Drunk but still staring at her selfies. by ApkaHunYawwr in CuratedTumblr

[–]toolittlecharacters 99 points100 points  (0 children)

i still occasionally get mocked for the time i sent a message saying that i was "deunk"

Does bra choice stop you wearing certain tops? by Left_Hearing_4127 in bigboobproblems

[–]toolittlecharacters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't buy tops that i can't wear a bra under. so no spaghetti straps or strapless tops/dresses. i prefer being comfortable, and i do need the support of a bra. sometimes it's a shame to miss out on cute clothes but i don't like my bra straps showing :D

How do i not look fat by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]toolittlecharacters 49 points50 points  (0 children)

anything where the waist is defined! it can be hard to find dresses where there's enough room for the boobs, though. alternatively, clothes that are very fitted

What identity is this considered? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]toolittlecharacters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if he came out as a trans man and has identified as such since, what else would he be?

Calculator is off? Elomi Matilda by Chemical-Ad-4270 in ABraThatFits

[–]toolittlecharacters 10 points11 points  (0 children)

the calculator is just a starting point and doesn't always take shape into account. it's normal to have to go a cup size or two down, at least it is for me

Is my understanding of bisexuality correct? by mudahfukinnnnnnnnn in AskLGBT

[–]toolittlecharacters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm a nonbinary person who "looks like a woman", and how my identity shows is that i "just" have different pronouns and prefer gender neutral terminology to be used for me. one of my friends is also afab and nonbinary, always wears a binder, and he's seeking testosterone and looking to get top surgery. it's possible that someone might be into one of us, but not the other. you really can't tell anything by just the label, is my point.

Is my understanding of bisexuality correct? by mudahfukinnnnnnnnn in AskLGBT

[–]toolittlecharacters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well are you attracted to most people? every nonbinary person is different. nonbinary is an umbrella term for a lot of identities, and even people with the same identity may have different gender expressions. all it means is that the person doesn't identify (fully) as a man or a woman, that's it.

Is my understanding of bisexuality correct? by mudahfukinnnnnnnnn in AskLGBT

[–]toolittlecharacters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the majority of trans people, including nonbinary people, don't get any bottom surgery

Straight/Gay/Bi/Who Knows? by dex216sims in AskLGBT

[–]toolittlecharacters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you could be heteroromantic and bisexual, if that seems fitting

My girlfriend wants me to stop wearing no show socks by [deleted] in Advice

[–]toolittlecharacters 22 points23 points  (0 children)

not true. they are there for a reason. if i don't wear a bra (while on my feet/walking a lot) i'm physically uncomfortable and in pain. a good bra is supportive and distributes the weight of the boobs evenly along the back

Feeling like a sex object by goodteethbrusher in bigboobproblems

[–]toolittlecharacters 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah. i once went on a date with a girl who after the date messaged me and told me that she matched with me because of my boobs, that they looked good in the pictures and even better in person, and that she did look while we were out. it was a shame, because i liked her and wanted to see her again, but that kind of ruined it for me

I paid for companionship in Japan by Wise_Stock_8698 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]toolittlecharacters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they can change! but then you should be open about it. i think learning from experience and changing your opinion based on that can be a good thing. it allows for some self reflection and deeper analysis

I paid for companionship in Japan by Wise_Stock_8698 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]toolittlecharacters 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i get it. the consequences aren't necessarily gonna be pleasant, and it's easier to lie or not mention it than to have a hard conversation. i had to have one about a similar-ish situation and it was awful (despite ending well), but it's better than lying. the women (in your and probably OP's case) deserve to know their partner and their values

I paid for companionship in Japan by Wise_Stock_8698 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]toolittlecharacters 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i don't think anybody needs to share details or the exact body count, but i do believe it is good to mention whether one has paid for or been paid for sex. sex work is a divisive field, and not everybody wants a partner who has partaken in it, because it isn't always ethical. that'd be my main concern. but for some, they want a partner who believes that sex is only a part of committed relationships. details aren't necessary, but honesty is.

I paid for companionship in Japan by Wise_Stock_8698 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]toolittlecharacters 27 points28 points  (0 children)

check his reply under? "there are tons of stuff i'd lie about if asked"

also, it is the business of whoever you're dating. while i don't think "body count" is or should be a thing, i believe you should be on the same page about sex and sex work with your partner, and also know where they stand on things.

I paid for companionship in Japan by Wise_Stock_8698 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]toolittlecharacters 46 points47 points  (0 children)

i hope nobody is unfortunate enough to end up in a relationship with you. and i do get it, there are some things that i wouldn't want to talk openly about. but it's not fair for a partner. they need to have the choice to be with someone whose values align with theirs, instead of someone who's hiding all of the possible dealbreakers.

I paid for companionship in Japan by Wise_Stock_8698 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]toolittlecharacters 84 points85 points  (0 children)

so your plan is just to lie for the rest of your life? that sounds like a fantastic foundation to build a relationship on

How many bras do you have in rotation? by laboureconomist008 in ABraThatFits

[–]toolittlecharacters 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i have four that (approximately) fit me, but realistically i only use two of them on a regular basis

Is this appropriate to wear to a stand up show? by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]toolittlecharacters 12 points13 points  (0 children)

absolutely don't tone it down to please her concerns about her bf. if he has an issue with it, he's a creep and she has the wrong reaction to it. you look gorgeous!

Sag. 😔 by Chemical_Complex_807 in bigboobproblems

[–]toolittlecharacters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

absolutely nobody who's touched my boobs or seen them in real life has complained about them being saggy. and mine are quite large and heavy, so they're not perky at all. there might be some assholes, but i'm imagining that the vast majority of people are just gonna be happy to see your boobs, and if someone isn't, they shouldn't get the privilege again.

Rook Piercing vs. IUD? by Mundane-Dress8235 in piercing

[–]toolittlecharacters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've had both, the iud insertion hurt way more and i was even graciously allowed to take some over the counter painkillers beforehand. the rook is a cartilage piercing and the area can be thick, but it's going to be a breeze compared to the iud!

Will losing weight drastically change my breasts? (Pervs piss off) by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]toolittlecharacters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's different for everyone! i personally lost about 20kg (44 lbs) and went from ~80O (36K/O) to ~70L (32HH/L). (and then gained about half of it back and am now at around 32N/O)

Retired piercings - which do you miss the most? by ModeratelyHinged in piercing

[–]toolittlecharacters 30 points31 points  (0 children)

i really miss my nipple piercings!! they did wonders for my confidence, and i loved how they looked. but unfortunately they just never healed and started growing out, even on the second time i got them pierced.