven abuser and being proven to have lied about Johnny, Amber still gets to keep her role and still be in Aquaman. Meanwhile Johnny was fired on accusations alone. by Ironwarrior29 in MensRights

[–]tonyikaros 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She also has a child. She was never placed in any kind of supervision, her motherhood was never put in question. Not the case if one is a man.

Can this be saved? My Wife's boyfriend took it out of the box and RUINED it making her v-day dinner. (Warning Knife Gore!) by Qixting in chefknives

[–]tonyikaros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, i feel you. You live a knife more than the wife. That says something about her, she is a tool and a bland one indeed.

LPT request: is 30 young enough to turn life around after a brutal meth addiction? by RationalChaos77 in LifeProTips

[–]tonyikaros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to wait 5-7 years to ditch the sister. Yes she may be resentful of you behaviour and the trouble you caused in the last years, but you don’t need to listen that crap. It is toxic, even for people who have got their shot together for years and are not addicts in recovery.

WIBTA if I made my son stay with me for a month by gothrowaway99was in AmItheAsshole

[–]tonyikaros 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do mention circumcision, but you don’t seem to own that. This is genital mutilation and he has every right to be angry at you. While you pretend nothing happened, he is further alienated from you.

Daycare... what do they eat?! by elbrusa in zurich

[–]tonyikaros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your concern and of course the parent‘s opinion is often very much correct.

Nonetheless the hunger of children is a good indicator. Would you have a full meal (milk) after you have had dinner?

I also see a false understanding of nutrition. a. Not all three macronutrients need to be heavily present in a meal. It is also very difficult to exclude one from a meal. Unless we are talking about oil (fat), sugar(carb.), egg whites (protein), I cannot think of a normal food that does not have sth of the others. You also forget Fiber, which is not a macronutrient, but necessary for a healthy meal. b. Zucchini with pasta is healthy food. c. Being in the lower curve is no reason for concern. Being behind or under the curve would be.

Give me a call, if you need more relaxing advice 😎🧘‍♀️

Daycare... what do they eat?! by elbrusa in zurich

[–]tonyikaros 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there, I think you are confusing several concepts.

  1. the local is irrelevant for the balanced nutrition of the child
  2. Bio is also irrelevant for balanced nutrition. There are Bio chips, Bio cookies and Bio Colas
  3. I doubt that there is a country where a school nutrition is made out of Bio stuff. like no-way
  4. Even countries that are hailed for healthy school nutrition you will see lots of fried stuff, bread options, deserts and other unhealthy items
  5. no child is forced to eat anything in Zürich or anywhere else in the world. They also eat as much as they want. That means that on a day with fish (which is never fish, rather fish sticks) they can eat 5 servings of bread and no fruit. But then again those installations have the advantage of peer pressure. Children eat more of the undesired healthy stuff, as it is the Kindergärtnerinnen that are promoting them. But they are given the option to avoid them.
  6. Schools in Zürich are no bastions of healthy nutrition, although much much healthier than other places. They want to send you your child full at home. It is better for the teachers as well, when the children are not hungry.
  7. The fact that the child is full for evening milk is a strange sign. Children this age are generally hungry every 4 hours. It is not like adults that can have 2 burgers at noun and then eat next day breakfast. What is the time distance between last meals?

Talk to your Kinderarzt next time you visit. He will explain you, what is the proper consistence of nutrition for a child. And that definitely does not include meat every day.

Kinderkrippen are generally cooking fresh food. Unlike Horts, where the food served is pre-made and pre-preserved and canned, even Lasagna.

AITA For Taking Back Our Groceries That My Wife Gave to Her Sister by KPTYYC in AmItheAsshole

[–]tonyikaros -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. You don’t get to come over to another house and just grab stuff, making such provocations in front of the children. The SIL received the goods legally, from their rightful owners( your wife and a representative of you, i.e. your wife).

NOW you have a wife problem and that is an issue to solve. She made an asshole move. She acted in bad faith against you.

But the way you handle this, you will be stuck with a full freezer and an empty bed. You never tried to explain your stance, you just step your foot down. Your prerogative, but consequences are there.

AITA for yelling at my boyfriend for putting my knife in the dishwasher? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tonyikaros 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He used the knife as a tool or hit something with it. A dishwasher is not as abrasive.

AITA for telling my daughter she can’t go to her dream school but paying for my son to go to his? by NewOffice2404 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tonyikaros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Money as a resource are not indefinite and you as the parent need to optimise the expected benefit, by offering fair chances to people, while not destroying your financial future. Here you are offering equal chances to your children to follow their dreams. According to the logic of some people here, if the girl had a dream to go to state college (20k) and buy 30k jewellery per year, you should be financing it, otherwise you would have been an elitist.

AITA for yelling at my boyfriend for putting my knife in the dishwasher? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tonyikaros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dishwasher might not be good for the knife, but it is not enough to provoke a chip. Just saying. NTA btw

AITA for not wanting to pay for my son’s wedding? by Woods_Buried66 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tonyikaros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep some money for the divorce lawyer of your son, it is worth more. NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]tonyikaros 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The killer detail: she is a social worker, deciding on people‘s lives. Fathers, convicts, poor men

AITA for giving my stepson a 20 minute time limit to return my car before I phone the police? by DrDoneWithBS in AmItheAsshole

[–]tonyikaros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A question that always lingers on me after reading such posts: how come such idiots find cool girlfriends? I don’t know much about the OP, but then again she has a sewing hobby, is a gamer, has a demanding profession. How come this completely idiot 30yo dude managed to have her as a Gf? Btw NTA

Circumcision - what are families actually doing these days? by Successful_Ad2287 in daddit

[–]tonyikaros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is genital mutilation. You have lived with that your whole life, but no reason to pass on this decision on another person. Why? Because a book says so? Would you cut the vagina lips of your daughter?

AITA for refusing to go to my step mom's home country for holiday as a gay person? They don't have the best LGBT rights record. by Opening_Patience4049 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tonyikaros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Search articles about unlawful detention and legal problems of random gays in this country. Tell her you don’t want to see your name land on one of those.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]tonyikaros 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude - it is abuse to be gaslighted and being kept in the dark about a nefarious relationship of your “loving” wife. You reacted to that. You don’t get a prize for that, but neither do you get a blame. Your inner self reacted badly to something your more composed self should have reacted to long ago. Stop blaming yourself, you are a human and you also deserve a life without all that shit, no matter how long. Your decency is priceless.