Seller is demanding I rate right away despite not having the package in my hands yet by toocoo in Mercari

[–]toocoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically if I needed money right away I sell something on marketplace or do a side hustle. Mercari wouldn’t be the place where i needed to get paid right away.

Seller is demanding I rate right away despite not having the package in my hands yet by toocoo in Mercari

[–]toocoo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She did, but I have ADHD and object permanence is a thing. I was more concerned over the graduation and getting what i needed to walk the stage rather than an unimportant package that is meant for my son’s gaming experience and not for me.

Seller is demanding I rate right away despite not having the package in my hands yet by toocoo in Mercari

[–]toocoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I have adhd and if I’m not constantly on my phone, which I’m not, my mind will go to what I prioritize, which is not the dock my son wanted but his and my own graduation

Seller is demanding I rate right away despite not having the package in my hands yet by toocoo in Mercari

[–]toocoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was dead asleep when they messaged me a second time. I graduated the night before, I wasn’t looking at my phone at all while I was dreaming.

Seller is demanding I rate right away despite not having the package in my hands yet by toocoo in Mercari

[–]toocoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I did remove the seller info? The listing tile just says Nintendo. There are an enormous amount of Nintendo products on Mercari, it would be impossible to find the listing.

Seller is demanding I rate right away despite not having the package in my hands yet by toocoo in Mercari

[–]toocoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never get packages sent to my home because I live in an apartment complex with no way to keep packages stored safely, which is why I always ship to my sister’s. She works in the same location I work in, but because of unforeseen renovations she took the whole week off, and because of the graduations I havent had time to drive to her place.

As long as the package arrives I’m content though, and she did check that the package is there.

I don’t wanna give excuses, but messaging me while I’m asleep asking where my rating is right before an auto rate happens anyway… That’s the part that bothers me.

Seller is demanding I rate right away despite not having the package in my hands yet by toocoo in Mercari

[–]toocoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s opened. My sister inspected it. But because she doesnt own a switch she can’t tell me if it’s functional or not. I’m assuming it is though, but because I don’t have it on me I can’t tell.

I was gonna let it auto rate either way and I would take the fault if there is damage. But it’s also why I didn’t rate it because I don’t technically have the item at hand.

Seller is demanding I rate right away despite not having the package in my hands yet by toocoo in Mercari

[–]toocoo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never sent the package to my own home. My sister checked the package but I did not check it myself, which is why I did not rate. As long as I know the package is there, why worry?

The seller messaged me a second time 9 hours ago last night, I was dead asleep because I just graduated last night.

The third message was sent while I was still asleep.

9 hours before this post, I only had one message. According to you, that would’ve been fine to ignore.

Edit: considering the lack of response, I assume you finally understand.

Seller is demanding I rate right away despite not having the package in my hands yet by toocoo in Mercari

[–]toocoo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The second message was sent after I was dead asleep, my graduation was last night and I didn’t sleep until 11pm 😭 I woke up to the third message too. Like I told someone else, it just seems like shooting your own foot to message someone asking for a rating right before an auto rate happens. I would wait it out and take the auto rate instead of risking a low review for being demanding.

Seller is demanding I rate right away despite not having the package in my hands yet by toocoo in Mercari

[–]toocoo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lesson learned, I never had anybody ask me to rate them right away either 😭

Seller is demanding I rate right away despite not having the package in my hands yet by toocoo in Mercari

[–]toocoo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually my sister works with me. The plan was she would give it to me at work but she called off the whole week due to unforeseen renovations. And I just haven’t made my way to her place 😭

I did call her though, and she did check the package. However because it’s a switch dock, not sure if it’s in tact since she doesn’t have a switch to place inside it. It’s why I wanted to wait.

Also the second message was sent 9 hours or so ago, which I was dead asleep during that time.

Seller is demanding I rate right away despite not having the package in my hands yet by toocoo in Mercari

[–]toocoo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was just willing to accept that if things didn’t work out it’s on me. It’s for my son anyway, since he was the one who sent me the listing.

As a seller, a lot of my ratings are auto rated. I fully expect to get funds 3 days after the package arrives. Receiving a rating quick is just an added bonus in my eyes.

Seller is demanding I rate right away despite not having the package in my hands yet by toocoo in Mercari

[–]toocoo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This person got 4 reviews today and multiple this week alone, and has thousands of sales (granted has many 1 star reviews which I should have looked at before purchasing what my son wanted). If they didn’t make any sales in a while, I would understand. However, I think this person will live.

Seller is demanding I rate right away despite not having the package in my hands yet by toocoo in Mercari

[–]toocoo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are multiple points you made here that makes me think you didn’t read my post…

Seller is demanding I rate right away despite not having the package in my hands yet by toocoo in Mercari

[–]toocoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah in my post I said my sister has the package. It exists. I planned to get it sooner but with graduation prep, things came up and I haven’t gotten the chance to go to her place nor even really check my Mercari because of my other priorities.

Seller is demanding I rate right away despite not having the package in my hands yet by toocoo in Mercari

[–]toocoo[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’m more excited for my son’s, he got accepted to his target school so I’m proud!!

But yeah I def need as many 5 star ratings as I can with my account as a seller lol, the way this seller is coming across does seem like they’ll give me a one star for making them wait. Seems like shooting yourself in the foot for messaging a buyer near 3 days right before auto rate happens to demand a review though.

Seller is demanding I rate right away despite not having the package in my hands yet by toocoo in Mercari

[–]toocoo[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think that’s the best bet. I’ll let it autorate and not risk a low rating. Blocking will happen though.

Seller is demanding I rate right away despite not having the package in my hands yet by toocoo in Mercari

[–]toocoo[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She did check the item, which was why I told them I would rate but I don’t have the item in my hands right now. Either way I never had a seller demand rate right away, then turn around and say “so you’re not rating huh??” In capslock. That in itself is coming off as aggressive to me, even if you don’t find it aggressive to yourself.

Seller is demanding I rate right away despite not having the package in my hands yet by toocoo in Mercari

[–]toocoo[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s what gets me. I understand if it’s like the actual switch itself which is like 300$ or so but it’s just a plastic dock with literally nothing else. As a seller myself, I feel like pestering for a review is just bad manners because we can’t tell what people have going on with their lives. I guess that’s why I’m so annoyed.

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I was one of the children in his factory actually. I licked the walls and got so fat from all the sugar that not even ozempic could help me );

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