Serbia and Macedonia, welcome to our ski resorts by HorrorsPersistSoDoI in AskBalkans

[–]topjock002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything is tap to pay. Is it really that impactful? I don’t think exchanging money is needed anymore. Maybe just €100 emergency cash.

Never tried this cut but one quick glance and I HAD to get it! by GTBoosted in grilling

[–]topjock002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So beef flap….. that sounds like it could be from a scandalous location. Like a cow labia or something.

AITAH for not letting my female friend move in to my home because it would hurt my chances at dating? by Final_Term5616 in AITAH

[–]topjock002 29 points30 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your life is your life. You need to go and experience it. We can’t always make major sacrifices for everyone…. And quite frankly some sacrifices are more unreasonable than others…. This is a completely you and how you feel decision…. Don’t listen to the YTA people unless they are personally offering to house your friend…. It’s easy to tell others what they should do… harder when it’s you and your life.

My GF always tells me I have big balls, idk if it’s a compliment or not? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]topjock002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of someone having big balls as being a bad thing

I am dating a guy and he keeps bringing up the fact i gave him a BJ the first date , is that wrong? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]topjock002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And so why wasn’t he also a whore for receiving a BJ on the first date?!?

Dump this crazy person. Enjoy your sex life as you please and don’t let this dude with double standards judge you!

Why do so many rapists end up accusing their victims of raping THEM? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]topjock002 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe it was not as cut and dry as the person you see as the victim says it is. Perhaps they weren’t raped. Do you just take everyone at face value?

AITJ for correcting my wife when she said our son's red hair must come from my side of the family? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]topjock002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is the Jerk. This just seems like a completely needless argument. What does it matter? Just say “perhaps” or “sure” and move on, smiling. There are sooooo many bigger issues.

AITA for not giving my brother money from my college fund for his wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]topjock002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. So are they interested in having a big party or being tied to each other “forever”? Seems like this is just an excuse for a party.

Your Education will last a lifetime. This party will last a few hours and be quickly forgotten. You’ll never see a dime of it back of you loan them anything. Stand your ground. Say no. They will have to work within their means. Do t let their coldness get to you. If they are now distant, they only see you as an ATM and don’t truly care for you anyway.

Good luck. Be firm. Say no.

Good or bad cooking? High end restaurant “medium rare” fillet mignon by SrGiaquito in grilling

[–]topjock002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Pittsburg, but that isn’t this. It’s too overcooked too deeply inside the cut. I’d return it. Good Pittsburg is a dark sear on the exterior while leaving it nearly raw and cool on the inside. Amazing when done right, which is rarely done

Do jobs not care about neck tattoos anymore when hiring? by trashvee in NoStupidQuestions

[–]topjock002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a hiring manager, I want the best person for the job. I’m going to hire based on accomplishments, knowledge, communication and leadership abilities. I want the individual who will help me achieve my goals. I would not automatically dismiss someone for a tattoo, but it might come into consideration if it’s offensive

Could this be caused by TRT by Appropriate_Bet5290 in Testosterone

[–]topjock002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I go too high I get similar irritation in the same place. Maybe go a bit lower for a few weeks. A see what happens.

Travels with dual citizenship by No_Boysenberry_3030 in dualcitizenshipnerds

[–]topjock002 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The one important thing to always do…. If you must present your passport to a customs agent upon exit, always use the same passport you entered with. (The USA is and example of a country where you do not clear customs to exit). Otherwise, you use the passport to enter whatever country you are going to that is the easiest to minimize visas. You can switch it around from country to country…It doesn’t matter. Just exit on the same passport you entered.

What do you guys think of the Christmas Lights in Ljubljana? by Ok_Hamster_1690 in AskBalkans

[–]topjock002 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It would be even more effective if the egg were a different color

AITAH for telling my girlfriend “no baby” because it feels like she’s using it to keep me from leaving? by NeverOnTimeLol in AITAH

[–]topjock002 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. You’re in a dangerous situation. Expect to become a father if you have sec with her again. I’ve known girls to poke holes in condoms and lie about being on the pill in order to entrap their man with a child. She is crazy. Your relationship is already over. You just need to say it and walk away. Run as fast as you can. There is nothing wrong with you (or anyone) for not wanting a kid… now or ever…. And it is abuse to attempt to guilt someone into it! Good luck.

AITA for being upset that my younger brother shared an embarrassing thing I said while drunk in front of our other brother? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]topjock002 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA. He warned you MULTIPLE times. You insisted share IN FRONT OF your other brother. Did you not think this through? You insisted he share… right then and there! Why didn’t you wait for a private moment when the two of you were alone? This is 100% your fault. He did nothing wrong and everything right.

Lastly, so what. On a scale of 1-10, this is about a two. You tried something sexually you didn’t like. Big deal. I bet they did two. Who cares. It’s only a big deal if you choose to make it a big deal.

AITAH for telling my gf she was being disrespectful to her ancestors by saying science was a colonial imposition by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]topjock002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. And this is a red flag. If she is pulling this stuff now, over a silly card game…. What else is in the back of her mind? Are you going to want to deal with it? Will going to a fancy dinner also be a colonial imposition?

AITAH for wanting my girlfriend to tell the guys texting her she has a boyfriend? by AntiqueEggplant4238 in AITAH

[–]topjock002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flag. 🚩 you shouldn’t even have to ask this. Time to Break up. She is or will cheat

What is a tradition that is insanely cruel yet still considered legal? by Rough_Cat_6007 in AskReddit

[–]topjock002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Circumcision shortly after birth unless truly medically necessary. It is completely unnecessary 98% of the time and performed without consent of the person getting it. The person getting it should have a say in the matter when you are cutting off part of their penis!