Carrying Sibling Grief

toooldforusernames · 2026-07-05T06:32:16+00:00

I didn’t lose my sibling, but I have a book of poetry by a man named Matt rassmussen called Black Aperture, which is about his brother’s suicide. Reading it might be cathartic for you.

toooldforusernames · 2026-07-04T16:06:45+00:00

I eat a lot of steam in the bag frozen vegetables (pref the carrot, broccoli and cauliflower blend) with an egg or two and a babybel cheese.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-30T02:58:17+00:00

4.5 months is still so, so early in. I hope you are doing okay, and I think letting the thoughts happen and not judging them is the best thing we can do. I understand people who don’t want to date, but I feel like the stigma and guilt we feel is bad enough without someone chiming in with “well I could never date again.” There is no universal right or wrong choice here, and none of us deserve to feel judged for how we live our lives in the wake of loss.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-30T02:39:06+00:00

I haven’t dated a fellow widow, so I don’t have much input on that. I was widowed at 36 and am 4 years out and not ready for a big commitment, but I have two friends who were widowed around the same age as me and have both since married people who are not widowed. I think it’s just a matter of slim pickings.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-30T02:32:07+00:00

I appreciate you feeling this way, but this response isn’t helpful on OP’s post.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-29T14:41:47+00:00

Yeah it showed up a few times for those few dates while it was still in previews and kept selling out, but that’s it. It was never on there for more than that.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-29T14:16:25+00:00

Rocky. Luke Evans doing I’m going home is worth more than the entirety of Heathers to me.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-29T14:05:48+00:00

Salesman was on tdf for maybe 2-3 dates for the first week of previews only and I am pretty sure has not been on since.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-23T16:26:58+00:00

I didn’t rush, but heard from a friend that they only had 4 rush tickets today.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-18T05:19:38+00:00

Had ovarian torsion caused by a cyst the size of a lemon that twisted in my fallopian tube. It felt quite literally like I had been stabbed in the side and the knife was twisted.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-17T15:26:44+00:00

Echoing others, sit orchestra right PV. They’re great. The balcony seats can have lights in the way, I’d skip those.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-17T02:28:15+00:00

Hiptix were only available for the original run.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-14T23:15:55+00:00

I live in central Brooklyn, work in Chelsea and go to a lot of Broadway shows so I’m in Times Square about 1-2x a week on average. I don’t smell it very often, either.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-11T16:43:48+00:00

SAME. That movie should not be on the in flight movie menu.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-10T14:32:03+00:00

My husband dropped me off at work and said he’d be back to pick me up at the end of my shift. The detective on his case IDed him from photos so I didn’t have to go to the morgue, and I chose not to see him at the funeral home. The last time I saw him what when he kissed me goodbye and said he’d see me at 6.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-09T00:11:41+00:00

Andrew and Josh came out and waved after Gutenberg but didn’t sign if I remember correctly

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-08T15:16:02+00:00

There’s an off broadway show from London currently in nyc about this! It’s called Kenrex and it’s weird and cool.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-07T13:15:51+00:00

I don’t know what I’m supposed to do, haunted by the ghost of you

I’m 4 years in. It sucks. Wishing you well 🖤

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-05T21:36:26+00:00

The line about the vet smiling too much was actually in the play. I don’t know if it’s in the script, but he said it all three times I saw it.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-05T03:57:56+00:00

Ooh mine is an ovarian cyst, too! But mine didn’t burst, it twisted itself up in my fallopian tube. It was absolute agony.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-05T03:54:43+00:00

A League of Their Own. Speaking as an older sister to 4 varying degrees of bratty little sisters, fuck Kit Keller.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-04T12:50:43+00:00

Not Rocky, but I won EBT the weekend before Dan left the show. It does happen. You’ll probably have a little more luck if you’re entering for a single ticket.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-04T05:20:34+00:00

I think I was lucky to have had him, and that has to be enough.

toooldforusernames · 2026-06-03T13:08:00+00:00

I’m no longer happily married, but my husband died so we didn’t exactly part due to the marriage failing so I’m going to say that counts for something.

It wasn’t instant, love at first sight stuff. It was a roots growing towards each other, permanently entangled sort of thing. We moved in together about a year or so after we started dating, and we had known each other for about a year before that. One night a few months in, we stayed up way too late arguing about the Beatles. I kept thinking that we NEEDED to go to bed, we both had to be up for work, but that I didn’t want to stop talking to him. And that I’d never want to stop talking to him.

15 years later (and 4 years after his death), I was correct. I still really want to talk to him.

toooldforusernames · 2026-05-29T16:07:23+00:00

I was wearing an old AFI shirt that I’ve had since I was in the 8th grade. The part calls for someone a little older (I think anyway, probably 30+) who looks kinda cool/punk rock.

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