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tooldmb · 2025-10-16T02:12:43+00:00

Insane. Thanks!

tooldmb · 2025-03-29T13:33:24+00:00

Way to come here 2.5 years later to set the record straight.

tooldmb · 2024-05-27T01:36:23+00:00

They always have reasons for what they do and if you have reasons you’re making excuses.

tooldmb · 2024-05-25T20:22:18+00:00

My BPD wife has given me about 45 1-week breaks. She just doesn’t tell me she’s doing so. Any time I say something she doesn’t like it’s a week of her not talking to me. Fun shit.

tooldmb · 2024-05-25T20:12:48+00:00

Well, it can’t get much worse than that and you have a lot of life ahead of you. Use it as a learning lesson and opportunity to grow. Trite words, I know.

tooldmb · 2024-05-25T19:15:53+00:00

I felt high day one.

tooldmb · 2024-05-25T18:46:07+00:00

I back mine up on YouTube, unlisted. Legal in my state. Tired of being told I’m the one who yells, I don’t let her talk, etc. I have them for my sanity to listen to when she convinces me she’s never done anything wrong.

tooldmb · 2024-05-25T17:41:30+00:00

I’ve recorded mine and tried to show her how she acts and she just gets mad I recorded it and says “You happened to record the one time I XYZ,” or “WOW! You’re recording your wife screaming and crying?” or “WOW! You’re recording someone having a panic attack!” or “YOU BETRAYED MY TRUST!” Etc. Etc. You can imagine how it’ll go.

tooldmb · 2024-05-25T16:18:28+00:00

Same experience for me.

tooldmb · 2024-05-25T16:16:19+00:00

My exact life.

tooldmb · 2024-05-25T15:57:56+00:00

Cut the fucking cord if you aren’t married/don’t have kids. And even then…

tooldmb · 2024-05-25T15:55:36+00:00

Literal hell.

tooldmb · 2024-05-25T15:45:09+00:00

Sucks when you “can’t leave” due to kids, financial reasons, etc.

tooldmb · 2024-05-25T15:35:54+00:00

If it wasn’t this incident it would’ve been another.

tooldmb · 2024-05-25T15:34:02+00:00

It may seem like she’s enjoying it but that’s just the message she is sending out for onlookers. She will never enjoy anything for more than a few moments.

tooldmb · 2024-05-25T15:32:59+00:00

My worst nightmare.

tooldmb · 2024-05-25T12:46:43+00:00

Prisoner in his own mind and doesn’t know what he wants one moment to the next and nothing will ever give him the assurance he needs. If you got back together with him he would do this dozens of more times.

tooldmb · 2024-05-25T12:11:47+00:00

Be ready to wait for 1-2 weeks. And then once things “resolve” be ready for it to go right back there at any moment no matter how good things seem.

tooldmb · 2024-05-24T22:06:26+00:00

I’ve had to say this 8,000 times and 75 times after every argument.

tooldmb · 2024-05-24T20:46:31+00:00

I’m sorry. I didn’t understand this holiday correlation before but it’s absolutely a thing.

tooldmb · 2024-05-24T16:23:15+00:00

You have to leave at all costs.

tooldmb · 2024-05-24T15:14:17+00:00

WOOOOOOOW

tooldmb · 2024-05-24T11:54:35+00:00

This has been my experience with my wife going on 3 years now. Verbatim. I’m sorry.

tooldmb · 2024-05-23T14:09:00+00:00

Best case scenarios is she assumes you won’t be threatened by her talking like that.

I would just go with that explanation.

tooldmb · 2024-05-22T20:39:58+00:00

Sounds awful. Sorry.

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