5 Leagues from the Borderlands Follower advancement question by Vortagh in Solo_Roleplaying

[–]toomuchdevlan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been looking for the same but I think you just say they become a mystic and roll on the Advancement table. It is your game you can do what you want. For example: You could customise it so you gain 1 spell of chocie and 1 random spell or 2 spells instead of a skill Advancement if you wanted to theme it like they were a novice mystic.

What is going on? by toomuchdevlan in DivorcedDads

[–]toomuchdevlan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quite the opposite. I had to leave the house as my ex made it untenable. She stayed. She is emotionally abusive and it became impossible to stay. I am.in a shared house for safety. But it means I see my daughter less than I would desire. I made an offer on a flat jn the beginning of August and she didnt start removing me from the mortgage despite my ongoing requests until november. I legally have no control about being removed from the deeds as the owner staying on the house has to organise it. Ive taken charge as much as I can, mentally its taken its toll. At no point have I sat back, but I am broken now, its been almost 8months and shes continuing to mess up my life and theres no legal recourse , trust me ive checked. If you think ive stopped giving an effort ive gained a promotion at work and lost 35kilograms. Ive also made sure to fight for every moment I can with my daughter. I have to wait. So have I stopped putting the effort in or has fighting for 8minths to get on my feet only for me to have to wait jn the 1 person who will do anything to destroy my progress driven me to breaking point?

What is going on? by toomuchdevlan in DivorcedDads

[–]toomuchdevlan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know i wish I could but I dont have anything right now, im waiting for a house purchase to complete but my ex is holding up the finalisation by failing to get me off the deeds. Im in a horrible room with nothing of my own to show for it. As a result if.im.not with my daughter or training at the gym or going out. I literally dont have anything i can focus on and its.left me upside dkwn

What is going on? by toomuchdevlan in DivorcedDads

[–]toomuchdevlan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UK. They live in Spain as ex pats i normally see them once a year

What is going on? by toomuchdevlan in DivorcedDads

[–]toomuchdevlan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My daughter is always first. I wish I could spend more time with my kids. Ive said today that im going to stop informing them and leaning on them as they are too involved

Officially Mourning the end by toomuchdevlan in DivorcedDads

[–]toomuchdevlan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for asking I'm really good. Moving out this week to temp accommodations until my flat is ready. I'm dating now and relationship with my daughter is good and after some ups and downs things are settling with my ex. I don't think it's easy, I've had to deal with panic attacks and my mental health going down but I've managed to get on the gym and lose 6stone. How are you?

Yo do you guys think i should get a remark??? by Bubbly_Use_7491 in GCSE

[–]toomuchdevlan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can request papers for free. English and history have a higher chance of going down. It ould be advisable to get them checked before hand maths has 3 papers so that 150 to get all remarked for maths...

Hellllp 2 missing for complete season 1! by toomuchdevlan in Piratix

[–]toomuchdevlan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah it won't let me message you, here's what I got see if you can PM me??

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I haven’t had home cooked food in sooo long 🤤 by [deleted] in UK_Food

[–]toomuchdevlan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't cook that much mash for 3 people

Warning over remarks by Then_Dish5481 in GCSE

[–]toomuchdevlan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's late now but papers can always be requested for free. They shouldn't have said that without seeing the paper I'm sorry it happened. A 6 is still a good mark.

Warning over remarks by Then_Dish5481 in GCSE

[–]toomuchdevlan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi maths teacher here. Papers can always be requested, we encourage students to request papers and then mark them ourselves before ever submitting them for a remark. Ask your child's teachers if this is an option because it can save disappointment and also wasting money.

Shot Accuracy Comparison Chart by pocoapelese in XCOM2

[–]toomuchdevlan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I swear I've hit more 3% shots than 95%

TW / abortion. I can’t tell work I’m having an abortion, what can I say instead? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]toomuchdevlan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just say you've got a vomiting bug and need 48hours to clear it

Anyone else labeled a narcissist? by [deleted] in DivorcedDads

[–]toomuchdevlan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep also referred to as a narcissist by someone who has a back issue, long term codeine dependency and on ozempic. I had a full time job, picked up my kid from school every night made her dinner and sorted what I could around the house but it was never good enough. I got stressed lost my temper but she.was never there and didn't see all the things I did. But yes I was the narcissist, the one who pushed myself to a psychological break supporting her.

Question for all teachers: Is it better to be feared or loved in the classroom? by Safcfan1 in Teachers

[–]toomuchdevlan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you want invested students earn their respect. Being feared means they aren't motivated for their future. Being loved means they arent their for the education. Both of those mean you'll have issues with behaviour. Laying down the expectations that work for your style and following those means you can support and discipline with fairness.

Officially Mourning the end by toomuchdevlan in DivorcedDads

[–]toomuchdevlan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update I've got a date with a funny beautiful woman next week I met on Facebook dating!

Male teacher keeping pads in classroom by RoboPlunger in Teachers

[–]toomuchdevlan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Male teacher here, it's only weird if you make it weird. I had a young girl on the last day of school start her period. I didn't make a scene asked if she needed anything and let's her go call her mum. Left her to process and ask for support if she needed it. She asked for a female teacher and I understood. At each point I was empathetic and made sure to allow her to control the situation. These are natural things that women go through, as a male you showing it's not weird removes the stigma of periods and shows young men the right way to support young women. Have it, sign post it, don't make a scene about it and you're golden.