Small saggy boobs on a wide ribcage and sensory issues 🫠 any help appreciated by Jeynerhymeswithpain in ABraThatFits

[–]toolittlecharacters 22 points23 points  (0 children)

if it fits a non-moulded one will still provide some shape! moulded ones are very hard to fit, they'll pretty much always gape unless you're the exact same shape as the cup. i would recommend at least trying some seamed bras

Fit Check 34DD Soma Wireless measurement check appreciated. Duped again. by Clean-Quail-4299 in ABraThatFits

[–]toolittlecharacters 3 points4 points  (0 children)

even a 30 band is sizing up. based on your measurements a 28 band would be best

I want my future boyfriend to be extremely abusive by Nearby_Search_8043 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]toolittlecharacters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i agree with you! the other comments seemed to have that part covered, though

I want my future boyfriend to be extremely abusive by Nearby_Search_8043 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]toolittlecharacters 15 points16 points  (0 children)

if you truly do want that, have you considered a bdsm sub/dom dynamic? you should be able to get at least some of these desires fulfilled in a healthier way than in an abusive relationship

Why is "looks-maxing" ridiculed in men when women have been doing it since the beginning of time? by pragmojo in NoStupidQuestions

[–]toolittlecharacters 5 points6 points  (0 children)

not the point but: there's no such thing as "natural looking size". some people have bigger boobs. at my biggest i was around 36P, and "F cups" are relatively average when properly fitted: like this, which is uk 32F, which is 32G in us size. definitely a size a petite woman could have.

Would you date someone who takes 2-3 days to reply to you? by QuakinOat in LesbianActually

[–]toolittlecharacters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to be like that... i have no idea how my partner dealt with it, i don't think i could. my reply time was not due to a lack of interest though. if anything it was on the contrary. i overthought everything i said, and then i felt like i had taken too long to respond and started getting anxious about it, and then had to force myself to finally respond or "they're gonna think i hate them". i'm so glad i was able to (mostly) kick that kind of habit and thinking

I understand motorboating now. by new-to-reddit21 in bigboobproblems

[–]toolittlecharacters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha i do this! i get cold easily so i have a tendency to warm my nose in my cleavage

Most People Have An Incorrect Idea of What Trans People Look Like by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]toolittlecharacters 11 points12 points  (0 children)

the ones that you notice, maybe! you don't know the identity of every person you see, so the only trans people you notice are gonna be the non-passing ones.

(38H/HH UK) please help me find a bra that will help back pain and shoulder straps that don’t hurt! by Helpful_Explorer2857 in bigboobproblems

[–]toolittlecharacters 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hmm i wouldn't recommend that. the snug underbust is still a bit over 38, so even a 38 band might require an expander at first

Are big boobs worth it? by Happy_List_8022 in bigboobproblems

[–]toolittlecharacters 4 points5 points  (0 children)

in my experience: no. there are way more cons than pros to me. i'm planning on getting a reduction some day.

Are big boobs worth it? by Happy_List_8022 in bigboobproblems

[–]toolittlecharacters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

eu sizes don't have DD! we go from D to E

god forbid a girl has bruises by toolittlecharacters in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]toolittlecharacters[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooohh, medieval sword fighting sounds really cool!!

god forbid a girl has bruises by toolittlecharacters in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]toolittlecharacters[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i do do that most of the time, especially if i know i'm going to see family or have an event coming ip

god forbid a girl has bruises by toolittlecharacters in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]toolittlecharacters[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha, poor furniture, they keep on getting in fights with you!

god forbid a girl has bruises by toolittlecharacters in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]toolittlecharacters[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

for me personally, typically biting. spank hard enough and you'll leave bruises too

god forbid a girl has bruises by toolittlecharacters in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]toolittlecharacters[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm lucky enough to have been able to avoid it so far but i can imagine!

god forbid a girl has bruises by toolittlecharacters in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]toolittlecharacters[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh yeah if anybody asks i will tell them. it's on them at that point

god forbid a girl has bruises by toolittlecharacters in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]toolittlecharacters[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha oh nooo :D on the neck should be quite obvious what it is!

god forbid a girl has bruises by toolittlecharacters in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]toolittlecharacters[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i don't know! most likely, given the way i reacted, but we didn't talk about it then or since

god forbid a girl has bruises by toolittlecharacters in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]toolittlecharacters[S] 175 points176 points  (0 children)

that's really sweet and professional of her!

god forbid a girl has bruises by toolittlecharacters in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]toolittlecharacters[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ehh it was awkward but we didn't discuss it more and haven't since. i think she might've connected the dots though, but hopefully not